Will You Be Their Neighbor?

I have long stated that I have found the state of the schools here in Nashville surreal.  There is a great explaining how they were devised and configured to be largely these behemoths of segregated piles of shit but there are major cultural issues at play here that enable and allow it to continue. And again that is money.  Money is the ruling class element and in turn it defines you and the access and availability that enables you to retain your status and in turn your ability to move up the ladder of that unicorn of meritocracy.

Now in Seattle until the Gates and then the Bezos’ decided to bestow their fortunes upon the area, it was a working class town.  The issue of busing raised its head and it lead to the closing of schools and of course racial dynamics that never truly eradicated as it was in other cities where busing was mandated.  Seattle is by far more passive aggressive and they worked around it for decades by establishing the most prominent school academically in the most “urban” of areas and for years Garfield defined what it meant to be a school within a school.  A school in largely a black neighborhood, with high achieving academic programs and students who clamored to get in to the halls once in were clearly in classes with cohorts who looked and spoke just like them.  The colors may vary but the ultimate character and quality remained consistent and again divided by the ability to access what one needed to make those programs available.  It is a fairly common practice and in Nashville it is the Magnet schools with lottery’s test scores and other games of chance that determine who gets in or more importantly stays out.   They are a world of change here regardless as they almost all have on thing in common – poverty.   The middle class that cannot afford private strive to get their kids into MLK or Hume Fogg and that is the extent of diversity in these schools. In Seattle it was diverse and anyone wealthy went to Lakeside and the rest moved to Bellevue.  The working class in Seattle have a unique cut to their cloth as they embrace the kinte but it is made of  100% organic cotton

So taking myself out of Seattle where I saw its flaws and its good points too moving to Nashville truly shook me to the core when I walked into these schools and it is disgraceful at best horrific at worst.  There are distinct cultural issues at play here and I have little understanding nor actual interest into trying to overcome them.  This is poverty and race in a mutual co-existence that defies understanding and frankly it took me a long while to enable myself to accept that as a truth.  It is all across our country now and it is demonstrated by the outlandish political divides by party affiliation, by sexual mores and conduct, by education and by money.  But race is always there to ensure that whatever line is drawn it is drawn with race right down the middle.  And we’re off!

So I was rather surprised and not that Seattle was a testing ground for the study on where one lives determines one fate and by simple lines along a map that literally crossing the street could ultimately decide what the long term economic prospects would be for you and your family.    Knowing Seattle as I do I found none of the neighborhoods all that shocking as many borderline some of the more prominent and well established areas where wealth resided (yes Broadview Thompson is near the Highlands where the Nordstrom family resided and yet the K-8 school is not unlike the dumps I see here so go figure) to Queen Anne where it for years depending on which side let people know you were old family residents or just renters.   Seattle has changed in the last decade and I have lived all over with Madrona the home of myself and Kurt Cobain with one of the McCaw’s of the Cellular new money across the road in a new lakeside property.  Down the road the old money of the walled in enclave lived where now Howard Stern resides.. once living literally across the park in his custom hone but alas notoriety is not what one wants when it is not yours.

And Seattle, unlike Nashville, does not have the plethora of public housing that literally envelops the city core of Nashville.  The city here is ringed by ostensibly housing that defines dumps and generation after generation have lived there while the elite escaped to just outside of said establishments.   There were poorer housing units often subsidized by section 8 housing located in Seattle again adjacent to the more established areas but I never experienced or saw what I did here. And since I have left the most significant of those Alder Terrace has been long torn down and purchased by Paul Allen and remade into “affordable mixed unit housing”

Seattle red lined and they acted as if that was not anything but an oversight or error that time would self correct.  Yeah sure.  But when I moved to the last area of mixed “unofficial” housing soon became gentrified as the Amazon flowed into all tributaries.  But for most of my growing up years I knew the “hood” the “working class” the “middle class” and the “rich” areas and other than the gated Madison Park community they were accessible and available by public transit.  And that alone is why Nashville is against public transit they are sure that was once not accessible nor available would be.  That way they don’t have to red line and overtly discriminate on housing it just enabled it to be as it is – heavily segregated and divided.

But the study is showing that is more than busing a kid across town to a school hours from his/her home and that living and working and going to school in your neighborhood enables you to meet those different, to share and learn and more importantly establish a base network in which allows you to be seen from a larger sphere.  And that too builds esteem, builds positive vibrations that carry out with you, you know that fundamental self esteem thing that Mr. Rogers tried to instill. Opening one’s hearts and minds is one thing, doors however truly make a difference.

Aging Badly

The cover of the Styles section of The New York Times had an article in print called, Too Old? You Mean Fabulous.  Funny how they re-titled the same article for online called The Glamorous Grandmas of  Instagram.  Really?  If you read the article some of the women identify as a Grandmother but they don’t consider themselves traditionally Grandmotherly, which was the point of the article that I read.  Even the subtitle changed from Women Over 60 with sass and riveting style are Instagram stars.  Funny now it is apparently “subversive” to not ‘traditionally’ age.  And then promptly explains that our image and concept of aging is outdated and is changing as we change and transition into age.

“Age no longer dictates the way we live. Physical capacity, financial circumstances and mind-set arguably have far greater influence.”

A woman in her 50s, then, “might be a grandmother or a new mother,” the study goes on to say. “She might be an entrepreneur, a wild motorcyclist or a multi-marathon runner. Her lifestyle is not governed by her age but by her values and the things she cares about.” Some of these women and their counterparts abroad are still subscribing to the counterculture values and maverick stance they adopted in the 1960s and ’70s.

So why the title change?  Why classify women over 60 as Grandmothers or are choosing to be chic in their senior years, search out and employ methods to belong via social media and in turn are embracing age in ways that are less in the shadows and more in the forefront.

Also overlooked is their social media savvy. Eschewing stereotypes, 73 percent of participants “hate the way their generation is patronized when it comes to technology,” the report says. Six out of 10 say they find tech “fascinating,” according to the report, and many of those may actually be more competent using tech than their younger counterparts.

 Well Boomers are aging and they dying off and now the Millennials are the du jour cohort to embrace as they are the largest sector of population and will be entirely responsible for the economy in the decades to come thanks to declining birth rates.  So to that I say knock yourself up MeMe’s and make sure I get that Social Security check and Medicare I so need and want.  I cannot for the life of me understand why I can get Social Security at 62 but must wait three more years to get the Medicare?  If I am retired and not working I should be covered right?  Wrong and so I will work until I die just in the parameters of SS in order to retain the benefit.  I loathe working full time but I always did so now I have to go to part time and it cannot come soon enough – four years and counting! 

The other day I was at Dilliards talking to the salesperson as I was buying just ordinary underwear, neither granny nor sex kitten just underwear and in the exchange the clerk said:  “I see myself in the future talking to you.”  And I warned her that it is wonderfully freeing to be independent, secure, confident and without obligations, it also costs a great deal in ways that I had not anticipated 30 years ago.   If I had not married well and divorced even moreso I would be a clerk or a Teacher living hand to mouth but I am pretty sure the person I am, loud, abrasively honest and just me.  I may not have been nearly killed by a younger man six years ago, I may have married and still be so, I don’t think I would have ever capitulated on the bearing kids thing but hey you never know.. but no. To this day this is something I am relieved and grateful I did not.  But I wish I was better at intimacy and securing a long term relationship with a man in my peer group.  I told this same young woman that I see the point of men and in turn it is the point you make and in turn the one you want which you will have to sacrifice in order to have one in your life.  Men do not do well with women who have their own mind. 

And the same paper again last week had a massive article on how women give up their professional careers, wages and job growth when they are pregnant regardless of the employer, be it Walmart or Wall Street.  Once a woman chooses to have a baby she is labeled and marginalized by her employer and in turn her work life becomes one direction, down.  Everyone loves a mother, at home, not work.  Another story I heard on BBC this last week was about social personal boundaries regarding work and home life. This story in The Atlantic in 2016 confirms the same.  And regardless of income again women do the most amount of house keeping and child care even when in a two partner relationship. What was more shocking was that the more money the woman earned the more responsibility she takes on in the home as a way of over compensating to maintain order and the relationship. So there you go – be dumber and poorer and keep a good house.  Making America Great Again… via Betty Crocker, Good Housekeeping and Better Home and Gardens.  1950 is back people!

A few months ago I read an article in the same paper about adult orphans and the problems they face (as that would also be me) in living alone, long term planning for care and other social emotional issues faced by those aging and alone.  And that is another issue that I face myself, alone again naturally.   Women are not dynamos or thought of as interesting, chic or fashionable unless they live in New York City.  I live in Nashville and this is where aging is done in a church pew, over a stove making biscuits or egg dishes and in turn wearing utterly unattractive attire regardless of age, however, as this is surreal to see how they seem to think maxi dresses and chunky shoes are the new cover on WWD.  If you think wearing what you like and feel comfortable in includes athlesisure wear which I live in think again.  Not once but twice at Barre3 classes this last week I was “complimented” on my flare yoga pants. The two women said they loved them and wished they would come back in fashion so they can wear them. I said, “I don’t care about what is in or out in regards to exercise, as I approach 60 this is the last place I care about what I look like.  And by the way I bought these online about a month ago at Prana.”  One laughed the other goes I will go there right away.   For fuck’s sake this is a Barre3 class not Project Runway.  It’s like skinny jeans, if you are not skinny don’t wear them.  

I again as I said in the last blog post about Pride and why I chose not to participate was largely due to the lack of courtesy extended to me on the occasions that I went to the local bars of which I am truly a local and was ignored and duly bored.  One does not go to a bar to sit alone and drink and I can do that at home thankyouverymuch.   This community does not want strangers in their midst unless there is a check involved.   Hence the invites to Church, less about salvation but more about restitution.  In the Churches I visited that was clear and I did drop my $5 bucks in the kitty as I would in a Honky Tonk, the singers are always entertaining in that same way a Pastor and Choir are.  The songs and words however are forgotten once you vacate the premise.  The reality is that for this Christian place and the whole bullshit of Nashville nice and Southern Hospitality is just that bullshit.  This idea that a bunch of aging granny’s are hot, fun and chic are just that on paper.  In real life who are their friends, what is their life like and what do they do to feel wanted, important and active other than posting on social media.  Again that is just another way of aging badly. 

Can I Get a Witness ?

The other day I went to see a movie called First Reformed.  This is a story about a minister (played by Ethan Hawke)  in a small church, (the location is Albany County in upstate New York) working in the shadow of a much larger megachurch, manned by a political savvy minister (played by no less Cedric the Entertainer).  He finds himself counseling a woman and her husband recently released from prison for committing crimes related to his environmental activism.  As a result of this  and his own demons that brought him to the church in the first place, he descends into a dark night of the soul brought on partly by a growing feeling that what he’s believed isn’t a sufficient answer for the struggles of the world in which he lives.  It perhaps is the most evocative film made about the subject of the role of the Church with regards to the environment in which it serves and those who reside in said environment all while the role of money and patronage of the Church is truly what enables their existence, so which master does it serve?

Living here in the Bible Belt I don’t know anyone who doesn’t have issues with Jesus.  And by issues I mean that the idea that he was the son of God and that he died for our sins.  Okay sure.  I love mythology and stories and I am a great believer that if you are willing to die for your beliefs then you deserve my respect even when I don’t agree with said beliefs.  I urge many to see this amazingly intense film that gives no answers but asks many questions.

