Little Big Town

Much has been discussed regarding Jason Aldean’s song about a Small Town. Whatever who cares? Well those who love a Boss Baby sing poorly written songs in a poorly tuned Guitar with a gravel rough voice with no tone nor gravitas such as Johnny Cash, then yes you care. Aldean is one of the many white males who dominate Country Music Radio and fill the bucket at the honky tonks that align Broadway in Nashville when the drunks tip the “Bands” for what is ostensibly their pay for the night to sing bad cover tunes. Gone are the days of Hank Williams slipping out the back alley between sets at the Ryman to swill a few at the then seedy bars that aligned the strip.

The Aldean family are new Country, White, Rich and as Red as the State’s politics. I bet you cannot name who Loretta Lynn, Tammy Wynette, Patsy Cline or George Jones voted for or care. They were of another time and today the women would be relegated to the new Country aka Americana as they are not of the new Bro mold of what defines Country and Western music of today. To think they came up with this formula before AI shows how much a prototype on top of an archetype can make music and in turn money as that it the only thing in today’s contemporary Country music matters.

I reprint the article below about a type of “new” Country music crew that defy that logic but are finding themselves shut out of a City and State that defined Rhythm, Blues and Country; and in turn brought legends of all kinds of musicians, Bob Dylan for one, to record with the greats and learn the art of what was called “Country” Music. That time is memorialized in the Country Music Hall of Fame and to neglect the role of the Blues in the careers of Elvis and the Rolling Stones and Memphis is a disservice to all those Black Musicians in that scene but that too is again how the divide rules the State of Tennessee, two cities, two kinds of music, two kinds of crowds. Country has never been known for its Black Artists but they did and do exist as no one type or genre of Music is owned by anyone but it is often a reflection of a larger culture and audience who subscribe. That could go with regards to Hip or Rap but that too has been long associated with Black Urban Culture. So there equivalent to Aldean would be “Big City Living” I guess. What.ever.

Living in Nashville I knew what was already there and what was coming down the pike and I met the “resistance” and with that I knew they were way out of their league in that fight that I suspected was coming. Money is so important to the area and that Med and Ed was redefining it was the real deal maker but that Hospitality was in fact the draw and it enabled the power brokers to manipulate the many in making that the defining industry in which to bring the aspirants, the wannabees and the never wills to the area. Much is made of the migration to the area but it is largely in migration or from the surrounding regions, some from longer distances do relocate there but that is again for tax purposes or political reasons as the article discusses. But much like the famous in any place they live a bubble existence and their influence and interests are aligned with the larger picture for financial reasons only. They do not care about the workers, the rights of Gays, Women, People of Color or even the music industry unless they work in it. They have no need and when the times comes, checks are written and influence peddled. The State is rife with one corruption story after another it is how it works in politics. Buy some you get some. And with the focus on the issues of the Gay Community as a nice distraction, you get liberal gun laws, city takeover bills passed, poor funding for Education and the infrastructure goes ignored as you are busy fighting the new culture wars over Queers and Books. Not that they are not important but they area distraction and nowhere I have ever been does Nashville do the shiny key thing better. The only other matter of import are the function and role of Churches throughout the area, Nashville no exception and that truly is the real outlier in which to be concerned and this article has no mention of that or of the role of the Southern Baptists whose headquarters sit not far from the same honky tonks she visited. Be afraid, be very afraid when it comes to that cohort as they are hands out, buckets out more than any busker or band on stage.

I am glad I am gone and while I go back to visit Nashville in September for the Americana convention it is a way more mellow and music oriented crowd than those who come from CW fest. The definitive expression “White Trash” really fits but I am going with no boots nor hat, just a knowledge that the same city had January 6th rioters working in those same bars and hotels while they too waited at the trough for their turn for whatever brought them to the “It” town that Nashville still refused to relinquish.

Country Music’s Culture Wars and the Remaking of Nashville

Tennessee’s government has turned hard red, but a new set of outlaw songwriters is challenging Music City’s conservative ways—and ruling bro-country sound.

By Emily Nussbaum The New Yorker

July 17, 2023

A man in a cowboy had stands amid a group of women in cowgirl hats at NashVegas.

Broadway, formerly a rough neighborhood with a handful of honky-tonks frequented by locals, has become NashVegas, a strip lined with night clubs named for country stars.Photographs by Ashley Gilbertson / VII for The New Yorker

On March 20th, at Nashville’s Bridgestone Arena, a block from the honky-tonks of Lower Broadway, Hayley Williams, the lead singer of the pop-punk band Paramore, strummed a country-music rhythm on her guitar. A drag queen in a ketchup-red wig and gold lamé boots bounded onstage. The two began singing in harmony, rehearsing a twangy, raucous cover of Deana Carter’s playful 1995 feminist anthem “Did I Shave My Legs for This?”—a twist on a Nashville classic, remade for the moment.

The singer-songwriter Allison Russell watched them, smiling. In just three weeks, she and a group of like-minded country progressives had pulled together “Love Rising,” a benefit concert meant to show resistance to Tennessee’s legislation targeting L.G.B.T.Q. residents—including a law, recently signed by the state’s Republican governor, Bill Lee, barring drag acts anywhere that kids could see them. Stars had texted famous friends; producers had worked for free. The organizers had even booked Nashville’s largest venue, the Bridgestone—only to have its board, spooked by the risk of breaking the law, nearly cancel the agreement. In the end, they had softened their promotional language, releasing a poster that said simply, in lavender letters, “a celebration of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness”—no “drag,” no “trans,” no mention of policy. It was a small compromise, Russell told me, since their goal was broader and deeper than party politics: they needed their listeners to know that they weren’t alone in dangerous times. There was a Nashville that many people didn’t realize existed, and it could fill the biggest venue in town.

The doors were about to open. Backstage, global stars like Sheryl Crow, Alabama Shakes’ Brittany Howard, and Julien Baker, the Tennessee-born member of the indie supergroup boygenius, milled around alongside the nonbinary country singer Adeem the Artist, who wore a slash of plum-colored lipstick and a beat-up denim jacket. The singer-songwriters Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires walked by, swinging their seven-year-old daughter, Mercy, between them. There were more than thirty performers, many of whom, like Russell, qualified as Americana, an umbrella term for country music outside the mainstream. In the Americana universe, Isbell and Shires were big stars—but not on Nashville’s Music Row, the corporate engine behind the music on country radio. It was a divide wide enough that, when Isbell’s biggest solo hit, the intimate post-sobriety love song “Cover Me Up,” was covered by the country star Morgan Wallen, many of Wallen’s fans assumed that he’d written it.

Shires, overwhelmed by the crush backstage, invited me to sit with her in her dressing room, where she poured each of us a goblet of red wine. A Texas-born fiddle player who is a member of the feminist supergroup the Highwomen, she had forest-green feathers clumped around her eyelids, as if she were a bird—her own form of drag, Shires joked. Surrounded by palettes of makeup, she talked about her ties to the cause: her aunt is trans, something that her grandmother had refused to acknowledge, even on her deathbed. Shires’s adopted city was in peril, she told me, and she’d started to think that more defiant methods might be required in the wake of the Tennessee legislature’s recent redistricting, which amounted to voter suppression. “Jason, can I borrow you for a minute?” she called into the anteroom, where Isbell was hanging out with Mercy. “The gerrymandering—how do we get past that?”

“Local elections,” Isbell said.

“You really don’t think the answer is anarchy?” Shires remarked, bobbing one of her strappy heels like a lure.

“Well, you know, if you’re the dirtiest fighter in a fight, you’re gonna win,” Isbell said, mildly, slouching against the doorframe. “You bite somebody’s ear off, you’re probably gonna beat ’em. And if there are no rules—or if the rules keep changing according to whoever won the last fight—you’re fucked. Because all of a sudden they’re, like, ‘Hey, this guy’s a really good ear biter. Let’s make it where you can bite ears! ’ ”

That night, the dominant emotion at “Love Rising” wasn’t anarchy but reassurance—a therapeutic vibe, broken up by pleas to register to vote. Nashville’s mayor, John Cooper, a Democrat, spoke; stars from “RuPaul’s Drag Race” showed up via Zoom. The folky Americana singer Joy Oladokun, who had a “keep hope alive” sticker on their guitar, spoke gently about growing up in a small town while being Black and “queer, sort of femme, but not totally in the binary.” Jake Wesley Rogers, whose sequinned suit and big yellow glasses channelled Elton John, sang a spine-tingling version of his queer-positive pop anthem “Pluto”: “Hate on me, hate on me, hate on me! / You might as well hate the sun / for shining just a little too much.”

Before Adeem the Artist performed “For Judas,” a wry love song to a man, they summed up the mood nicely, describing it as “a weird juxtaposition of jubilance and fear.” Backstage, however, they struck a bleaker tone: Adeem was planning to move to Pittsburgh—“the Paris of Appalachia”—with their wife and young daughter. In Tennessee, the rent was too high, and the politics too cruel. As much as Adeem appreciated the solidarity of “Love Rising,” they viewed its message as existentially naïve: as Shires had suggested, the state was already so fully gerrymandered—“hard carved”—that, even if every ally they knew voted, the fix was in.

Only one mainstream country star played that night: Maren Morris, a Grammy-winning artist whose breakout 2016 hit, “My Church,” was an irresistible pro-radio anthem that celebrated singing along in your car as a form of “holy redemption.” Morris, who has had hits on terrestrial radio—the regular, non-streaming kind that you listen to on a road trip—was an exception to the rules of Music Row, where liberal singers, even supernovas like Dolly Parton, kept their politics coded, supportive but soft. Performers who were too mouthy, particularly women, tended to get pushed off the Row—and often turned toward the more lenient world of pop, as had happened with Taylor Swift, Kacey Musgraves, and Brandi Carlile (who, along with Amanda Shires, Natalie Hemby, and Morris, is a member of the Highwomen). Decades later, everyone in Nashville still spoke in whispers about what had happened to the Dixie Chicks, in 2003, when they got blackballed after speaking out against the Iraq War.

Morris had recently had a few skirmishes online with right-wing influencers—notably, Brittany Aldean, the maga wife of the singer Jason Aldean. Morris had called her “Insurrection Barbie”; in response, Jason Aldean had encouraged a concert audience to boo Morris’s name. Both sides had sold merch off the clash. The Aldeans hawked Barbie shirts reading “don’t tread on our kids.” Morris fans could buy a shirt that read “lunatic country music person”—Tucker Carlson’s nickname for her—and another bearing the slogan “you have a seat at this table.” (She donated the proceeds to L.G.B.T.Q. charities.) A few months before “Love Rising,” Morris had done an interview with one of the event’s organizers, Hunter Kelly—a host on Proud Radio, a queer-themed channel on Apple Music—and had told him that she wanted to be known for her songs, not her Twitter clapbacks. But, she added, she wouldn’t apologize for having political opinions: “I can’t just be this merch store on the Internet that sells you songs and T-shirts.” Within the context of Nashville, she explained, “I come across a lot louder than I actually am, because everyone else is so quiet.”

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Near the end of the concert, Morris, a petite brunette in a floor-length tuxedo coat with a tiny skirt, sang “Better Than We Found It,” a protest song, inspired by her newborn son, that she’d written after the death of George Floyd. During her opening banter, she had told a sweet, offhand story about watching her now three-year-old boy standing in awe as drag queens got ready backstage, amid clouds of glitter and hair spray. “And, yes, I introduced my son to some drag queens today,” Morris added, sassily. “So Tennessee, fucking arrest me!” The next day, Fox News fixated on the moment.

After the concert, Adeem’s Realpolitik echoed in my head. For all its warmth and energy, “Love Rising” hadn’t sold out the Bridgestone Arena. And Adeem wasn’t the only one leaving Tennessee: Hunter Kelly was moving to Chicago with his husband, frustrated that artists whose work he had celebrated for decades, like Parton and Miranda Lambert, weren’t speaking out. That night, I caught a glimpse of the other side of Nashville, down the street, at the honky-tonk bar Legends Corner. A rowdy crowd was dancing and drinking, screaming the lyrics to Toby Keith’s old hit “Courtesy of the Red, White and Blue”—an ass-kicking, jingoistic number that, twenty years ago, had helped knock the Chicks off the radio.

You notice certain things about a city when you’re an outsider. There was the way everybody ended their description of Nashville the same way: “It’s a small town inside a big city. Everyone knows everyone.” There was the fact that every other Uber driver was in a band. There were the pink stores, with names like Vow’d, selling party supplies for bachelorettes. Above a coffee shop with a #BlackLivesMatter sign was a taunting billboard flacking a proudly “problematic” weekly. I had originally come to the city to meet a set of local singer-songwriters whose presence challenged an industry long dominated by bro country—slick, hollow songs about trucks and beer, sung by interchangeable white hunks. This new guard, made up of female songwriters, Black musicians, and queer artists, suggested a new kind of outlawism, expanding a genre that many outsiders assumed was bland and blinkered, conservative in multiple senses. What I found in Nashville was a messier story: a town midway through a bloody metamorphosis, one reflected in a struggle over who owned Music City.

Every city changes. But the transformation of Nashville—which began a decade ago, and accelerated exponentially during the pandemic—has stunned the people who love the city most. “None of this existed,” the music critic Ann Powers told me, pointing out swaths of new construction. There had been a brutal flood in 2010, and early in the pandemic a tornado had levelled many buildings, including music institutions like the Basement East. But the construction went far beyond rebuilding; it was a radical redesign, intended to attract a new demographic. In hip East Nashville, little houses had been bulldozed to build “tall and skinnies”—layer-cake buildings ideal for Airbnbs. The Gulch, a once industrial area where bluegrass fiddlers still meet at the humble Station Inn, was chockablock with luxury hotels. Broadway, formerly a rough neighborhood with a handful of honky-tonks, had become NashVegas, a strip lined with night clubs named for country stars. Only tourists went there now. Mayor Cooper, meanwhile, wanted to host the Super Bowl, which meant building a domed football stadium big enough for sixty thousand people, which meant that the city needed more parking lots, more hotels—more.