The role of the Evangelical movement behind the Trump Debacle only further fuels the debate about the role of money, patronage and the idea that the words of Christianity are in often direct contradiction from what currently is transpiring with regards to the separation of children from their parents when they are seeking refuge in America.   There is no one who is truly and advocate of faith regardless of the type of religion they follow could possibly understand and support this.  Throw in the Atheists and Agnostics as well as they could simply use reason and compassion to comprehend why this sick policy is utterly outrageous and horrific.

What is even more disturbing is that the daughter of the Evangelical shape shifter, Mike Huckabee, had the audacity to support this by stating the idea that the Bible supports upholding the law.  This apparently came from the Forrest Trump who also declares that he is super duper Religious and knows the law. Really can I get a witness?

What the fuck happened to the separation of Church and State? Is that not the law? Well sort of kinda of, this according to the Oxford Encyclopedia on American History regarding the First Amendment:

Despite its inclusion in the pantheon of democratic virtues, separation of church and state did not become constitutional canon until the mid-twentieth century with incorporation of the Bill of Right to the states through the Fourteenth Amendment. In the modern Court’s first Establishment Clause holding, Everson v. Board of Education (1947), Justice Hugo Black wrote:

The “establishment of religion” clause of the First Amendment means at least this: Neither a state nor the Federal Government can set up a church. Neither can pass laws which aid one religion, aid all religions, or prefer one religion over another […] No tax in any amount, large or small, can be levied to support any religious activities or institutions, whatever they may be called, or whatever form they may adopt to teach or practice religion […] In the words of Jefferson, the clause against establishment of religion by law was intended to erect “a wall of separation between Church and State.”5

 So as that line seems to be in constant flux I realize that a cluster of people who are largely a minority in this country are in charge of this country and its laws then we are fucked.  As again living in the Bible belt I see the hypocrisy and bullshit on a daily basis.   Few have managed to lie as well as they do here and all with a smile and a bless you’re heart as an admonishment versus a blessing.  It is fucking terrifying when you realize how stupid these people are.  Again, I work in the schools which confirms this in ways that again is equally terrifying.  Look to our voting registration and percentage to confirm again how idiotic and dangerous they are.  Right now in Tennessee 1/3 of the population vote and look at the dipshits currently in Tennessee offices of law making. Diane Black anyone?

The New York Times did an amazing article on detention camp/prison/housing located in a former Walmart super center in Texas.   Please read this piece.  This facility  is run by a private company and at one point refused to allow a United States Center entrance.  And when the finally admitted the Press and others to tour these “facilities” they were equally concerned as to what they witnessed. 

The reality is that is not about Christian faith and charity but about inherent racism and xenophobia.  This is the Trump Doctrine and while Obama clearly deported more Immigrants than any other President in History, Trump in his insatiable need to trump Obama has found a way to do so by being utterly abusive and egregious in manners that I cannot say I have ever seen or read about in a Democracy.  Can I get a Witness?

You Can’t Be Pro-Life and Against Immigrant Children

By Charles C. Camosy
Mr. Camosy is a board member of Democrats for Life.

The New York Times/Opinion/ June 16, 2018

What does “pro-life, pro-family” really mean?

The idea behind that phrase has long been an important organizing principle for pro-life groups like Focus on the Family and the Family Research Council.

For many who work for these organizations — or who vote for candidates endorsed by them — being “pro-life, pro-family” is not a euphemism for opposing abortion and same-sex marriage. It acknowledges that protecting children, including ones not yet born, often requires protecting and supporting their mothers and families too.

We are in the midst of a serious crisis for vulnerable children and families, though, and these “pro-life, pro-family” organizations have been largely silent.

The crisis is the Trump administration’s practice of separating children from undocumented parents, even when the families are asking for asylum. In one particularly horrific case, a mother said that her baby was taken from her while she was breast-feeding.

The number of children being taken is so large that the administration, using the fear these children must feel as a means of deterring undocumented immigration, is apparently building “tent cities” around military bases to house them.

Given their support of the administration, and an unwillingness to speak critically about immigration policy, “pro-life, pro-family” organizations now risk being tied to these and other horrific practices.

Some church groups and leaders have followed their broad pro-life commitments in condemning these practices. Evangelical leaders like Russell Moore and Samuel Rodriguez have signed a public letter of protest to the administration. “The traumatic effects of this separation on these young children, which could be devastating and long-lasting, are of utmost concern,” they wrote.

On Wednesday, Cardinal Daniel DiNardo, president of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, denounced the Trump administration’s immigration policy. “We urge courts and policymakers to respect and enhance, not erode, the potential of our asylum system to preserve and protect the right to life,” he said.

Catholic bishops in border states and cities have been particularly scathing. “Separating immigrant parents and children as a supposed deterrent to immigration is a cruel and reprehensible policy,” Bishop Daniel Flores of Brownsville, Tex., recently wrote.

During the 2016 presidential campaign, I spoke with Bishop Flores about mass deportation. He called the policies intrinsically evil. Because it regularly forces children into places where their lives are under threat, Bishop Flores argued, it is “not unlike driving someone to an abortion clinic.”

So why can’t the biggest pro-life organizations join these religious leaders in condemning the administration’s treatment of children?

Where is National Right to Life? Where is the Susan B. Anthony List?

The leadership of the Susan B. Anthony List, one of the most powerful pro-life groups in the country, originally had harsh things to say about Donald Trump as a candidate. They were “disgusted” by the way he treated people, and “women, in particular.” It was “anyone but Donald Trump.”

But after his nomination, the group promoted him as someone its supporters should vote for. Going well beyond “the lesser of two evils” language, it even made Mr. Trump the keynote speaker at its annual gala last month.

It is true that the president’s nominee for the Supreme Court, Neil Gorsuch, seems likely to be anti-abortion, as do several federal judges who have been confirmed under Mr. Trump. His appointments and policies with respect to the Department of Health and Human Services have been similarly anti-abortion.

But this is nothing like a turning point for the movement. People opposed to abortion got some short-term gains, all of which could be easily reversed by the next administration, and some judges about whom they must wait and see.

And these modest gains have cost the movement greatly.

In standing by President Trump and his administration — and, indeed, in now honoring him as their standard-bearer — traditional pro-life leaders have put short-term and uncertain political gain ahead of consistent moral principle.

Because of their support of the president and general silence on his administration’s actions, the major players in the pro-life movement are now tethered to his horrific border policies. This presents a real threat to the broader movement’s capacity to be taken seriously by young people and people of color.

The silence on the border policies is not a simple question of groups keeping a focus solely on abortion. Many pro-life organizations also do extensive work opposing euthanasia. There is nothing in principle compelling such organizations to ignore anti-life and anti-family border policies.

If the traditional pro-life movement is to regain credibility as something other than a tool of the Trump administration, it must speak out clearly and forcefully against harming innocent children as a means of deterring undocumented immigration.

These groups have extraordinary access and influence in the White House. They have to use it.

The Trump Suit

Ever played Poker? Gin Rummy?  Ever played Bridge?  What is a Trump hand?

In Poker the best winning hand is the Royal Flush:

A, K, Q, J, 10, all the same suit. 

Bridge:

In bridge, the bidding often designates a suit as the trump suit. If the final contract has a suit associated with it — 4♠, 3♥, 2♦, or even 1♣, for example — that suit becomes the trump suit for the entire hand.

In Gin the card game not the drink:

Gin Rummy, the number of the upcard may further restrict your ability to knock. You can knock only if your total of deadwood is less than or equal to the initial upcard.

Maybe now we have some cards dealt from the deck that might turn the hand into our favor.  So what game are we playing?

Living in a red state where only 30% of the population are educated and vote it shows that the minority can rule the majority and take a look at our Government who we elected – Haslam, Alexander, Blackburn, Corker, Mae Baever (sadly retired), some other right wing crazy fuck, another right wing religious nut and some other sort of kind of liberal person who knows their place by not saying too much.  We have a great Government and the one progressive fucks her Bodyguard and flies to exotic locales on Government bidness” Bless her heart!

Today the news announced that there are concerns we may be like Denver and turn purple with the current upcoming election for Corker’s spot may go to a Democrat!! OH MY!! I would say God but that is taking his blessed name in vain.  What does that really mean? Really?

I love that there are ample Republicans running for the Corker seat but they want him to reconsider and run cause we need a white man in Government and fuck you Marsha Blackburn you bitch and lover of Trump, step aside and let a real man run!   Ain’t Tennessee grand!  I will let you form your own opinion on that one but I live here.

I have said repeatedly that what I see here is the true affects of what poverty and subtle racism can do to young people.  I have never seen anything quite like the violence and behaviors exhibited by these children that are largely children of color which has led me to question my own perceptions about race and in turn how I respond and react to these children.  And then I walk into the all white public school listen to the equally nasty and idiotic remarks, see the same lack of humor and intellect and think:  “Phew, I am not a racist, just a bitch!”  Oddly comforting as I just don’t like the kids here they are mirrors of the adults and again 70% are poorly educated and over 50% are Evangelical so the odds of me liking any of them is slim to none.

So when I saw the Students/Children speak out so vehemently and eloquently about the shooting in Parkland I was amazed. The videos and interviews with the Media were much more succinct in explaining the horror that transpired in that school. The shooter was one of them – White and Male – and he lived in that community and knew those whom he shot at and ultimately killed.  I want to recall that this parallel to Columbine cannot be lost.  A white suburban community, a very large high school, a kid with a history of calls and encounters with Police and the ability to buy guns.  The difference is that the boy in Parkland had no family and that reality combined with lack of connection to anything – the inability to deal with grief, flags thrown down indicating anger issues shows that we have a problem with or without guns thrown into the mix.

But there is on thing for certain having articulate, emotional, angry and yes largely white students stand before cameras, post videos, thoughts and speak about the horrors that transpired that day are finally lending voices to gun control that perhaps we needed.   I want to point out that I am amused if not relieved that every single shooter in these schools are white angry boys.  The reality is that if this kid had a vowel at the end of his name, was a color less white the debate would be entirely different.

Anna Devere Smith’s new play, Notes From the Field,  is being aired on HBO and it is in this production she discusses the school to prison pipeline, the reality what schools can and cannot do,  and the true issues surrounding poverty and how that contributes to the perceptions and more importantly the misconceptions that one has when you encounter children from said homes of poverty.  The illiteracy, the domestic violence, the gun violence, the use of guns and of course sexual exploitation all comes from this and enables, allows and permits those in positions of power to go: “See I told you, they are all like that.”  The use of the vague pronoun and the sheer ability to validate a stereotype while simultaneously ensuring that said stereotype remains for it gives and enables them to retain power is all that matters.

 When playing cards we throw down the hand that is dealt and hence we use the cards to manipulate and confuse other players when we have nothing to play but we still want to win.  Play poker or just watch championship Poker and you will understand.  We all play games, wear armor/costumes, take on a posture to hide our fear or rage and then we can get a gun and resolve that one much easier.

So maybe just maybe the kids may force that hand.  It is better than nothing.  Life is a gamble and I am ready to play.   Let’s just hope they keep our attention on the issue, but then you know kids they have a short attention span.


The students at Florida’s Douglas High are amazing communicators. That could save lives.
By Margaret Sullivan Media Columnist The Washington Post February 17 2018

Parkland student David Hogg: ‘Blood is being spilled on the floors of American classrooms.’

Telegenic and media-savvy is one way to describe David Hogg, a lean and dark-haired senior at Florida’s Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School.

But maybe a better way is this: Change agent.

And what could be more sorely needed than a change agent right now? Because the mass shootings in America have become a horror of repetition in which meaningful change has come to seem impossible.

Enter Hogg. The 17-year-old is the school’s student news director, who not only interviewed his fellow students during the horrific massacre at his school on Wednesday, but then spoke with passion to national media figures, providing footage that has now circled the globe.

In a level gaze directly into CNN’s camera, Hogg called out politicians for their hapless dithering.

“We’re children. You guys are the adults. . . . Work together, come over your politics and get something done,” Hogg said.

Hogg wasn’t the only teenage survivor who demonstrated thoughtfulness and poise this week.

When CBS’s Jeff Glor interviewed four Douglas High students on his evening news show Thursday night, their quiet strength was remarkable.

They didn’t, of course, all have the same message. Two of the students Glor interviewed made the too-familiar case that it is too soon to be entering into political conversations. Another argued for greater gun control. One simply wanted to remind viewers to express love to their tell family and friends while they can.

But what ties them together is their command of the visual medium and their powerful composure amid the worst kind of tragedy.

This seems all the more notable because they are teenagers.

But, in fact, it’s probably their very youth, and the all-digital world of social media — the water they’ve always swum in — that makes it possible

This is the YouTube, the Instagram, the Snapchat generation.

Communicating immediately and effectively is second nature. Even in their pain and fear — no, especially in their pain and fear — they knew what to do.

“They showed not only a familiarity with social media but a remarkable ability to ‘cover’ the events happening in their own lives,” David Clinch, global news editor at Storyful, told me.

That, Clinch said, “gives me some encouragement that this generation is not just able to understand and communicate about what is happening around them but is also putting themselves in a position to control the narrative and make a difference in their own futures.” (Storyful vetted and verified the videos students were producing, many of which then went out into the larger media world.)

In some cases, you could even see or hear Douglas students grappling with their own changing views in real time.

“I don’t even want to be behind a gun,” one girl told a student journalist during the attack, according to The Washington Post.

She said that, despite having rallied for gun rights in the past and having planned to go to a shooting range for her 18th birthday, she had changed her mind: “It’s definitely eye-opening to the fact that we need more gun control in our country.”

Sen. Chris Murphy (D-Conn.), an outspoken critic of congressional inaction on gun control, seemed to think the students could make a difference.

“It’s really tragic that one of the ways our movement grows stronger is by having more victims,” he said, “but that is the reality.”

Of course, the status quo is so corrupted and intransigent that perhaps nothing that is said — including by the transcendent voices of these young survivors — will make a difference. As so many others have observed, even the 2012 massacre of tiny children at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Conn., didn’t create change.

This week, though, feels just a little different.

In the wake of the massacre, students are demanding a more meaningful conversation on gun regulation, Robert Runcie, superintendent of the Broward County schools acknowledged at a news conference Thursday. “I hope we can get it done in this generation,” he said. “But if we don’t, they will.”

The passion, intelligence and credibility of the Douglas High survivors is not going to go away.

“I will not feel hopeful until a majority of Americans are out on the streets demanding change,” David Hogg told me by phone Friday afternoon.

His message to politicians is simple: “Instead of condolences, give us action. There is something seriously wrong here.”

Hogg noted in our conversation that he and his contemporaries make up the first post-9/11 generation. They also are the first to be immersed in digital culture from early childhood, and to understand at a gut level its full potential.

“Using these tools,” he said, “is what our generation should be known for.

Melting Pot or Boiled Over

Since the election of the Il Douchebag in Chief here in middle Tennessee, just the word middle evokes the concept that this a central place that can radiate outwards is terrifying enough.  And in this last year I have experienced a sea change in the same way a Tsunami affects oceans.

Children here are mirrors to the adults in their lives. I think the Evil Queen is busy as hell holding up that mirror as the children of late are more deranged than usual. Note the word more. But what I have seen is that even the acclaimed students of the two high performing schools – Hume Fogg and MLK – are exhibiting signs of violence and aggression. There was the girls soccer match that ended up in a fight between the two teams that students were banned from the final game of the season. Then the local coffee shop next door to Hume Fogg is now banning students unless they purchase something as they lit a bag on fire in the restaurant and were unable to extinguish it causing a small fire on the site.

I have said repeatedly that while here in Nashville these two schools are acclaimed for their academic superiority they are actually akin to just a normal high school elsewhere. They are large enough to have music and sports and in turn academic classes that enable a diverse group of kids who frankly I suspect test in the normal range but however are higher than the average here.  And again this is a low bar in which to jump.

But the violence at the other schools and seemingly across the country has seemingly escalated and believed that it in response to the last Ed policy of Obama, Restorative Justice, which was to attempt to stave off the disproportionate number of children of color being suspended by doing nothing.  What is shows that that is not working either. I wrote in last blog post about Subbing and what I observe and noted that  some of the problems that are in St. Paul schools (making Al Franken’s ouster just a note in the paper) are those found in many schools elsewhere. Again and this demonstrates that when all else fails in education note that taking a kid’s phone is a bad idea. I don’t lay my hands on them as this has been a repeated story about Teacher assaults for the last few years, as this one in Pittsburg demonstrates. Or here in Virginia. Or this in DC Or this one in Boston.  And the ones in Tennessee? Well no one cares so why should I?

But the violence is exhibited in the marches, the hysteria that is around the country from the crazy White Supremacists to the angry Women Marches,  Anti or Pro Immigration marches and Trump Rallies all that send confusing and conflicting messages to children who hear all angles and it further isolates and in turn enrages them when they are confused and as frustrated by the Adults that surround them.

I have been asked this year repeatedly race baiting and inquires about my feelings regarding race and ethnicity.   My response is, “I don’t answer questions I find offense and I find that question offensive.”  Kids are constantly on edge here anyway thanks to the segregation issues, the lack of decent food, the shitty schools, immense wage and income inequality, their own race and community and where they live fraught with violence and neglect so they are coming to school as ticking time bombs.  I recall that last two days at Donelson Middle School and the metaphoric cell I was in with the future Sociopath that still brings me chills.  He was so confused even about his own race he was constantly asking me if I hated him because he was black.  Being that he was Latino and told me later he was born in Nashville and then lived in Mexico made it clear he was aware but then I realized he understood that race was an issue and that being black was more of one here hence the need to associate with that minority versus his own.  But at one point I was not sure what his family composite was and decided to ignore him and the endless incoherent violent and sexual ramblings as  race is utterly non consequential in this situation.  At one point I wanted to just walk out I was that sick of being in his company. 

But I cannot deny that the Trump election has has a profound affect on the American thought process and in turn the concept of melting pot and what that means in a nation divided by income, race, belief and gender and that pot is boiling over.  

Trump, Trump, Trump!’ How a President’s Name Became a Racial Jeer

By DAN BARRY and JOHN ELIGON
DEC. 16, 2017
THE NEW YORK TIMES

The high school basketball squad from Eagle Grove, population 3,700, had traveled 60 miles up Highway 69 in Iowa to play the team from Forest City, population 4,100. It would be the Eagles against the Indians, a hardwood competition in the center of the country. For some people, this is as American as it gets.

At one point during the online streaming of the game last month, two white announcers for a Forest City radio station, KIOW, began riffing on the Hispanic names of some players from the mildly more diverse community of Eagle Grove. “They’re all foreigners,” said Orin Harris, a longtime announcer; his partner, Holly Jane Kusserow-Smidt, a board operator at the station who was also a third-grade teacher, answered: “Exactly.”

For some people, this is as American as it gets.

Mr. Harris then uttered a term occasionally used these days as a racially charged taunt, or as a braying assertion that the country is being taken back from forces that threaten it. That term is, simply, the surname of the sitting American president.

“As Trump would say, go back where they came from,” Mr. Harris said.

Last year’s contentious presidential election gave oxygen to hate. An analysis of F.B.I. crime data by the Center for the Study of Hate & Extremism at California State University, San Bernardino, found a 26 percent increase in bias incidents in the last quarter of 2016 — the heart of the election season — compared with the same period the previous year. The trend has continued into 2017, with the latest partial data for the nation’s five most populous cities showing a 12 percent increase.

In addition, anti-Muslim episodes have nearly doubled since 2014, according to Brian Levin, the director of the center, which he said has also counted more “mega rallies” by white nationalists in the last two years than in the previous 20. “I haven’t seen anything like this during my three decades in the field,” he said.

Peppered among these incidents is a phenomenon distinct from the routine racism so familiar in this country: the provocative use of “Trump,” after the man whose comments about Mexicans, Muslims and undocumented immigrants — coupled with his muted responses to white nationalist activity — have proved so inflammatory. His words have also become an accelerant on the playing field of sports, in his public criticism of black athletes he deems to be unpatriotic or ungrateful.

Officials at Salem State University in Massachusetts discovered hateful graffiti spray-painted on benches and a fence surrounding the baseball field, including “Trump #1 Whites Only USA.” An undocumented immigrant in Michigan reported to the police that two assailants had stapled a note bearing a slur to his stomach after telling him, “Trump doesn’t like you.” A white Massachusetts businessman at Kennedy International Airport in New York was charged with assaulting and menacing an airline worker in a hijab, saying, among other threats: “Trump is here now. He will get rid of all of you.”

In an email, the White House on Friday denounced the use of the president’s name in cases like these. “The president condemns violence, bigotry and hatred in all its forms, and finds anyone who might invoke his or any other political figure’s name for such aims to be contemptible,” Raj Shah, a White House spokesman, said.

Still, it persists. Across the country, students have used the president’s name to mock or goad minority opponents at sporting events. In March, white fans at suburban Canton High School in Connecticut shouted “Trump! Trump! Trump!” as players from Hartford’s Classical Magnet School, which is predominantly black and Latino, took foul shots during a basketball playoff game. They also chanted “He’s our president!”

The visiting players and their chaperones interpreted the chants not as a sudden burst of presidential fealty, but rather as a slyly racist mantra intended to rattle. As if Donald J. Trump was the president of here, in white suburbia, and not there, in the diverse inner city.

“I’m not sure what politics has to do with basketball,” Azaria Porter, then the Classical team’s 16-year-old manager, told The Hartford Courant. “It was just annoying. It was like, O.K., we get it.”

For the record, Classical beat Canton.

According to several scholars of American history, the invocation of a president’s name as a jaw-jutting declaration of exclusion, rather than inclusion, appears to be unprecedented. “If you’re hunting for historical analogies, I think you’re in virgin territory,” said Jon Meacham, the author of several books about presidents, including a Pulitzer Prize-winning biography of Andrew Jackson.

Michael Beschloss, a presidential historian, agrees. “If you’re looking at modern presidents, fill in the blank and see if it can be used in the same way,” he said. “You will see it has not. Hoover? Or Eisenhower? Can you imagine a situation like that?”

The jarring use of Mr. Trump’s name began to surface shortly after he declared his candidacy in June 2015. Within a year, educators were reporting incidents in which, as the Inside Higher Ed website put it, “Trump” had become “a kind of taunt, tossed by largely white students at minority opponents during, say, basketball games.”

But it was not confined to high schools like Dallas Center-Grimes in Iowa, where students mocked a basketball team from the more diverse community of Perry with chants of “Trump, Trump, Trump” in February 2016. Colleges and universities were experiencing similar moments.

Nor was it confined to places of learning. In March 2016, for example, video surveillance at a Kwik Shop in Wichita, Kan., showed a white motorcyclist arguing with two college students — one Hispanic, one Muslim — then assaulting one of them before driving off. The victims later said that the man interspersed his racist epithets with: “Trump, Trump, Trump.” (And yes, the name does tend to come in threes, as if the incantation of his name might summon the man himself.)