This physical renovation paralleled a political one. The city, a blue bubble in a red state, had long taken pride in its reputation for racial comity, for being a place where people with disagreements could coexist: the so-called Nashville Way. Then, in September, 2020, the right-wing provocateur Ben Shapiro and his media empire, the Daily Wire, moved in from Los Angeles, followed by a large posse that included the online influencer Candace Owens, who left Washington, D.C., for the wealthy Nashville suburb of Franklin. This crew, along with other alt-right figures—the commentator Tomi Lahren, executives at the social network Parler—joined forces with maga-friendly country stars, such as Kid Rock and Jason Aldean, who owned clubs on Broadway. Under Governor Lee, who took office in 2019, Tennessee politics were blinking bright red: abortion was essentially banned; gun laws were lax; Moms for Liberty was terraforming school boards. Now the state wanted to ban drag acts and medical care for trans youth. When Nashville’s city council, which leans liberal, refused to host the 2024 Republican National Convention, Lee vowed payback—and tried to cut the size of the council in half. A week after the “Love Rising” concert, a shooter—whose gender identity was ambiguous—murdered six people, including three children, at a local Christian school. The gun-control protests that flooded the Capitol felt like a cathartic expression of a population that was already on edge. At one rally, the country singer Margo Price played Bob Dylan’s “Tears of Rage.”

Adeem the Artist said that they were leaving Tennessee the rent was too high and the politics too cruel.

All through the pandemic, newcomers kept pouring in—a thousand a month, by some calculations. Sometimes it felt as if California had tilted, sending refugees rolling eastward like pinballs, and although some of these new Nashvillians were wealthy Angelenos fed up with living in a fire zone, there were more complex attractions. Tennessee had no state income tax, and Nashville had dropped its mask mandate. It was now possible to work from home, so why not try Music City? When Shapiro announced his move, he called himself “the tip of the spear”—and, if your politics leaned right, Nashville was a magnetic force, with the whiteness of country music part of that allure.

For Nashville musicians, 2020 became a dividing line. Big stars died, among them John Prine, the flinty songwriter, and Charley Pride, the genre’s first Black star. With tours cancelled and recording stalled, artists had time to brood and reconsider. Some got sober, others got high, and many people rolled out projects reflecting the volatile national mood. After Maren Morris wrote “Better Than We Found It”—which has charged lyrics such as “When the wolf’s at the door all covered in blue / Shouldn’t we try something new?”—she released a video featuring images of Black Lives Matter posters and Nashville Dreamers. Tyler Childers, a raw, bluegrass-inflected singer-songwriter from rural Kentucky, made a video for his song “Long Violent History” in which he encouraged poor white Southerners to view their fates as tied to Breonna Taylor’s. Mickey Guyton, just about the only Black woman on country radio, released a song called “Black Like Me.” The Dixie Chicks dropped the “Dixie”; Lady Antebellum changed its name to Lady A. Everywhere, cracks were appearing in the Nashville Way.

The same year, Morgan Wallen—a native of Sneedville, Tennessee, who had been signed by the bro-country institution Big Loud Records in 2016, when he was twenty-three—got cancelled, briefly. In October, Wallen had been due to perform on “Saturday Night Live,” but after a video showed him out partying, in violation of covid restrictions, the invitation was revoked. Then, after he apologized and appeared on the show, a second video emerged, in which he used the N-word. Country radio dropped him; Big Loud suspended his contract; Jason Isbell donated profits from “Cover Me Up”—the song that Wallen had recorded—to the N.A.A.C.P. And then, in a perfect inverse of what had happened to the Chicks, Wallen’s album “Dangerous” shot up the charts. When I asked an Uber driver, a woman in her sixties with a scraped-back ponytail, what music she liked, she said, “Morgan Wallen, of course.” Asked what she thought about the scandal, she said, in a clipped voice, “He come back up real quick. They didn’t get him for too long. He’s No. 1 again.” When she dropped me off, she added, sweetly, “You have a blessed day, Emily.”

Leslie Fram, a senior vice-president at Country Music Television and a former rock programmer who moved to Nashville in 2011, put it plainly to me: Wallen had split the city. To some, he was a symbol of Music Row bigotry; to others, of resistance to a woke world. He’d apologized, sort of, but he hadn’t changed—not changing was a big part of his appeal. There was no denying his success, however, or the savvy of his handlers. His songs, starting with the 2018 hit “Whiskey Glasses,” which opened with the line “Poor me—pour me another drink!,” were all about the desire to drink the past away. His latest album, “One Thing at a Time,” thirty-six songs deep, with lyrics by forty-nine writers—which followed a stand-alone single called “Broadway Girls,” a collaboration with the trap artist Lil Durk that contains repeated mentions of Aldean’s bar—ruled the charts. In March, a few weeks before the “Love Rising” concert, Wallen announced a pop-up concert at the Bridgestone; it set an attendance record for the arena. In January, Wallen had headlined Governor Lee’s inaugural banquet.

When Holly G., a flight attendant, was grounded by the pandemic, she sank into a depression. For nine months, she holed up at her mother’s house in Virginia, soaking in bad news. In December, 2020, she found herself watching a YouTube video of a shaggy-haired, sweet-faced Morgan Wallen, seated on a rural porch and crooning the song “Talkin’ Tennessee” to an acoustic guitar: “What you say we grab some tailgate underneath the stars / Catch a few fireflies in a moonshine jar.” Holly played the video on a loop, soothed by its gentleness. “It was what got me out of that funk, listening to music,” she told me. “And then, in February, he was caught saying the N-word.”

Before 2020, Holly had never thought deeply about what it meant to be a Black fan of country music: it was just a quirky taste that she’d picked up as a kid, watching videos on CMT. Now the national racial reckoning had her questioning everything. Wallen’s behavior felt like a personal betrayal; she’d started reading widely, learning more about the history of country music. The genre had started, in the early twentieth century, as a multiethnic product of the rural South, merging the sounds of the Irish fiddle, the Mexican guitar, and the African banjo. Then, in the early twenties, Nashville radio producers split that music into twin brands: race records, marketed to Black listeners (which became rhythm and blues and, later, rock and roll), and “hillbilly music,” which became country-and-Western. By the time Holly started listening, the genre had long been coded as the voice of the rural white Southerner, with a few Black stars, like Pride or Darius Rucker or Kane Brown, as exceptions to the rule.

In the spring of 2021, Holly created a Web site for Black country fans, Black Opry, hoping to find like-minded listeners. Unexpectedly, she discovered a different group: Black country artists, a world she knew less about. Among them was Jett Holden, whose song “Taxidermy” was a scathing response to hollow online activism, sung in the voice of a murdered Black man: “I’ll believe that my life matters to you / When I’m more than taxidermy for your Facebook wall.” Holly became an activist herself—and then, to her surprise, a promoter, compiling a list of hundreds of performers and booking them across the country, as a collective, under the Black Opry brand. On Twitter, she embraced her role as a mischief-maker—and when she moved to Nashville, in 2022, she changed her Twitter bio to “Nash Villain.” By then, she was embedded in the politics of Music City, meeting with executives at labels and at the Country Music Hall of Fame. Long-simmering debates about racial diversity had intensified in the Trump era. At the 2016 C.M.A. Awards, a week before the election, Beyoncé and the Chicks performed their red-hot country collaboration, “Daddy Lessons”; Alan Jackson, the traditionalist curmudgeon who popularized the nineties anti-pop anthem “Murder on Music Row,” walked out.