Shortly after the election, the Southern Poverty Law Center, which monitors hate crimes, published a report called “The Trump Effect: The Impact of the 2016 Election on Our Nation’s Schools.” Based on a survey of more than 10,000 educators, it detailed an increase in incidents involving swastikas, Nazi salutes and Confederate flags.

“Kids saying, ‘Trump won, you’re going back to Mexico,’” wrote a teacher from Kansas. “A black student was blocked from entering his classroom by two white students chanting, ‘Trump, Trump,’” wrote a teacher from Tennessee. “Seventh-grade white boys yelling, ‘Heil Trump!’” wrote a teacher from Colorado.

It is a far cry from wearing a button that says “I Like Ike.”

Mr. Beschloss recalled moments in recent American history when, say, the X in President Richard M. Nixon’s name appeared as a swastika, or a caricature of President Lyndon B. Johnson featured a Hitlerian mustache. But these were generally the acts of opponents to those presidents’ policies during the Vietnam War.

“The message here,” Mr. Beschloss said, “is ‘Trump is going to come and get you — and we support that.’”

There have also been cases in which anti-Trump protesters have harassed and assaulted supporters of the president for, say, wearing a “Make America Great Again” cap. In some instances, the name Trump is invoked in punctuation.

When asked how a president’s very name could become so coded, Mr. Beschloss cited Mr. Trump’s speeches and tweets, including two in particular: the announcement of his candidacy in 2015, during which he referred to Mexican immigrants as criminals, drug dealers and rapists; and his equivocating comments after a white supremacist rally and counterprotest in Charlottesville, Va., in June ended with one person killed and 19 wounded. (“We condemn in the strongest possible terms this egregious display of hatred, bigotry and violence on many sides,” the president had said. “On many sides.”)

“This broadened into a feeling by some people — right or wrong — that Trump is going to be a weapon to reduce the opportunities of those who are different,” Mr. Beschloss said. “This is a signal moment.”

Leah Wright Rigueur, an assistant professor of public policy at the John F. Kennedy School of Government at Harvard, agreed, saying that Mr. Trump’s status as a racial wedge was of his own doing.

“When Trump says, ‘I hear you, I will represent you,’ he is speaking to a particular cross-section of the nation that does not include Muslims, that does not include people of color,” Ms. Wright Rigueur said.

Khalil Gibran Muhammad, a professor of race, history and public policy also at the Kennedy School of Government, said that Mr. Trump had created his own breakaway brand, making him the personification of specific ideals.

“To use the name as a rallying cry for a kind of embodied white supremacy, white nationalism or sense of triumphalism, for taking back the country, as best as I can tell has never been crystallized in the name of a U.S. president,” Mr. Muhammad said.

“It’s authoritarian, the cult of personality,” Mr. Meacham said. “It’s saying that we’re American — and you’re not.”

The sporadic episodes — as chronicled by ProPublica’s “Documenting Hate” project, among others — continue. A “Heil Trump” here, the Trump name scrawled beside a swastika there. In late September, two high school football teams in the Salt Lake City suburbs were squaring off when cheers erupted. Someone was brandishing a cardboard cutout of Mr. Trump, and there began the chanting of three words that have electrified some and unnerved others: “Build the wall! Build the wall!”

Back in Iowa, there have been consequences and remorse in the wake of those two Forest City radio announcers musing on the Hispanic names of some of the players from Eagle Grove.

Ms. Kusserow-Smidt, 63, was fired as a board operator for the radio station; she has since resigned from the Forest City School District. Mr. Harris, 76, who had been with the station for more than 40 years, was also fired. The two have expressed deep regret for their comments, which they said did not reflect who they truly were.

“It didn’t sound right; it wasn’t right,” Mr. Harris told a local television station. “And I apologize.”

The xenophobic words of the two announcers stung some of the Eagle Grove players, including Nikolas Padilla, whose mother is from Iowa and whose father is from Mexico. Mr. Padilla, a 17-year-old senior, said that he briefly considered quitting because he did not want to be singled out for his Mexican heritage.

One particular comment by the broadcasters — “As Trump would say, go back where they came from” — puzzled Nikolas. His mother, Misty, recalled what her teenage son had said:

“Um, I came from Mason City, Iowa.”

Priorities Matter

I think I spend most of my time trying to find ways to prove how Racism and Classicism dominate the South as they are not mutually exclusive, and in turn further marginalize those in the lower economic classes,  and to use an appalling word, “enslaving” those to a life on the lower rungs of lifes ladder to climb.

The biggest tool is supposedly education. Let’s put that trope to rest shall we?  Schools are more segregated than they were 40 years ago. We have massive income inequality that further divide and in turn conquer.   The South loves to claim many things and particularly here in Nashville the “it” city but the facts matter (well not so much in the south).

The public schools here are of course divided by race and class.  The numbers run as such:

MNPS is 42% Black, 29% White, and 25% Hispanic. But if you look at second graders the percentages are 39% Black, 25% Hispanic, 31% White. When you look at 6th grade, it breaks down 43% Black, 26% Hispanic, 27% White. In 9th grade it is 43% Black, 25% Hispanic, and 27% White. In 12th grade it is 48% Black, 21% Hispanic, and 32% White. Total enrollment for 2nd grade is 6999, 6th grade is 6571, 9th is 5859, and 12th is 5122.

Taking a  look at Pre-k:  For Pre-K 4 out of 2917 students, 44% are Black, 22% are Hispanic, and 29% are White. 

This further demonstrates that as children age up in the system the bleed of White students continues with an odd uptick in 12th grade.  I suspect it has to do with the idea of being the biggest fish a little pond of academic success so in turn qualify for loans and grants and the misconception that this same student was in an integrated environment for four years and is a “good” student.  There are lies and misconceptions here that cannot be ignored.

The number of FRL (free and reduced lunch) is the Scarlet letter of a school    Nashville had in 2014 72% of their students qualify so to remove the stigma they in turn made lunches free for all; additionally they provide breakfast for Elementary and Middle school students.   Then in turn it lessens the impact of a school designated by the label FRL which in turn causes Parents to look elsewhere to educate their likely white and of course above average child.   I will point out that the food quality is appalling and led to one high school having a walkout over the food last year.  But it is free and one never says no to a free lunch.   But again does this measure mean anything and by removing that measurement tool Nashville has nothing to compare or measure.  That may be the point.   Priorities matter.

I have long commented that the concepts of accessibility and availability are on par with equality and equity. They are not the same and have clear distinctions that are usually defined by money.  Those who have it have it those who don’t can but don’t.  Priorities matter.

So when I read this article about pre-term births I shrugged.  That is my de facto response these days when I read article after article in our local news that discusses what restaurant is opening or what property sold for millions, I troll down the page and find this buried under sports.  Priorities matter.

I cannot tell you the damage the Black and Hispanic children I meet.  I meet many Middle Eastern/European children as well but ultimately the most significant behavior problems and issues that exist are with Black children.  There are fights daily on campuses across the spectrum.  As I wrote last week at being at a school where  Student head butted a Teacher.  But the fights are no longer recorded so we get no information as to schools that have a predominate amount of problems and in turn know anything about the environment we are walking into.  I also shared the story about the school that has had 60 fights this year and are working on climate change.  I am sure it will be the same as the one we have with regards to the other environment.    This is the South.    Priorities matter.

It is because of those observations and experiences that had led me to question my own values and believes about race until I asked of all people an Uber driver who was Black and from California what was happening to me.  He told me it was the South and the way the dynamics are set up it is to ensure that the myth of equality exists but the reality is just a unicorn held up as something unattainable and unreal. And in turn those largely affected by it finally give up and resign themselves to a life less lived.   And in turn Children who do not have the barometer or filter yet still demonstrate the frustration and confusion that is their lives.  I cannot make excuses anymore I just accept it and in turn want to get as far away from this as soon as possible.  Priorities matter.

I am at the prestigious high school today in Special Ed.  It is all white and all the kids are articulate and polite and the “bad” kid I met last week is the most funny smart kid I have met and hence that in this school is perhaps the worst they have so they do in fact suspend kids but for a day or two.  They no longer do with minority children and have attempted to establish a restorative justice program, the same program that led 40% of a school in Highline District in Seattle to walk out and a Teacher to write a blog in length discussing the level of fear that existed in the school and the climate that resulted from failing to have a program that worked with Students at risk. 

When you are born prematurely, fed garbage, take drugs earlier, live in an environment literally our environment that has dangerous air and water, to a family marginalized, who don’t speak English, who themselves were the victims of violence or terror be it domestic or international, the children have no future,  just existence.    Violence begets violence and it is not easy to escape despite best efforts.  Just ask those who suffered at the hands of the New York terrorist, San Bernadino, Orlando. The reality is that Religion is not the reason, anger is and anger emerges in destruction – to self or to others.

We do little to help those climb out and upward.  We like to ensure our own place on the ladder the rest be damned.  Priorities matter.

Tennessee gets ‘D’ for preterm babies, raising concerns about women’s health

Holly Fletcher, USA TODAY NETWORK – Tennessee Published Nov. 1, 2017 |

The number of babies born prematurely in Tennessee increased from 2015 to 2016 — a trend that underscores disparities in women’s health around the state, a maternal health expert said.
Overall, Tennessee earned a “D” for its preterm birth rate of 11.3 percent in 2016 from March of Dimes, a nonprofit focused on pregnancy and the health of babies.

The counties with the highest preterm birth rates in the state:

Hamilton: 13 percent
Shelby:  12.6 percent
Rutherford: 10.5 percent
Davidson: 10.4 percent (Nashville)
Knox: 9.7 percent
Montgomery: 9 percent

The data is troubling to Dr. Kimberlee Wyche-Ethridge, assistant director for public health practice at Meharry Medical College, because of what it means about the status of women’s health and factors that influence health — such as education, housing and food — across the state.

“We’re not doing enough to make sure all of our babies are being born to thrive and survive,” said Wyche-Etheridge. “Babies are the canary in the coal mine. They are a measure of how healthy a community, a state or a society is. If we see that our babies aren’t doing well, we know our communities aren’t doing well.”

Black women had highest percentage of preterm births from 2013 to 2015 with 14.3 percent. White women came in second with 10.2 percent followed by Hispanic women with 9.1 percent and Asian/Pacific Islander women with 8.4 percent.

March of Dimes has a goal of a nationwide rate of 8.1 percent by 2020. Preterm birth rates worsened in more than 40 states. Tennessee is one of 11 states and Washington, D.C., to receive a “D” on the Premature Birth Report Card.

In 2007, 11.8 percent of babies born in Tennessee were preterm, or before 37 weeks. Since then, the rate dipped to 10.8 percent in 2014, only to climb back in the succeeding years.
The organization is calling for more research and education about the social factors that impact health, ranging from neighborhood safety to income and jobs.

There are state and local initiatives aimed at reducing preterm births, which can lead to lifelong chronic problems as the person grows.

Focusing on women’s health before they become pregnant is important, Wyche-Etheridge said, because it lays better groundwork for healthy babies.

“Since prematurity hits every aspect of the community, no one is protected per se, and we have to take care of all of our women in all of our families so all of our babies have a chance at a healthy start.”

Health screenings and controlling high blood pressure, weight and diabetes are important factors in a woman’s health before she becomes pregnant, said Wyche-Etheridge, a public health pediatrician who has worked on maternal health issues for 20 years. Reducing stress is vital, she said, noting that can come from worrying about finances, housing or other facets of life.

Davidson County public health officials analyzed the preterm births by neighborhood and found a wide discrepancy. Babies born to women who live in The Nations and North Nashville were twice as likely to have a low birth weight or be preterm than those born to women who live in Sylvan Park, the neighborhood on the other side of Charlotte Pike.

Wyche-Etheridge said preterm pregnancies can have a cyclical impact on communities.
“What we find is her health prior to pregnancy is key, which means if we don’t have a community that values women’s health then women are not going into a pregnancy in tip-top shape,” said Wyche-Etheridge.

“Without healthy babies, it’s less likely we have healthy adults, and we can’t have a healthy state.”

Going Under

As I have said in the Bite Me blogs I had dental surgery and one of the things that truly terrified me was going under General Anesthesia and that fear was only exacerbated when I met the Gatekeeper to Hell who confirmed my worst fears about this process.  

 I know how great I fell after I projectile vomited when I got home that even I was surprised how much better I felt as it took the poison out of my body and put me right in order.  This is why they want you to have 24 hour watchers as you are toxic when you down that shit and the best thing I did was rid my body of the toxins immediately.  The silly cap or whatever they put on my leg to cover nausea  fell off sometime earlier and that enabled me to cleanse  and when I showered on Saturday it was nowhere to be found and even that too was an omen. 

When I found out later that they were overbooked and delayed and I recall the time on the clock as I was coming out of it it was after 1 p.m.  I was to be finished at 11:30 with a 12 noon dismissal.  I was concerned as they gave me the bum’s rush so did I have the necessary 30 minutes to awaken and then go home or was it 10 minutes.  My NP thinks it was about 10 minutes as they told her I was an hour late and they got her a 1 so that answers that questions.  Again, having a professional is the best way to catch these mother fuckers at their lies.  Again, this is not a safe procedure regardless. 

So when I watched Megyn Kelly on Sunday night it was about Children and General Anesthesia in Dentistry and this did nothing to raise my mood as I was well depressed but watching this again confirmed my worst fear.   This is not about your comfort or your care it is about money and making it easier for the Dentist.  

Let me assure you I have had Dental work for years and never experienced the push for drugs like I have here.  No wonder there is an opioid crisis.  I knew that the questions I was being asked were idiotic and too late in the process to determine if I should be a candidate for GA or the alternative IV Sedation which is way less stressful.  That and that the manner of questions were not about my health but about my mental health as he did not get my personality in the least.   I loved when he asked what drugs I took and I said “Jade Sheild” a Chinese Immune Booster and he goes, “I’ve never heard of it.”  I responded, “I doubt you would but now you have”  That “I’ve never heard” phrase  is next to “bless your heart”  as here in the South both are used to nfer you are a liar or an idiot.   The lack of humor here is directly tied to intelligence and this place it runs in the double negative which is odd as in math that usually generates the positive but remember this is the South and it is not normal here.

Do not think you need to go under.  A Xanax would be fine and with kids having a Parent in the room is all one needs to assure a child that they will be fine.  Anesthesia is not sedation it is a coma and no one let alone a child should be willingly put in a coma.

9 questions to ask your dentist before your kids go under sedation

Araceli Avila never dreamed that her daughter’s life might be at risk during a visit to the dentist. But on June 12, Daleyza Hernandez Avila, 3, died during a dental procedure. The dentist sedated Daleyza to keep the toddler from wriggling while she was getting crowns and having a tooth pulled. The little girl never woke up.
Now, Araceli wants to warn other parents about the dangers that she wasn’t aware of. “I’m looking for justice so what happened doesn’t happen to other mothers,” she told Sacramento NBC affiliate KCRA. “So they don’t have to feel the same pain I feel after losing my daughter.”
After several recent tragic cases, there are demands for different practices from the influential American Academy of Pediatrics, according to a report by NBC News national correspondent Kate Snow, which first aired on “Sunday Night with Megyn Kelly.”

Children being sedated for dentistry: Practice now under new scrutiny

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Dr. Wendy Sue Swanson of Seattle Children’s Hospital and a spokesperson from the influential pediatricians group is sounding the alarm about sedating children for oral surgery.

“If we can prevent one more child from an adverse event or a death, we’ve got to try,” Swanson told NBC News.

It’s unclear how many children — or adults, in general — have died in the U.S. during dental procedures. The state boards that oversee dental practice in America usually don’t make that kind of information public.

But earlier this month, a Texas high school student died about a week after undergoing anesthesia to have his wisdom teeth removed. And last summer, two children lost their lives after undergoing extensive dental procedures.

According to a Dallas Morning News investigation in 2015, a dental patient dies nearly every other day in the United States. That’s more than 1,000 people over the course of five-and-a-half years.

3-Year-Old Girl Dies During Dental Procedure

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The numbers on deaths are only estimates and with millions of dental procedures performed each year on children ages 2-17, such tragedies are very rare.

But one thing is certain, “there are too many of them,” said Dr. Michael Mashni, a dentist with anesthesia training who practices in California.

Without data on deaths from all the state boards it’s impossible to determine where the problems are and how to fix them, Mashni said.

“There’s really no legitimate oversight,” said Dr. Jay Friedman, a California-based dental consultant and author. “And there are very few sanctions. You have to do something really bad before anything gets done about it.”

In Friedman’s experience, many young children are being over-treated by their dentists. And children are more likely to be over-treated if they are under full sedation, he said.

Children can choke more easily

The danger isn’t from local anesthesia such as Novocain or numbing gels. General anesthesia —when the patient is unconscious — can be risky in young children and some dentists may not recognize the danger quickly enough, said Dr. Karen Sibert, an associate clinical professor of anesthesiology at the University of California, Los Angeles.

“Children have small airways and they choke more easily than adults,” Sibert said. “It doesn’t take much to obstruct a small child’s airway. Their vocal cords can close. They can choke on a little bit of blood.”

Boy, 4, Dies During ‘Routine’ Dentist Visit

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In a hospital or an ambulatory surgery center, there are medical support systems to help a child in distress. In an office setting,”by the time anyone gets there, the child is in such deep trouble, it’s too late,” said Sibert.

Parents whose sedated children died during dental procedures often say they were unaware that death was a possibility. And while there may have been a consent form including that danger, many don’t absorb the information in the dentist’s office, Friedman said.

Given the risks associated with sedation, “the dentist should have a frank discussion with the parents on the risks and benefits of anesthesia for treating the underlying disease,” said Dr. Jim Nickman, president of the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry. “We advise members to use extreme caution when they’re looking at sedating a child less than 3. For those under the age of 2, I would recommend anesthesia be done in a hospital setting.”

Before child undergoes any serious dental procedure:

Ask lots of questions

Parents should ask questions until they have no more, and they should always feel they have all the information they need to give consent for an elective procedure, said pediatrician Swanson.

Experts suggested these questions:

1. What procedure are you going to do and do you have to do it?
 
2. How much training have you had? Get up and walk out if somebody says, “Oh, I took a weekend course and I just started doing this, but it’s going to be OK,” said Dr. Roger Byrne, an oral surgeon in Houston.

3. Are you going to sedate my child? If so, what medicines are you going to use? Be sure the doctor doesn’t understate the anesthesia being given. Answers like “it’s only a few pills” or “it’s just something that relaxes you” are red flags, said Dr. Louis K. Rafetto, past president of the American Association of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeons.

4. Will there be a separate provider for general anesthesia in the room? “I would insist on a separate qualified anesthesia professional looking after my child,” Sibert advised.

5. How much experience does this person have caring for kids my child’s age?
 
6. How will my child be monitored during the procedure? Be sure there will be vigilant monitoring. Ask if the office has EKG, blood pressure, pulse oximetry and end tidal carbon dioxide monitors, Rafetto said.

7. Who is going to be in the room if something goes wrong? The staff should be prepared to recognize and respond to crisis situations. It also is appropriate to ask about the office’s safety record, he added.

8. Are you going to use a Papoose Board — a temporary restraint?
 
9. What kind of recovery setup do you have?

Get a second opinion

Instinct matters, so if you feel unsettled, consult another doctor, Swanson said.

“Get a second opinion if it’s not a crisis — and very little dental work is a crisis,” Sibert added. “Parents can also simply ask, ‘Can this wait a year or two?’”

Consider the setting

Parents should have a healthy respect for deep sedation and general anesthesia in an outpatient setting, where there’s very little help available if something goes wrong, Sibert said. They should ask if it would be better to take the child to an ambulatory surgery center, where an anesthesiologist would be present.

If the procedure is being done in an outpatient clinic without a pediatric anesthesiologist, make sure it’s low risk, Swanson noted. Sibert would have no problem with her grandsons having a procedure in a dentist’s office if all it would require is “local anesthesia, nitrous, and cartoons.”

After the procedure

Kids can come out of sedation a little slower than adults and need prolonged observation, Swanson said. Before you go home, make sure your child is no longer sedated — he’s not falling asleep and not slowing his breathing, Swanson noted.

If your child is in the backseat for the car ride home, make sure there’s someone who can be there beside him to watch him and make sure his airway doesn’t get closed off or he doesn’t slow his breathing while you’re driving home, Swanson said.

“There are events where children have had sedation, get in a car seat or a car, their respiratory rate goes down and they’re just quiet and someone may not know,” she noted.

Two adults accompanying a child are ideal for this situation.

Bottom line

For those uncomfortable with the idea of general anesthesia, “there are other options that can work, for example having the parent hold the child in a blanket to keep him still — like you’d do in the emergency room if the child required stitches,” Nickman said.

Ultimately Friedman isn’t convinced that the benefits of sedation outweigh the risks.

“In my opinion, there’s no excuse to give any of these kids general anesthesia,” he said.

NBC News national correspondent Kate Snow contributed to this report.

DINKS

That acronym stood for Double Income No Kids and that is the largest cohort in most of the “it” cities of Seattle and San Francisco.

I find this very much a trait of the MElinneal class a sense of debt, career obsession, narcissism and the overwhelming need to be in with the crowd. That crowd is exceedingly urban, carless, tech fetishizers and overwhelmingly boring.

What you do see is quick partnering up to find your “best friend” like your mother or father were which I find odd as that parental child relationship should be healthy and close but not peer like or whatever that strange thing Trump has with his daughter, Ivanka.

I think most MElinneals are very afraid of being alone, being quiet and being introspective. I see that in the generation just behind them only if possible increasingly stupid. There is no other way to explain it do to the incessant testing, the increasing segregation of schools that is entirely due to economics and in turn race as those of color are largely from poorer families. That increasingly contributes to a sense of isolation and social awkwardness which is also being demonstrated on college campuses and the overwhelming need to shut people up who are not like you and don’t say things that reinforce your world view. The bubbleator of social media has long arms and it makes people feel safe and that is not a good thing because sometimes taking risks can lead to amazing outcomes.

MElinneals while being defined the creative class are the least creative people I know. They remake the wheel by calling it weel and that to them is changing the world. But when it comes to marriage and family they pull out the familiar and the wedding and family part means buy a mini van and move to the suburbs to support your family the way your family may or may not have but that is the American Dream – the nuclear family living in a house with a yard and two cars and a dog. Remake that one.

Living in Nashville there are more kids than anyone would expect as the city was thought of as a “family friendly.” Clearly I have different definitions of that and the way families and their children are treated it explains the nasty rudeness and repressed anger I experience in the schools on a daily basis. They bus kids all over this town that is shaped like a pie. It is an amazing level of urban planning that goes back decades an in turn segregated and divided this city into pieces of the pie that define you. Where you live in the South is an fascinating measure of how you are perceived and what you are expected to do or become. This extends also into the bizarre “county” talk as another way of somehow explaining and in turn defining you.