In January, I visited Holly’s home, in East Nashville, where members of Black Opry were gathering to pregame before heading to Dee’s, a local music venue. We sat on an overstuffed couch, and Holly showed me some videos on her TV. One was a song called “Ghetto Country Streets,” by Roberta Lea, a warm, twangy portrait of a Southern childhood. (“I can hear my momma say, get your butt outside and play / And don’t come back until those lights are on.”) We all laughed and swayed to “Whatever You’re Up For,” an infectious dance-party number by the Kentucky Gentlemen, stylish gay twins who shimmied around a stable wearing leather pants and leopard-print shirts. The twins had the commercial bop of country radio, Holly said, but they were in a definitional bind. White stars often fold trap beats or rap into their songs, but, as the scholar Tressie McMillan Cottom has noted, the music still counts as country—it’s “hick-hop.” When Black men sing that way, their music is often characterized as R. & B. or pop. And gay stars—particularly Black gay stars—are a rarity, even in the wake of a trickster like Lil Nas X, who hacked the country charts in 2019, with “Old Town Road.”

After we finished some videos, a singer named Leon Timbo picked up his guitar. A big, bearded man with a warm smile, he harmonized with the Houston-raised singer Denitia on a slow version of a classic R. & B. song by Luther Vandross, “Never Too Much.” The cover, which he performed at Black Opry events, had been Holly’s suggestion: an object lesson in musical alchemy. Timbo said, “It’s difficult to take the song from its former glory, because in my house we know it by the beginning of it.” He imitated Vandross’s original, with its rowdy disco bounce—boom, boom, boom.

Holly said, “To me, a cover like this is bridging the exact gap that we need. Because Black people love some fucking Luther, and to take it and make it Americana—it takes it to a place they wouldn’t have thought of. And, then again, it is also an example to white people, wondering what our place is in the genre.”

If genre distinctions weren’t so rigid, Timbo said, people might see Tracy Chapman—who was inspired to play the guitar by watching “Hee Haw” as a child—and Bill Withers as country legends. They would know about Linda Martell, the first Black woman to play at the Grand Ole Opry. A purist nostalgia about country music was ultimately indistinguishable from a racist one: both were focussed on policing a narrow definition of who qualified as the real thing.

After the show at Dee’s, the group—several of whom were queer—hung out at the Lipstick Lounge, a queer bar with karaoke and drag shows. The queens did a rowdy call-and-response with the crowd: “Lesbians in the room, raise your hands!” In the vestibule to an upstairs cigar bar, I spoke with Aaron Vance, the son of a preacher with a radio ministry. Vance, a lanky man in his forties with a low drawl, was one of Black Opry’s more old-school members. A Merle Haggard-influenced singer, he’d written droll numbers such as “Five Bucks Says,” in which he imagined drinking with Abe Lincoln at a dive bar, talking about the racial divide. When Vance moved to Nashville, in 2014, he had been treated as an oddity, but in the farm community he came from, in Amory, Mississippi, it wasn’t unusual to be a Black man who loved country. His grandfather, a truck driver, had introduced him to Haggard. Vance considered his music his ministry, he said, and the Black Opry collective had freed him to pursue his mission on his own terms. “You can’t tell a wolf he’s too much of a wolf,” he said with a laugh—in other words, you couldn’t tell Vance that he was too country. When I asked him what his karaoke song was, he smiled: it was “If Heaven Ain’t a Lot Like Dixie,” by Hank Williams, Jr.

On a bright spring morning, Jay Knowles picked me up in his red truck and drove us to Fenwick’s 300, a diner where Music Row executives take meetings over pancakes. A Gen X dad with messy hair, Knowles had grown up in Nashville, with country in his blood. His father, John Knowles, played guitar with the legendary Chet Atkins, who helped pioneer the Nashville Sound—the smooth, radio-friendly rival of Willie Nelson’s gritty “outlaw” movement. In the early nineties, when Jay went to Wesleyan University, he felt inspired by the rise of “alt-country” stars, such as Steve Earle and Mary Chapin Carpenter, who had clever lyrics and distinctive voices full of feeling. It felt like a golden age for both mainstream and indie musicians, as each side sparred over who was a rebel and who was a sellout—a local tradition as old as the steel guitar.

Knowles returned home and went to work on Music Row, becoming a skilled craftsman who joked, in his Twitter bio, that he was “the best songwriter in Nashville in his price range.” He had scored some hits, including a 2012 Alan Jackson heartbreaker, “So You Don’t Have to Love Me Anymore,” which was nominated for a Grammy. But, looking back, he was troubled by how the industry had changed since marketers rebranded alt-country as Americana, in 1999, and bro country took hold, a decade later. The genre’s deepening division had been damaging to both sides, in his view: Americana wasn’t pushed by the market to speak more broadly, and Music Row wasn’t pressured to get smarter. It was a split that replicated national politics in ugly ways.

Knowles’s job was, in large part, still a sweet one: he met each day with friends, scribbling in a notebook as younger collaborators tapped lyrics into the Notes app. His publisher paid him monthly for demos, and arranged pitches to stars. But no writers got rich off Spotify royalties. Knowles had watched, with frustration, as the tonal range of country lyrics had shrunk, getting more juvenile each year: for a while, every hit was a party anthem, with no darkness or story songs allowed. Recently, a small aperture had opened for songs about heartbreak, his favorite subject. But after years in the industry he was wary of false hope: when his friend Chris Stapleton, a gravel-throated roots rocker, rose to fame, in 2015, Knowles thought that the genre was entering a less contrived phase. But on the radio sameness got rewarded.

One of the worst shifts had followed the 2003 Dixie Chicks scandal. At the time, the group was a top act, a beloved trio from Texas who merged fiddle-heavy bluegrass verve with modern storytelling. Then, at a concert in London, just as the Iraq War was gearing up, the lead singer, Natalie Maines, told the crowd that she was ashamed to come from the same state as President George W. Bush. The backlash was instant: radio dropped the band, fans burned their albums, Toby Keith performed in front of a doctored image showing Maines alongside Saddam Hussein, and death threats poured in. Unnerved by the McCarthyist atmosphere, Knowles and other industry professionals gathered at an indie movie house for a sub-rosa meeting of a group called the Music Row Democrats. Knowles told me, “It was kind of like an A.A. meeting—‘Oh, y’all are drunks, too? ’ ”

But a meeting wasn’t a movement. For the next two decades, the entire notion of a female country star faded away. There would always be an exception or two—a Carrie Underwood or a Miranda Lambert, or, lately, the spitfire Lainey Wilson, whose recent album “Bell Bottom Country” became a hit—just as there would always be one or two Black stars, usually male. But Knowles, now fifty-three, knew lots of talented women his age who had found the gates of Nashville locked. “Some of them sell real estate, some of them write songs,” he said. “Some sing backup. None became stars.”

Knowles felt encouraged by Nashville’s new wave, which had adopted a different strategy. Instead of competing, these artists collaborated. They pushed one another up the ladder rather than sparring to be “the one.” “This younger generation, they all help each other out,” he said. “It feels unfamiliar to me.”

Whenever I talked to people in Nashville, I kept getting hung up on the same questions. How could female singers be “noncommercial” when Musgraves packed stadiums? Was it easier to be openly gay now that big names like Brandi Carlile were out? What made a song with fiddles “Americana,” not “country”? And why did so many of the best tracks—lively character portraits like Josh Ritter’s “Getting Ready to Get Down,” trippy experiments like Margo Price’s “Been to the Mountain,” razor-sharp commentaries like Brandy Clark’s “Pray to Jesus”—rarely make it onto country radio? I’d first fallen for the genre in the nineties, in Atlanta, where I drove all the time, singing along to radio hits by Garth Brooks and Reba McEntire, Randy Travis and Trisha Yearwood—the music that my Gen X Southern friends found corny, associating it with the worst people at their high schools. Decades later, quality and popularity seemed out of synch; Music Row and Americana felt somehow indistinguishable, cozily adjacent, and also at war.