Yesterday at a school that once had to be a bastion of white attendance, the student body is largely comprised of minorities. They have learning contracts, struggle with academics, behavior and socializing. They congregate together disproving the notion that when kids are bussed 20 minutes out of their neighborhood plunked into a school in the middle of another neighborhood that has none of the composition of theirs, they simply self segregate. Schools contribute to this further thanks to testing by placing those who test well into a separate category of classes and label them advanced/honors and in turn further divide a school. And this school is no different as it is feeder school to the International Baccalaureate Program.

I spoke to the Teacher yesterday who had warnings and threats posted on the board, had notice in my lesson plans so I expected the worst and braced for it. My 3 prior visits had well prepared me for abuse, ignorance, intolerance and unkindness. I hit it by hour one. I spoke to him with his last period who were the “advanced” class and who on Friday when he also had a sub when he walked in saw chaos. He came in to none but that is because I had already shared with the kids what I had experienced earlier. The endless disrespect, the snarking, the snickering and the accusation of being a racist. When I offered the usual flag where I say to the kids I will give you one minute to debase me, throw things at me and no harm, no foul and then we have to move on. In 20 years of that offer I have never had a kid take me up on it; that ended yesterday when two young black men in “jest” picked up a chair after verbally berating me about my looks and wardrobe; while in an earlier class another child picked up a book which he also swung at me of course in “jest”. And before getting accused of racism, a young white woman said I needed a nose job. She did however say that not to me but to her young table mate who loudly ratted her out and informed me what was said and that was in fact a young black woman.

It was in the course of my conversation with this Teacher when I realized he was oddly not surprised but he was, however, apologetic. That was a first and so felt compelled to offer some ideas, telling him that once those attendance rosters leave you have no way of knowing who these kids are and just having a seating chart would be better than nothing. There are problems here, real problems, and those children of color are often the most in need of support. And I have seen black educators speak to these kids harshly and at one school call them retarded for their behavior so please ask yourself if this is my white privilege speaking? The race card gets played a great deal in almost all encounters between white and black and that explains Trump. We have to start to just own our evil and move along and try to figure out if this is more than color that is the source of our problems.

And while I support special education on both ends of the spectrum, to the learning disabled to the highly capable, there is no way to do this that is equitable to the kids who qualify for either. The tests, the needed medical support, the time that parents must allow to attend meetings and additional support in turn are all matters that are affected by income and in turn that is another way to segregate and divide. It is all about money in education and that reality comes from those willing to put in the time to fund raise, donate and support their local schools.

Schools are a bedrock of a community and serve it in many ways and when you have kids in the city you see diversity and in turn recognize that immediately and try to find ways to address it that may again take the two tenants of education – time and money.

And children inside those schools are the future we keep hearing about. But in the real world that for many urban settings, there are fewer of them and that in turn has long term outcomes that don’t bode well for anyone. This article in New Geography discusses this issue.

And we are at “peak Millennial” which may mean that the now maligned suburban malls may find a renewal effort, that craft beers and artisan bakeries may find themselves in a new hive, the reality is that the courtship is like many they come to an end and eventually you put a ring on it. This article discusses this very issue and what this may mean for those of us urban dwellers, old and young alike.

For Nashville to attract single MElinneals, an educated class and in turn larger income generated class, they need to first look at the infrastructure of lack thereof and then in turn the greater picture and that is the conservative wing nut policies that have made this state deep red. Some of the crazy policies the legislation is debating for the upcoming year veer on repression to down bizarre.

For me I am a SINK, single income no kids and I have a widow that will close I hope in the next 4 years. I can only tread water so long and this water is heavily polluted. Another perk of those living and swimming in the deep red sea. This is something I think one must see and live with to understand how complex this issue is in a place that doesn’t do well with complex math. Go figure.

San Francisco Asks: Where Have All the Children Gone?

By THOMAS FULLER
THE NEW YORK TIMES
JAN. 21, 2017

SAN FRANCISCO — In a compact studio apartment on the fringes of the Castro district here a young couple live with their demanding 7-year-old, whom they dote on and take everywhere: a Scottish terrier named Olive.

Raising children is on the agenda for Daisy Yeung, a high school science teacher, and Slin Lee, a software engineer. But just not in San Francisco.

“When we imagine having kids, we think of somewhere else,” Mr. Lee said. “It’s starting to feel like a no-kids type of city.”

A few generations ago, before the technology boom transformed San Francisco and sent housing costs soaring, the city was alive with children and families. Today it has the lowest percentage of children of any of the largest 100 cities in America, according to census data, causing some here to raise an alarm.

“Everybody talks about children being our future,” said Norman Yee, a member of San Francisco’s Board of Supervisors. “If you have no children around, what’s our future?”

As an urban renaissance has swept through major American cities in recent decades, San Francisco’s population has risen to historical highs and a forest of skyscraping condominiums has replaced tumbledown warehouses and abandoned wharves. At the same time, the share of children in San Francisco fell to 13 percent, low even compared with another expensive city, New York, with 21 percent. In Chicago, 23 percent of the population is under 18 years old, which is also the overall average across the United States.

California, which has one of the world’s 10 largest economies, recently released data showing the lowest birthrate since the Great Depression.

As San Francisco moves toward a one-industry town with soaring costs, the dearth of children is one more change that raises questions about its character. Are fewer children making San Francisco more one-dimensional and less vibrant? The answer is subjective and part of an impassioned debate over whether a new, wealthier San Francisco can retain the allure of the city it is replacing.

Many immigrant and other residential areas of San Francisco still have their share of the very young and the very old. The sidewalks of some wealthy enclaves even have stroller gridlock on weekends. But when you walk through the growing number of neighborhoods where employees of Google, Twitter and so many other technology companies live or work, the sidewalks display a narrow band of humanity, as if life started at 22 and ended somewhere around 40.

“Sometimes I’ll be walking through the city and I’ll see a child and think, ‘Hey, wait a second. What are you doing here?’” said Courtney Nam, who works downtown at a tech start-up. “You don’t really see that many kids.”

There is one statistic that the city’s natives have heard too many times. San Francisco, population 865,000, has roughly the same number of dogs as children: 120,000. In many areas of the city, pet grooming shops seem more common than schools.

In an interview last year, Peter Thiel, the billionaire Silicon Valley investor and a co-founder of PayPal, described San Francisco as “structurally hostile to families.”

Prohibitive housing costs are not the only reason there are relatively few children. A public school system of uneven quality, the attractiveness of the less-foggy suburbs to families, and the large number of gay men and women, many of them childless, have all played roles in the decline in the number of children, which began with white flight from the city in the 1970s. The tech boom now reinforces the notion that San Francisco is a place for the young, single and rich.

“If you get to the age that you’re going to have kids in San Francisco and you haven’t made your million — or more — you probably begin to think you have to leave,” said Richard Florida, an expert in urban demographics and author of “The Rise of the Creative Class.”

Mr. Florida sees a larger national trend. Jobs in America have become more specialized and the country’s demography has become more segmented, he says. Technology workers who move to San Francisco and Silicon Valley anticipate long hours and know they may have to put off having families.

“It’s a statement on our age that in order to make it in our more advanced, best and most-skilled industries you really have to sacrifice,” Mr. Florida said. “And the sacrifice may be your family.”

In 1970, a quarter of San Francisco’s residents were children, nearly twice the level of today. The overall demographic picture of San Francisco is a city with more men than women — 103 for every 100 women — and with no ethnic majority. Whites make up slightly less than half the population, Asians about one-third and Latinos 15 percent. The black population has markedly declined and stands around 6 percent.

A report released on Tuesday by the San Francisco Planning Department said the building boom in the city, which for the most part has introduced more studios and one-bedroom apartments, was unlikely to bring in more families. For every 100 apartments in the city sold at market rates, the San Francisco school district expects to enroll only one additional student, the report said.

Mr. Yee, the supervisor, is urging his colleagues to hold hearings next month on the issue of children.

“For me it’s part of the fabric of what a city should have,” he said. “It makes us all care more.”

A few recent initiatives have sought to make the city friendlier to families. San Francisco is the first city in the United States to require employers to offer six weeks of fully paid leave for new parents, a law that came into effect this month.

The city has also invested millions in upgrading parks, according to Phil Ginsburg, the general manager of the city’s Recreation and Parks Department.

“We are trying to do our part to send a very strong message that San Francisco is an awesome place for kids,” Mr. Ginsburg said. The city has increased its offerings for summer programs, many of which were fully enrolled last summer.

Yet even those with the means to stay find themselves looking elsewhere when children come along.
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Liz Devlin with her children, Ella and Jack. She said San Francisco was a “phenomenal place to raise kids” but is considering a move because of schools and the cost of living. Credit Jim Wilson/The New York Times

Liz Devlin, a senior manager at Twitter, which like other technology companies offers generous parental leave, took 20 weeks off at full pay when her second child, Jack, was born in 2014.

Living in a three-bedroom apartment in the Marina district, Ms. Devlin said, she considered San Francisco a “phenomenal place to raise kids.”

But last July when the energetic Jack turned 2, she and her husband decided it was time to leave.

“In terms of cost of living, space and schools I think it’s definitely attractive for people to look outside the city,” said Ms. Devlin, who moved across the Golden Gate Bridge to Marin County.

Those who make it work in San Francisco speak of the compromises.

Jean Covington, a San Francisco resident who works as a public defender in Contra Costa County, said she noticed a “pilgrimage” of her friends out of the city when children reached school age. When she decided to stick it out, she was confronted with what she described as a bewildering public school selection system governed by an algorithm that determines where children in the city are placed — sometimes miles from home.

When her daughter turned 5, Ms. Covington applied to 14 public kindergartens, but her child ended up being placed in another. She chose a private school instead, along with the strain on the family budget that it entailed.

“Everyone starts off with the same dreams: ‘I’m going to make it work in the city, and I’m going to be the family that sticks it out,’” Ms. Covington said of her friends. “And suddenly the one bathroom in their flat becomes two or three too few. And the school system is too daunting.”

San Francisco’s public school system has around 53,000 students, a sharp drop from 90,000 in 1970.

The decline is a reflection both of families leaving the city and wealthier parents sending their children to private schools. Around 30 percent of San Francisco children attend private school, the highest rate among large American cities.

More than 10 private schools have opened in San Francisco since 2009, according to a tally by Elizabeth Weise, a journalist who writes a blog on the subject.

Opinion is divided on whether having fewer children in the city is something San Francisco should worry about.

Mr. Florida, the expert in urban demographics, said a lack of children made a city “a little bit more of a colder or harder place.”

Mr. Lee, the software engineer, said he loved San Francisco — the weather, the food, the friends he has made. But the city, he said, feels somewhat detached from the life cycle.

“It’s similar to when you go to college and you are surrounded by people who are in the same life stage or who have the same attitude about what their priorities are,” Mr. Lee said. “That’s all you see: people who are exactly like you.”

Child Abuse

This morning eight months after Police arrested elementary kids for a school yard fight did the Department apparently discipline the Officers involved.  I loved that it took this much time and was done the week of Christmas when schools are closed and it is a slow news week.   And what defines “discipline” means what exactly?  No Christmas pudding for you young man!