People I spoke to in Nashville tended to define Americana as “roots” country, as “progressive-liberal” country, or, more recently, as “diverse” country. For some observers, the distinction was about fashion: vintage suits versus plaid shirts. For others, it was about celebrating the singular singer-songwriter. The label had always been a grab bag, incorporating everything from honky-tonk to bluegrass, gospel to blues, Southern rock, Western swing, and folk. But the name itself hinted at a provocative notion: that this was the real American music, three chords and the historical truth.

The blunter distinction was that, like independent film, Americana paid less. (The singer-songwriter Todd Snider has joked that Americana is “what they used to call ‘unsuccessful country music.’ ”) Not everyone embraced the label, even some of its biggest stars: five years ago, when Tyler Childers was named Emerging Artist of the Year at the Americana Awards, he came onstage wearing a scraggly red beard, and growled, “As a man who identifies as a country-music singer, I feel Americana ain’t no part of nothin’ ”—a reference to the bluegrass legend Bill Monroe’s gruff dismissal of modern artists he disdained.

Maybe, as Childers later argued, Americana functioned as a ghetto for “good country music,” letting “bad” country off the hook. Or maybe it was a relief valve, a platform for musicians who otherwise had no infrastructure, given the biases of Music Row. Marcus K. Dowling, a Black music journalist who writes for the Tennessean, told me that, not long after the death of George Floyd, he’d written a roundup of Black female country artists, highlighting talents like Brittney Spencer, a former backup singer for Carrie Underwood, in the hope that at least one of them would break into mainstream radio. “Almost all of them ended up in Americana,” he said, with a sigh.

Getting signed to Music Row demanded a different calculation: you became a brand, with millions of dollars invested in your career. The top country stars lived in wealthy Franklin, alongside the Daily Wire stars, or on isolated ranches whose luxe décor was shown off by their wives on Instagram. This was part of what made the bro-country phenomenon so galling to its critics: white male millionaires cosplayed as blue-collar rebels while the real rebels starved. The comedian Bo Burnham nailed the problem in a scathing parody, “Country Song,” which mocked both bro country’s formulaic lyrics (“a rural noun, simple adjective”) and its phony authenticity: “I walk and talk like a field hand / But the boots I’m wearing cost three grand / I write songs about riding tractors / From the comfort of a private jet.”

When Leslie Fram first moved to Nashville, a decade ago, to run Country Music Television—the genre’s equivalent of MTV—she studied Music Row like a new language. “I understand why people who aren’t in it don’t get it,” she told me, over a fancy omelette in the Gulch. “I didn’t get it!” Fram, who has black hair and a frank, friendly manner, was born in Alabama but spent years working in rock radio in Atlanta and New York; she arrived in Tennessee familiar with Johnny Cash and a number of Americana types, like Lyle Lovett, but few others. It took her a while to grasp some structural problems, like the way certain songs never even got tested for airplay if the men in charge disapproved. Unlike a rock star, a country star required a radio hit to break into the touring circuit—so it didn’t matter much if CMT repeatedly played videos by Brandy Clark or the African American trio Chapel Hart. Most maddeningly, if women in country wanted to get airplay, they needed to be sweet and bat their eyes at the male gatekeepers at local radio affiliates. According to “Her Country,” a book by Marissa R. Moss, Musgraves—who had made a spectacular major-label début in 2013, with her album “Same Trailer Different Park”—saw her country career derailed when she objected to a creepy d.j. named Broadway ogling her thighs during an interview. Then the nation’s biggest country d.j., Bobby Bones, called her “rude” and a “shit head.” After that, her path forked elsewhere.

In 2015, a radio consultant named Keith Hill gave an interview to a trade publication, Country Aircheck Weekly, in which he made the implicit explicit: “If you want to make ratings in Country radio, take females out.” For a station to succeed, no more than fifteen per cent of its set list could feature women, he warned—and never two songs in a row. He described women as “the tomatoes of the salad,” to be used sparingly. Fury erupted on social media; advocacy organizations, like Change the Conversation, were formed. In 2019, the Highwomen released “Crowded Table,” a song that imagined a warmer, more open Nashville: “a house with a crowded table / and a place by the fire for everyone.”

Fram, who had recently launched Next Women of Country, a program aimed at promoting young female artists, was initially excited by what became known as Tomatogate. The controversy at least made the stakes clear. For the next decade, she met with other top brass, working to solve the gender puzzle. Did the proportions shift when Taylor Swift left the format? Was it residual resentment over the Chicks? Nothing that Fram or the others did made a difference—and radio play for women kept dropping. Finally, a top radio executive told Fram, “Leslie, A—the program directors are tired of hearing about this. Right? B—they don’t care.”

Hill, who started working in country radio in 1974, has moved to Idaho, where he is thinking of retiring. During a recent phone call, he presented himself, as he had in the past, as the jocular id of country radio—the last honest man in a world of “woke jive.” The demographic for country stations was narrow, he told me: white, rural, and older, skewing female. He conducted focus groups in which he pinpointed people from specific Zip Codes who listened to at least two hours of a given radio station a day. Based on their feedback, his advice to programmers was firm: no more than fifteen per cent women, never two in a row. Country music was a meritocracy, Hill insisted. He was just presenting data.

Hill did love one hip-hop-inflected new artist, he told me: Jelly Roll, a heavily tattooed white singer from Nashville who had a moving life story about getting out of prison, kicking hard drugs, and finding God. He was country’s “most authentic” new artist, in Hill’s estimation, with an outlaw story to rival Merle Haggard’s. Could women be outlaws? “You know, in central casting? I have my doubts,” Hill said. He blamed one woman after another for blowing her chance at success. The Chicks had “opened their big mouths.” Musgraves had “self-inflicted wounds.” Morris had “injured herself significantly”—she’d shift to pop, he predicted. He saw a cautionary tale in the divergent careers of two Black artists, Kane Brown and Mickey Guyton: Brown, a shrewd bro-country star, knew how to play the game, but Guyton had “hurt herself by being a complainer.”

The longer we talked, the more elusive Hill’s notion of merit became. When he praised someone’s authenticity, he didn’t mean it literally—everybody faked that, he said, with a laugh. It wasn’t about quality, either. Even if an artist was generic, and sounded like “seven Luke Bryans slurried in a blender,” his songs could become hits—if he knew how to act. “Repeat after me: ‘I wrap myself in the flag,’ ” Hill said. “Whether you are religious or not, when there’s September 11th or when train cars overturn, you better be part of the damn prayer.” He could have saved the Chicks’ career, he bragged: they should have talked about bringing the troops home safely. Such constraints applied only to liberals, he acknowledged. If you had “South in your mouth,” the way Aldean did, your highway had more lanes.

Eventually, Hill stopped speaking in code: “You got thugging in the hood for Black people, and you got redneck records for white people.” That was just natural, a matter of water flowing downward—why fight gravity? “Your diversity is the radio dial, from 88 to 108. There’s your fucking diversity.”

Jada Watson, an assistant professor of music at the University of Ottawa, began studying country radio after Tomatogate. What Hill called data Watson saw as musical redlining. The original sin of country music—the split between “race records” and “hillbilly”—had led to split radio formats, which then led to split charts. Never playing women back to back was an official recommendation dating to the eighties, formalized in a training document called the “Programming Operations Manual.” The situation worsened after 1996, when the Telecommunications Act permitted companies to buy up an unlimited number of radio stations; the dial is now ruled by the behemoth iHeartRadio, which has codified old biases into algorithms.

A man performs on the banjo as patrons look on at the Station Inn.

Since 2000, the proportion of women on country radio has sunk from thirty-three to eleven per cent. Black women currently represent just 0.03 per cent. (Ironically, Tracy Chapman recently became the first Black female songwriter to have a No. 1 country hit, when Luke Combs released a cover of her classic “Fast Car.”) Country is popular worldwide, performed by musicians from Africa to Australia, Watson told me. It’s the voice of rural people everywhere—but you’d never know it from the radio.

All parties agreed on only one point: you couldn’t ignore country radio even if you wanted to—it drove every decision on Music Row. As Gary Overton, a former C.E.O. of Sony Nashville, had put it in 2015, “If you’re not on country radio, you don’t exist.” Not enough had changed since then, even with the rise of online platforms, like TikTok, that helped indie artists go viral. Streaming wasn’t the solution: like terrestrial radio, it could be gamed. When I made a Spotify playlist called “Country Music,” the service suggested mostly tracks by white male stars.

One day, I walked down to Music Row, a beautiful, wide street of large houses with welcoming porches. On every block, there was evidence of prosperity: a wealth-management company, a massage studio. I passed Big Loud, which had a sign outside touting Wallen’s hit “You Proof”—one of the street’s many billboards of buff dudes with No. 1 singles. Nearby, I wandered into a dive bar called Bobby’s Idle Hour Tavern, which seemed appealingly ramshackle, as if it had been there forever. In fact, it had moved through the neighborhood; it was torn down to make way for new construction and then rebuilt to maintain its authentic look, with dog-eared set lists pinned to ratty walls. It felt like a decent metaphor for Nashville itself.

Inside, I ran into Jay Knowles, the Music Row songwriter. (It was a small town in a big city.) We talked about Nashville’s recent reputation as “Bachelorette City,” for which he offered a theory: although more than a quarter of Nashville was Black, the town was widely seen as “a white-coded city.” “I’m not saying this is a good thing,” he emphasized, but tourists viewed Nashville as a safe space, a city where groups of young white women could freely get drunk in public—unlike, say, Memphis, New Orleans, or Atlanta.

At the bar, I also met two low-level Music Row employees, who worked in radio and helped companies handle V.I.P.s. They happily dished, off the record, about clashes on the Row, but added that there was no point bringing their own politics into their jobs. It was like working for Walmart—you had to stay neutral. The problem with country radio wasn’t complicated, one of them said: the old generation still ran everything and would never change its mind. When I explained that I was headed to Broadway to meet bachelorettes, they rolled their eyes. Avoid Aldean’s, they said.

They weren’t alone: every local I met had urged me to go only to old standbys like Robert’s Western World, where I’d spent a wonderful night with Tyler Mahan Coe—the rabble-rousing son of the outlaw-country artist David Allan Coe—who hosts a podcast about country history called “Cocaine & Rhinestones.” “I hate nostalgia,” Tyler told me, spooling out a theory that true country music derived from the troubadours, whose songs had satirical subtexts and were meant to be understood in multiple ways. Bro country lacked such nuance—and so did the new Broadway.

Even so, Broadway charmed me, for a practical reason: there were no velvet ropes. Each night club had at least three stories. On the ground floor, there was a bar and a stage where a skilled live musician covered hits. On the second floor, there was another bar, another musician (and, in one case, a group of women toasting me with grape vodka seltzers). Above that, things got wilder, with a rowdy dance floor and, often, a rooftop bar. There was a campy streak to the scene which sometimes echoed the Lipstick Lounge: when the d.j. played Shania Twain’s classic “Man! I Feel Like a Woman!,” he shouted, “Do any of the ladies feel like a woman?” Loud cheers. “Do any of the men feel like a woman?” Deeper cheers. Call me basic, but I had a good time: in Manhattan, a slovenly middle-aged woman in jeans can’t walk into a night club, order a Diet Coke, and go dancing for free.

Everywhere, there were brides in cowgirl hats or heart-shaped glasses, and in one case a majestic rhinestone bodysuit worthy of Dolly. On a bustling rooftop, I chatted with a group holding fans printed with the face of the groom—who, they insisted, looked like Prince Harry. At a club named for the band Florida Georgia Line, a screaming woman threw silver glitter into my hair. Every local whom I’d spoken to loathed these interlopers, who clogged the streets with their party buses. But when you’re hanging out with happy women celebrating their friends, it’s hard to see the problem.

The bar at the center of Jason Aldean’s was built around a big green tractor. The bathroom doors said “southern gentlemen” and “country girls.” The night I went, the crowd was sedate—no bachelorettes, just middle-aged couples. The singer onstage was handsome and fun, excited to get a request for the Chicks’ “Travelin’ Soldier.” When someone asked for “Wagon Wheel,” a 2004 classic co-written by Bob Dylan and covered a decade later by Darius Rucker, the singer spoke nostalgically about passersby requesting the song when he busked on Broadway years ago, before the streets were jammed with tourists. “It just goes to show you that with a lot of dedication and hard work and about eleven years’ time, you can go about a hundred feet from where you started!” he said. “So here’s a little ‘Wagon Wheel’ for you!” Feeling affectionate, I looked up the singer online. His Twitter page was full of liked posts defending anti-vaxxers and January 6th rioters.

Taylor Swift got discovered at the Bluebird Café. So did Garth Brooks. A ninety-seat venue with a postage stamp of a stage, it’s tucked between a barbershop and a dry cleaner, but it’s a power center in Nashville—a place ruled by singer-songwriters. In January, Adeem the Artist wore a flowered button-down over a T-shirt that said “This Is a Great Day to Kill God.” They were playing their first Bluebird showcase, performing songs from their breakout sophomore album, “White Trash Revelry.” Some were stompers, like the hilarious “Going to Hell,” in which Adeem fact-checks the lyrics to Charlie Daniels’s “The Devil Went Down to Georgia” with the Devil himself: “He seemed puzzled, so I told him the story, and he said, ‘None of that shit’s real / It’s true I met Robert Johnson, he showed me how the blues could work / But white men would rather give the Devil praise than acknowledge a black man’s worth.’ ” Other songs were reveries about growing up amid “methamphetamines and spiritual madness.” They were folky tunes played on acoustic guitar, with witty, pointed lyrics. The people in the crowd seemed to be into it, even when Adeem took jabs at them.