 What I also love is that our local news or what I call the Daily Black People report failed to get any comments from the Officers, their Union or event the families involved. When this happened it made The Washington Post so I do find this “So Nashville” when I hear stories about authorities or particularly Police how they bury the stories but any black person who commits a crime is blazed as the lead story. And this story was well into the news after a series of crime stories that lead the daily news versus actual news. Case in point the incident in Berlin was a passing story.

Follow up is not big here as that would require investigative reporting, actual digging, doing a Journalist’s job versus just reading the daily arrest reports. But this is the South and if it is possible to dig a deep hole and paint a negative picture then come on down to take a dip in the Red Sea.

Some of the more bizarre stories that I have not heard anything since was the Nashville Public School Tutor who was caught driving around with three kids in the trunk.. yes trunk. Then we have the Teacher who filmed kids and had a history of it but hey whatever. Then we have the Teacher who had a gun at school, unclear what happened there but as I had subbed there it was not surprising in the least.

And when I read the below article nothing surprises me. I had written about the six year old who assaulted her Teacher at an elementary school that was a block away from another that I had subbed at and had locked off the Kindergarten bathroom after repeated damage; And many schools simply lock off the bathrooms or have scheduled breaks as a way  to prevent any future or potential violence/damage. As I have noted in the past these kids spend half their day going to the lavatory either to have some moment alone but I suspect it it is to roam halls and search out potential encounters that could be either positive or negative as I have witnessed both first hand. I have never seen so much hostility and rage in children in my life as I have here, the closest I came was when I both taught and subbed at Rainier Beach High School in Seattle which was well known as a school with immense troubles. But in comparison it seems almost tranquil as to here.

As I have subbed at the next step to Jail school I have heard Students brag about assaulting people, including Teachers, brag about shootings and thefts and mock the numbers of deaths in Chicago due to gun violence as if it is competitive and we are in second place so there you go.  I see endless Police presence at Schools including one to interview me regarding the now familiar “hug” that I have come to learn is some odd black male need to intimate coolness and connection. I see it as bizarre and tragic but not arrest worthy.

I have no problem with homogeneity in our schools and the push for desegregation has forced a dynamic that is failing. I am all against separate but equal as that is impossible when it comes to Education. Equal would mean exactly the same dynamics in place in each school which is virtually impossible. You can however rectify that by having schools that meet the need of the community they serve. Outstanding curriculum and tutoring opportunities for kids who are behind the curve, having extra curricular activities and opportunities that enable kids to meet and interact in a more natural organic way through common interests. Then we have the need for one group to receive access to mental and physical health counseling and services that will compensate for those who do not have same access. That may mean at one school that serves a poorer community that they have a longer school day, have more non profits and professional services that enable families the access they need to help their children succeed. It may mean it will not be equal in costs and that is the real issue. When a school that serves poorer families the cost of educating a student may be 2K per student versus 1K for a wealthier one and that is the unequal part. What is not mentioned is that the difference is already well compensated by that student’s family, their PTSA and their economic well being that already secures them a place at the table. Income inequity does not mean education inequity it just means that some will have to get more up front and the other kids will get it through the back door. They both come in the door unequal already but the kid who enters through the back should and could and  more importantly must leave through the front.

If anyone actually believes Education is equal and fair in our current state of desegregated schools has clearly never been in one. The idea that charters is the solution again does not understand how that works, that they can pick, choose and dismiss anyone they don’t find appropriate and acceptable clearly has never been in a charter. If we could do that in life we would have what – a homogeneous utterly segregated community. Like likes like and there is nothing wrong with it. But integration is more complex than simply color, it is economic, it is intellectual as both high and low end of the spectrum, it is race, gender, sexuality, faith, and of course physicality. To think a single school by busing kids all over town, give them the same textbooks, the same curriculum guidelines, the same monies to do all that with for each kid then you are a moron and clearly went to a public school.

This is child abuse and those who are abused – abuse.


Arrest of young kids not isolated to Murfreesboro case
Jessica Bliss, The Tennessean, May 2, 2016

Shock reverberated through Middle Tennessee in April when Murfreesboro police arrested 10 elementary-age students for not stopping a fight that occurred off campus days earlier.

Lawmakers, church leaders and social justice experts across the country questioned the rationale behind handcuffing and booking children that young. They pointed to the scarring effects on the student and their peers, as well as the societal pattern of pushing kids, especially the most at-risk, out of classrooms and into the juvenile and criminal justice systems.

When it comes to the arrests of young children in Tennessee, what happened in Murfreesboro is not an isolated incident.

Last year, Tennessee law enforcement made 24,843 juvenile arrests. Of those, 1,960 were of children ages 6 to 12 — the same ages of the children arrested in the Murfreesboro case. The Murfreesboro police chief is expected to meet Monday night with community leaders to review a preliminary report on an internal investigation of the arrests.

“It seems like a small percentage, but still, 2,000 children that age arrested — that’s just mind-blowing,” said Craig Hargrow, director of juvenile justice for the Tennessee Commission on Children and Youth. “Arresting children of that age is just not appropriate, except in extreme circumstances. They are young, they have poor impulse control, and their brains are not fully developed.”

The Tennessee Commission on Children and Youth works to implement the Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention Act — legislation established in 1974 to support local and state efforts to prevent delinquency and improve the juvenile justice system.

The intent is to make kids appropriately accountable and to ensure their contact with the juvenile justice system is rare and fair.

Nationally, juvenile arrest rates have been on the decline since 2006. Similar trends appear in Tennessee. An analysis of juvenile arrest statistics maintained by the Tennessee Bureau of Investigation shows that over a 15-year period, arrests reached a high of 39,018 in 2007. They reached a 15-year low of 24,843 in 2015.

Metro Nashville Police Department juvenile arrest numbers show a similar trajectory.

In the juvenile justice realm, Capt. Gordon Howey, who heads Metro Nashville Police Department’s Youth Services Division, said there is increased attention on alternatives to detention — but not necessarily alternatives to arrests.

“There’s not been a concerted effort to say, ‘Don’t arrest juveniles,’ ” he said. The focus, instead, is on reducing the occurrence of crimes. In Nashville many types of crimes have shown a decrease over the past several years, and Howey believes that may correlate to the reduction in arrests.

Despite the decline, Nashville has experienced an increase in youth violence. During the past five years, 16,955 violent incidents in Nashville involved youth, according to a March report released by Mayor Megan Barry’s office. Last year, among the country’s 50 largest cities, Nashville ranked second in the highest percentage increase in homicides — from 41 in 2014 to 78 in 2015. Of those, 55 percent of the perpetrators were 25 years old or younger.

A juvenile justice system that diverts minors from jail ranks among six goals in the mayor’s report.

Juvenile justice experts say that, except in extraordinary cases, the focus needs to remain on alternative restorative practices instead of punitive police action.

“Courts have become a repository of discipline and the courts are not geared to do that,” said Michael A. Corriero, a former New York state judge who is executive director of the New York Center for Juvenile Justice.

Three weeks ago, on April 15, Murfreesboro police arrested 10 children ranging in age from 6 to 12 years old at Hobgood Elementary School and other locations, handcuffing some and transporting them to the juvenile detention center in connection with a bullying and assault incident that happened earlier off campus.

Arrest records show the children alleged to have witnessed the fight were charged with “criminal responsibility for conduct of another,” which according to Tennessee criminal offense code includes incidents when a “person fails to make a reasonable effort to prevent” an offense. The offense was assault.

In Tennessee, police departments set their own policies and procedures for detaining a student, according to Maggi Duncan, executive director of the Tennessee Association of Chiefs of Police. The case has garnered attention nationwide and put a spotlight on police-community relations. The matter is before the Juvenile Court of Rutherford County.

“It’s shocking, it’s alarming,” said Staci Higdon, whose daughter attends second grade at Hobgood. Higdon’s daughter was not arrested and did not witness the arrests, but she was still scared to go to school once she understood what had happened.

“She thought there were bad people at school and she was in harm’s way,” Higdon said. “It was the fear of the unknown, that bad people were there and she could get hurt.

Though Higdon trusts the administration, she said the arrests have stigmatized the school and the community. There is a concern for the children who were arrested.

Any contact between the child and the system, “no matter how benevolent the mission,” is “extremely damaging to a child’s self-image and psychology,” said Vanderbilt University law professor Terry Maroney, who serves as co-director of the George Barrett Social Justice Program.

And to be arrested at school, she said, is a “uniquely stigmatizing thing because it happens in front of your peers.” It is humiliating, and it often sticks the child with a brand of criminality that can be hard to shake.

“Once a kid gets a label of being a ‘bad kid,’ other kids hold on to that label and the kid himself will hold on to that label,” Maroney said. “It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy.”

Additionally, it may blur the line in the child’s mind between school and police, damaging a child’s relationship with the educational system.

Nationally, the number of cases where students have been arrested for incidents on campus remains plentiful.

In 2012 Baltimore city police charged four elementary school students younger than 10 with aggravated assault after a fight and were arrested on the Morrell Park Elementary/Middle School campus, according to WBALTV 11. In Florida more than 100 5- and 6-year-olds were arrested in one 12-month period, ABC News reported.

In Tennessee in 2015, assault (simple and/or aggravated) was the most common offense for that 6 to 12 age group — similar to the Murfreesboro case where children were held responsible for not stopping a bullying and assault incident.

“For all children, but especially ages 6 through 12, they lack impulse control,” Hargrow said. “And fighting, although it is not looked upon favorably and shouldn’t occur, is something that is not uncommon for children developmentally that age. That’s why you see a large number of assaults.

“Without the appropriate interventions, they don’t learn how to change their behavior.”

When should kids be accountable by law?

In Memphis the School House Adjustment Program Enterprise (SHAPE) aims to reduce the number of Shelby County Schools students sent to juvenile court for minor infractions. Created with a grant from The Tennessee Commission on Children and Youth, the program works with juvenile offenders providing homework assistance, tutoring, mentoring, counseling, and social and life skills training. Students stay in the program for 90 days.

“The restorative justice model is the direction juvenile court is headed, and from the youth services side we are going to do what we can to cooperate with that,” Howey said of Nashville law enforcement.

And juvenile justice experts believe positive programs can have as much of an impact as negative interactions.

“One of the major characteristics of young people is that kids are more malleable than adults,” Corriero said. “They are more susceptible to good influences, as well as bad influences.

“They are in the process of growing and becoming.”

Added Hargrow: “I just think this is very important for our state to take appropriate action to make sure things like arresting 6- to 12-year-olds just doesn’t occur.

“There’s any number of solutions and alternatives to address, especially the top five types of behaviors, that will teach them more than arresting them will — and that will shield them from additional trauma.”

Tennessee arrest numbers show aggravated and simple assaults as two of the top 5 juvenile arrest offenses committed in 2015.

Arrest records in the Murfreesboro case show the children alleged to have witnessed the fight were charged with “criminal responsibility for conduct of another,” which according to Tennessee criminal offense code includes incidents when a “person fails to make a reasonable effort to prevent” an offense. The offense was assault.

The FBI defines aggravated assault as an unlawful attack by one person upon another for the purpose of inflicting severe or aggravated bodily injury. Aggravated assaults can be committed with a firearm, knife or cutting instrument or other dangerous weapons (including clubs, bricks, tire irons). They can also be committed with hands, fists and feet, if the result is a serious injury.

Simple assaults are all assaults that do not involve the use of a firearm, knife, cutting instrument or other dangerous weapon and in which there were no serious injuries to victims.