Adeem grew up in a poor evangelical household in Locust, North Carolina, singing along to Toby Keith—the self-declared “Angry American”—on the car radio, in the wake of 9/11. They dreamed about becoming a country star, but as their politics veered to the left they felt increasingly at odds with the genre. Then, in 2017, they won a ticket to the Americana Awards, and were struck by the sight of the singer-songwriter Alynda Segarra, of the band Hurray for the Riff Raff, sporting a hand-painted “Jail Arpaio” shirt, and by the Nashville bluegrass performer Jim Lauderdale taking shots at Trump. “I was just, like, ‘Man, maybe this is it. Maybe this is where I belong,’ ” Adeem told me. Americana had another source of appeal for Adeem, a D.I.Y. artist with a punk mentality: you could break in on a shoestring budget. Adeem, who was barely scraping by painting houses in the Tennessee sun, had spent years building a following by uploading songs to Bandcamp. They budgeted what it would take to make a splash with an album: five thousand dollars for production, ten thousand for P.R. They held a “redneck fund-raiser” online, asking each donor for a dollar, then recorded “White Trash Revelry” independently. (The album was distributed by Thirty Tigers, a Nashville-based company that let them retain the rights.) Adeem’s strategy worked astoundingly well: in December, Rolling Stone praised “White Trash Revelry” as “the most empathetic country album of the year,” ranking it No. 7 on its year-end list of the twenty-five best albums in the genre. This year, Adeem was nominated for Emerging Act of the Year at the Americana Awards, and had their début at the Grand Ole Opry.

After the Bluebird gig, I joined Adeem at an Airbnb nearby, where they were experiencing some “visual distortions” from microdosing shrooms. Over pizza, they spoke about their complicated relationship with their extended family, back in North Carolina, some of whom believed in QAnon conspiracy theories. Adeem’s relatives were thrown by, but not unsupportive of, their choices: when their uncle insisted that Adeem’s gender identity was a rock-and-roll performance à la Ziggy Stardust, Adeem’s father defended his child’s authenticity, in his own way. “He said, ‘No, no, I think he really believes it!’ ” Adeem told me, with a laugh.

There had always been queer people in country music. In 1973, a band called Lavender Country put out an album with lyrics like “My belly turns to jelly / like some nelly ingenue.” But there were many more ugly stories of singers forced into the closet—and even now, after many top talents, including songwriters such as Brandy Clark and Shane McAnally, had come out, old taboos lingered. You could be a songwriter, not a singer; you could sing love songs, but not say whom you loved; you could come out, but lose your spot on the radio. When T. J. Osborne, of the popular duo Brothers Osborne, confirmed that he was gay, in 2021, his management company arranged a careful campaign: one profile, written by a sympathetic journalist, and one relevant single, the rueful but vague “Younger Me,” which felt designed to offend no one.

People sing into microphones at the Lipstick Lounge.

Adeem, who is inspired as much by Andy Kaufman’s absurdism as by John Prine’s smarts, was part of a different breed. Queer Americana had plenty of outspoken artists, from River Shook, whose signature song is “Fuck Up,” to the bluegrass artist Justin Hiltner, who wrote about AIDS in his beautiful single “1992.” These artists, all left-wing, came from backgrounds like Adeem’s—small towns, evangelical families, abuse and addiction. It was Adeem’s biggest gripe: Music Row was marketing a patronizing parody of their “white trash” upbringing to the poor. Adeem’s own politics weren’t a simple matter. When they objected to Tennessee laws against trans youth, it wasn’t as a liberal but as a parent and a redneck suspicious of government control: “It’s, like, stay away from my kids! Stay out of my yard, you know?”

At the Airbnb, Adeem’s transmasculine accompanist, Ellen Angelico, known as Uncle Ellen, pulled out a deck of cards: a beta version of Bro Country, a Cards Against Humanity-style game based on actual country-radio lyrics. The group got loose and giggly, shouting out clichés—“tin roof,” “red truck”—to form silly combinations. In one way, the game mocked country radio; in another, it paid tribute to it—you couldn’t play unless you had studied it. Like hip-hop, country had always been an aggressively meta-referential art form; even bro country had become increasingly self-aware.

On bad days, Adeem had told me, the two sides of Nashville seemed locked in a “W.W.E. wrestling match,” playing cartoon versions of themselves. Adeem had engaged in a few bouts themself, lobbing attention-getting songs online, such as “I Wish You Would’ve Been a Cowboy,” which slammed Toby Keith for wearing “my life like a costume on the TV.” Still, Adeem sometimes fantasized about what it would be like to meet Keith. They wanted not a fight but a real conversation—a chance to tell Keith how much his music had meant to them, and to ask if he had regrets.

In mid-May, at the Academy of Country Music Awards, Music Row was out in force. Bobby Bones, the d.j. who’d insulted Musgraves, was backstage, interviewing stars. Wallen won Male Artist of the Year. Aldean sang “Tough Crowd,” dedicated to the “hell raisin’ . . . dirt turnin’, diesel burnin’, hard workin’ nine-to-fivers” who “make the red white and blue proud.” (A few weeks later, he released the repellent “Try That in a Small Town,” an ode to vigilantism.) The show’s highlight was a fun come-on called “Grease,” by Lainey Wilson, who won four awards, including Female Artist and Album of the Year. Wilson, a farmer’s daughter from Louisiana, was Music Row’s latest female supernova, a devotee of Dolly Parton (one of her early hits was “WWDD”) who’d moved to Nashville after high school. A decade of hustle had paid off: by 2023, she had a role on “Yellowstone” and a partnership with Wrangler jeans. Maren Morris wasn’t around: that week, she was in New York, accepting a prize at the glaad Awards. On Instagram, she’d posted a video of herself in a recording studio with the indie-pop guru Jack Antonoff. At a concert a few weeks later, she sang a duet with Taylor Swift.

The A.C.M. Awards’ final number was the live première of Parton’s new single, “World on Fire,” from an upcoming rock album. When the lights came up, Parton was wearing an enormous, rippling parachute skirt printed with a black-and-white map of the globe—and then, when it tore away, she was in a black leather suit, chanting angrily as backup dancers strutted in Janet Jackson-esque formation. For a moment, it felt like a shocking departure—a political statement from a woman who never got political. Then that impression evaporated. Politicians were liars, Parton sang; people should be kinder, less ugly. What ever happened to “In God We Trust”? Four days later, on the “Today” show, Jacob Soboroff asked Parton which politicians she meant, and she replied, breezily, “All of them, any of them,” adding that if these unnamed figures tried “hard enough” and worked “from the heart,” matters would surely improve.

The performance reminded me of Keith Hill’s advice to the Chicks: they should have sprinkled some sugar. Parton had been the biggest letdown for Allison Russell and the organizers of the “Love Rising” benefit, who told me that they’d “begged and begged” her to sing at the Bridgestone, or plug the event, or Zoom in. She’d performed with drag queens many times; she’d written an Oscar-nominated song, “Travelin’ Thru,” for the 2005 film “Transamerica.” As Parton herself had joked, she was a kind of drag queen—a “herself impersonator,” as Russell had put it. If the most powerful country star on earth wouldn’t speak out, it was hard to imagine others taking a risk.

Another song performed that night had a different feel: “Bonfire at Tina’s,” an ensemble number from Ashley McBryde’s pandemic project, a bold concept album called “Lindeville,” which featured numerous guest artists. The record had received critical praise but little radio play. During “Bonfire at Tina’s,” a chorus of women sang, “Small town women ain’t built to get along / But you burn one, boy, you burn us all.” In its salty solidarity, the song conjured the collectives emerging across Nashville, from “Love Rising” to Black Opry, groups that embodied the Highwomen’s notion of the “crowded table.” You could also see this ideal reflected in “My Kind of Country,” a reality competition show on Apple TV+, produced by Musgraves and Reese Witherspoon, that focussed on global country acts and included the gay South African musician Orville Peck as a judge, and in “Shucked,” a new Broadway show with music by Brandy Clark and Shane McAnally, which offered up a sweet vision of a multiracial small town learning to open its doors. Mainstream country radio hadn’t changed, but all around it people were busily imagining what would happen if it did.