Sublime to Ridiculous

I finally made it for a couple of hours to Nashville’s most acclaimed public high school.  The job was for two hours to proctor/administer a test and that was the sole encounter I had with the kids.  They were largely white and some had personality, meaning humor, which is a sign of intelligence and also security in self.  That ended and I went to the “prison” school located a block from my home.  It is a place few subs go and now I don’t even bother to speak or try it is that bad.

When I arrived the Teacher had not left yet so she left me lesson plans with work packets for the male cohort to do in the afternoon.  This middle school portion of this school is on the second floor with later start and dismissal times and it enabled me to do a double header and make a full day pay as I am taking Friday off.  There is no way I would work as a sub in a Nashville school the day before a holiday as the kids know its two weeks, no repurcussions and my experience tells me that kids sit on shit and will start the new year swinging, literally.

The Teacher took two students with her to place in another class as one had assaulted her Teacher at the mainstream school she was at which is why she is placed at this alternative school. I want to point out this is a middle school student and she assaulted her Teacher, only once as she was clear to explain as if that justified her staying behind.  She spent the rest of the afternoon desperate to be in the boys room with us and I had to literally block her physically from entering.  I have never touched or laid hands on a kid in my life and yet in Nashville I am frequently finding myself physically being touched or having to remove children in the least physical manner possible from situations that could escalate.

As for the other girl well she was just well weird if not possible mentally ill.  She greeted me when I walked in with “hey girl” which I promptly ignored (but throughout the afternoon when I opened the door to let kids in and out she was constantly in the hall and would say that)  and then proceeded to rant on, mock me, start inquiries about having kids and when I said no, asked if I was married.  She then got distracted and the mockery and the idiotic inquiries finally ended when they realized I had no interest in speaking to them other than collecting their work.  This girl also came back ran in and then promptly hid under a desk pulling a computer cart in front of her as if to hide. I called another Teacher nd I simply showed him where she was when him to come and remove her.   So he extricates her from her “hiding” place and she then informed me that I was a terrible Teacher and not one who should be at this school.  I so wanted to agree with her.

This is the first school I have heard students brag about hitting Teachers and they are all girls. This is the school where a girl took a mock swing and nearly contacted me.  She had a history of violence against her previous Teacher.    The girls in Nashville and particularly black girls are deeply troubled young women.  I have a few encounters that have enabled me to not enter every encounter with black girls with suspicion but in all honesty the focus on black males have truly done a disservice to the female half of that equation.  It is clear to me that they need as much attention and focus on behavior, expectations and future success as the boys.

As for the boys, they seem to talk incessantly about sex and stealing.  That is one thing that all the schools have in common with the young men, the hyper sexuality.   I have been subjected to it from middle age through high school and it is not even remotely complimentary nor actually intentional.  I am a 57 year old white woman but I am not fat and I wear makeup and as I was told by a middle school boy, I wear too much makeup and have different hair but I am not that old looking.  Okay then.

I have never been anywhere where appearance is so scrutinized and commented upon. It is bizarre if not off putting and discomforting and it happens everywhere.  This again is a class and monetary obsession in the South that crosses race lines and gender it is everywhere and it is something that other outsiders tell me repeatedly a “southern thing.”

By the end of the day of being there with kids for just over two hours is akin to what it must be like  being in prison. The kids constantly talk, largely gibberish, they opened the window and yelled to Teachers leaving, they go to the bathroom as if they have a kidney disease.  All the bathrooms are locked and require an Administrator to take them so at times they realize even that escape plan is not quite the allure they thought so they change their mind which says again they have no need to go at all.    Again this is something here that I have noticed is a true problem.  I saw that in Seattle to some degree but again here it is off the charts nuts. Many of the schools have them locked or they have allotted passes to curtail use and they have scheduled  bathroom breaks yet it does not stop them.  I believe it is because everything here is so regulated and restricted this is their only opportunity for a moment of freedom. I also believe that is why they trash them as they are angry and this allows them a place to express that rage.

Well they do in classrooms and halls as well.  Here are two stories from last spring with regards to assaults on Teachers in Nashville public schools

Mom Of First Grader Accused Of Assaulting East Nashville Teacher Speaks Out

Metro Police said a six year old beat her teacher with a chair and now the first grader faces five days suspension.
The incident happened at Caldwell Elementary in East Nashville.
FOX 17 spoke exclusively with the child’s mother, who says the school isn’t addressing the real issue.
A copy of the school referral obtained by FOX 17 hints that bullying may be to blame.
Metro Police showed up at the school Tuesday after the first grader attacking her teacher, according to a disciplinary report. The little girl, all of 40 pounds, got suspended for hitting and kicking teacher Joni Wells, throwing books and a chair at her, the report said.
The reported reason the girl acted out is that she got upset that children were looking at her.
The first grader’s mother, Jessica Newbern, said she’s been called up to the school many times because of her daughter’s behavioral problems.
“Of course she is grounded, of course,” Newbern said. “She comes home talking about being bullied and problems with the teacher and all of that. I am actually thinking that my daughter is acting out intentionally so she doesn’t have to go to school, that’s what I really think.”
Newbern said her daughter doesn’t have these problems at home and thinks something at school is setting her off.
Child Psychologist Leigh Van Horn said the child could very well be showing this extreme behavior as a reaction to bullying.
“She needs words, she needs to be able to identify and express her emotions, she needs to be able to say when she’s feeling frustrated or when she’s feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or scared,” Van Horn said. “She needs better coping skills, she needs to know what to do instead.”
The girl’s mother said she’s asked the principal and the school board to transfer her daughter to another class, but that has yet to happen.
Metro Schools denied a request for an interview but in a statement it said in part, “we take the safety of our students and staff very seriously, and aggression toward employees, no matter who is involved, will not be tolerated.”
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NASHVILLE, Tenn.–Metro Police are investigating a situation at Caldwell Elementary School where a 6-year-old student allegedly beat up a 39-year-old teacher.
The child is accused of using a chair to beat the teacher and throwing books. The child allegedly hit the female teacher multiple times, injuring the teacher and resulting in back and shoulder pain. The teacher had to be transported for treatment.
Caldwell Elementary is located on Foster Street in Nashville. The school is in charge of disciplinary action as prosecutors say the child is too young to prosecute.
Metro Nashville Public Schools released the following statement in regards to the incident:
“There was an incident today at Caldwell Elementary School involving a child who became unruly and threw items at a teacher during a tantrum. The child was disciplined appropriately, though Federal privacy laws bar us from publicly stating what that discipline was. Metro Police officers were involved, and we thank them for their assistance. We take the safety of our students and staff very seriously, and aggression toward employees, no matter who is involved, will not be tolerated.”

Teacher Suffers Concussion from Student Attack

Hunters Lane Teacher Assault
NASHVILLE, Tenn. A Hunters Lane High School student attacks a Metro teacher and its caught on camera. The 17-year-old is now charged with aggravated assault and the teacher is suffering from a concussion.
The largest teacher’s union in Tennessee says school violence is making teaching an even more difficult job.
The attacked captured on camera by other students shows the student tackling the teacher and continuing to hit him while other teachers tried to take control.
“I’ve seen other assaults like that. I’ve seen videos like that and quite frankly I’ve been a witness to it,” said Jim Wrye, the assistant executive director of the Tennessee Education Association.
Wrye says violence against teachers is on the rise.
“We see a lot more assaults on teachers and some of the injuries can be quite extensive or sometimes death,” said Wrye.
In this case, the family of the 24-year-old teacher says he has a concussion. Police say his head hit the floor during the attack.
Metro schools says it cannot confirm that assaults are increasing. They are still looking at the numbers. The school district does say that all teachers will soon be getting trained to handle violence just like this. The district is bringing in a program called VITAL: Violence Intervention Techniques and Language. Teachers will learn how to verbally deescalate situations and how to restrain out-of-control students.
“Teachers are shaping the children,” said Chase Phillips, a recent high school grad. “For kids to treat teachers like that, it’s just wrong.”
Some recent high school graduates say the problem nowadays is kids don’t have respect.
“I’m part of this generation and they just don’t respect authority as much as they should,” said Jake Greer, who graduated from Johnson County High School in 2015.
Police say they charged the teen with aggravated assault and resisting arrest. That video captured by students has since been taken down from YouTube.

And this is another story about violence against Teachers.  I fear for my safety every time I walk into a school.  I have reason to.

The Ugly Facts About Student Violence Against Teachers

  As the new school year begins, you might like to be updated on some school happenings that will no doubt be repeated this academic year. After this update, I have some questions one might ask the black leadership.

The ongoing and escalating assault on primary- and secondary-school teachers is not a pretty sight. Holly Houston is a post-traumatic stress specialist. She counsels teachers in Chicago public schools and reported, “Of the teachers that I have counseled over the years who have been assaulted, 100 percent of them have satisfied diagnostic criteria for PTSD.” It’s not just big-city schoolteachers traumatized. Dr. Darlyne Nemeth, in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, said last year, “I have treated many teachers with PTSD, and I am currently following a few of them.”

A Philadelphia seventh-grade girl with a history of incidents against her teacher sprayed perfume in the teacher’s face after telling her that she smelled “like old white pussy.” After telling her classmates “I’m about to kick this bitch’s white ass,” she shoved the teacher, knocking her to the floor.

In 2014, a Philadelphia 68-year-old substitute teacher was knocked out cold by a student (http://tinyurl.com/orldslb). Earlier that year, two other teachers in the same school were assaulted. By the way, Philadelphia schools employ close to 400 school police officers.

In a school district near St. Louis, teachers have had pepper spray and dog repellant sprayed in their faces. A Baltimore teacher had his jaw broken. In Baltimore, each school day in 2010, an average of four teachers and staff were assaulted. A 325-pound high-school student in Houston knocked out his 66-year-old female teacher (http://tinyurl.com/oqxmrfg). Nationally, an average of 1,175 teachers and staff were physically attacked each day of the 2011-12 school year.School violence is going to get worse.

 Last year, the Obama administration sent all the school districts in the country a letter warning them to avoid racial bias when suspending or expelling students. Secretary of Education Arne Duncan claimed that racial discrimination in the administration of discipline is “a real problem today. It’s not just an issue from 30 or 40 or 50 years ago.”

Last year, in Washington, D.C., an official of a teachers union tried to explain to a national gathering of black elected officials why white teachers are so problematic for black students, saying they just do not understand black culture. Excuses and calls for leniency will embolden school thugs.

What about student conduct in the 1930s, ’40s and ’50s? Don’t take my word. Ask black congressional representatives, 46 percent of whom were born in the ’20s, ’30s or ’40s. Start off with Reps. John Conyers (86), Charles Rangel (85), Eddie Bernice Johnson (79), Alcee Hastings (79) and Maxine Waters (77). Ask them whether their parents or kin would have tolerated their assaulting and cursing teachers or any other adult. Ask them what would have happened to them had they assaulted or cursed a teacher or adult. Ask whether their parents would have accepted the grossly disrespectful behavior seen among many black youngsters in public places — for example, using foul language and racial epithets. I’d bet the rent money that they won’t tell you that their parents would have called for a “timeout.” Instead, they will tell you that they would have felt pain in their hind parts. Then ask these leaders why today’s blacks should accept behavior that previous generations would not.

The sorry and tragic state of black education and its attendant problems will not be turned around until there’s a change in what’s acceptable behavior and what’s unacceptable behavior. That change must come from within the black community. By the way, it is an idiotic argument to suggest that white teachers are problematic for black students because they don’t know the culture. I’m nearly 80 years old, and during my North Philadelphia school years, in schools that were predominantly black, at best there may have been three black teachers.