McBryde, who grew up in a small town in Arkansas, had spent years working honky-tonks and country fairs, a journey she sang about in the anthemic number “Girl Goin’ Nowhere.” She was a distinctive figure in mainstream country, a brunette in a sea of blondes, with arms covered in tattoos. When we met backstage one night at the Grand Ole Opry, she was playing in a memorial concert for the character actor and pint-size Southern sissy Leslie Jordan, who had created a virtual crowded table during the pandemic, through ebullient Instagram videos, then recorded a gospel album with country stars such as Parton.

Unlike Jordan’s joyful quarantine, McBryde’s pandemic had been “destructive,” she told me: unable to work, she drank too much, feeling like a “sheepdog that couldn’t chase sheep.” “Lindeville” had been the solution. During a weeklong retreat at an Airbnb in Tennessee, she had written for up to eighteen hours a day with old friends, among them Brandy Clark and the Florida-born performer Pillbox Patti. The result was a set of songs about distinct characters—songs that were blunter and less sentimental than most music on country radio. The album, which was named for Dennis Linde, the songwriter behind the Chicks’ feminist revenge classic “Goodbye Earl,” had a spiritual edge, McBryde said. She had grown up in a “strange, strict, rigid” place where she was taught that “everything makes Jesus mad,” and it felt good to envision a different kind of small town. “The fact that God loves stray dogs, people like me, is so evident,” she said. “There are things that I’ve survived, especially where alcohol was involved, that I shouldn’t have.”

McBryde, who called herself as “country as a homemade sock,” had no plans to shift to pop, as peers had done. But she had a pragmatic view of the industry to which she’d devoted her life. Making music in Nashville, she joked, could feel like adopting a street cat, only to have it bite you when it turned out to be a possum. “He’s a shitty cat, country radio—but he’s a good possum,” she said. To build a big career, you had to keep a sense of humor: “I won’t name her, but there’s another female artist who has a very vertical backbone, like I do. And we joke with each other and go, ‘What are they gonna do— not play our songs?’ ”

I’d attended a staging of “Lindeville” at the Ryman Auditorium a few weeks earlier, shortly after Tennessee’s first anti-drag ordinance passed in the State Senate. The event was framed as an old-fashioned radio show, with an announcer and whimsical ad jingles. T. J. Osborne and Lainey Wilson were among the guest stars, creating a feeling of Music Row camaraderie. During McBryde’s hilarious “Brenda Put Your Bra On,” in which women in a trailer park gossip about neighbors—“Well, did you hear that? There went the good dishes / I hope they don’t knock out the cable”—fans threw bras onstage.

At one point, McBryde serenaded a small child, who was seated at her feet. The show’s climax was “Gospel Night at the Strip Club.” Sung on an acoustic guitar by the Louisiana musician Benjy Davis, the tune was about having a spiritual experience in an unexpected place. As Davis sang the key line, “Jesus loves the drunkards and the whores and the queers,” spotlights illuminated part of the audience. The congregation of the Church of Country Music looked around for what had been revealed, then gasped: five drag queens, scattered among the Ryman crowd, stood up, their gowns glittering like sunlight. ♦

Hello Dolly

I like to think of Dolly Parton as a larger than life figure – like Barbie – only a talented walking, talking version. As for her music I have found those who covered them by far more interesting but no less or more entertaining. That said, Dolly is well Dolly, a complicated Southern woman who like many seem to be more endearing as they age and have numerous complex surgeries in which to aid that process of holding on less to grace and beauty but of deflecting aging. Think of Patricia Altschul in Southern Charm as another of those Southern Belle types.

Now Dolly has always been an icon in the Gay Community. Why? Well, The Advocate, can explain that to you. But I have always thought it has to do with the caricicture of her appearance and less about the music of country but then again many a foot stomping dance party has been played along with a tune of Dolly’s. I always thought it was less about her and more about her former manager, Sandy Gallin, who died in 2017. He along with Kirt Webster, her former publicist until he too got MeToo’d are also largely responsible. They knew how to market her and take her out of the icon of other Country Women, like Loretta Lynn and Tammy Wynette’s of her day. It was a smart way of changing courses or islands in a stream (pun intended). If anything Dolly when asked or pressed on a issue of controversy says something but actually says nothing that commits her to anything. That my friends is the Southern Conundrum experience I have long written about. It is when they literally say one thing and then through the course of the conversation completely contradict what they just said. We might call it hypocrisy but that is an act versus a word, they don’t bother with that, they literally talk in circles and then often end a dialogue with “I haven’t heard that before.” Well you just did and then you told me your version of it, it is called GASLIGHTING. And the South can sure light a lot of gas lamps, and Dolly is no exception.

Her position with regards to the MeToo movement was perhaps my most distressing and given that she had a “close personal and professional” relationship with Porter Wagoner and that too has been long brushed under the wig, it was that show biz breakup was truly what launched her solo career. The woman has been around enough to know who is who and what is what when it comes to women in show business and country music is hardly exempt despite its moral sanctity.

This interview in The Guardian again confirms that Dolly says little without saying anything more than this: Surely, I say, she must have experienced sexual harassment in her career. “I have, but I have always been able to manoeuvre because I come from a family of six brothers, so I understand men and I’ve known more good men than bad men. It’s a man’s world, and it’s not their fault any more than it is just life and … we have allowed it to happen. I think people now see that we’re here, and women are very important, and they need us, just as we need the men. But if someone was getting real aggressive with me, I’d scream or throw something at them. But, of course, I’ve been hit on – I’ve probably hit on some people myself!”,

Through self-depreciating remarks, such as asked about trans bathroom bills, Parton goes: “I think everybody should be treated with respect. I don’t judge people and I try not to get too caught up in the controversy of things. I hope that everybody gets a chance to be who and what they are. I just know, if I have to pee, I’m gon’ pee, wherever it’s got to be.” See how that works?

When you are seeking an icon you can turn to Dolly, here charity and philanthropy know few boundaries. We can thank her when the wildfires tore up the area where Dollywood is located she was there to ensure money was raised to help families while they recovered. Her work for women (despite her claims of being apolitical), and of course the donation to Moderna vaccination research cannot be overlooked. She has been an amazing resource to many and yes while for some I think there is projection as always on larger than life figures, the Imagination Library, is again something I think few know about and in a region where reading is not fundamental this one is a personal favorite.

But again I point to her own absurd self mockery and denial of being a Feminist as at this point, Really? Despite the fact that she has starred in two of the greatest women’s movies ever (9 to 5 and Steel Magnolias), when I ask if she is a feminist she wrinkles her nose: “I don’t think … I mean, I must be if being a feminist means I’m all for women, yes. But I don’t feel I have to march, hold up a sign or label myself. I think the way I have conducted my life and my business and myself speaks for itself. I don’t think of it as being feminist. It’s not a label I have to put on myself. I’m just all for gals,” she says.

My icons are proud of themselves and their evolution and identity regardless of politics, but when I was watching Watch What Happens Live and saw Dolly on there saying she supported the black community when Whitney died by buying a property in North Nashville, I knew instantly were we being Dolly-winked. Again Southern’s lie out of habit and that is normal but this was well a little much. And sure enough she was finally fact checked and this is from NPR on this issue. She did not and if anything made millions on said property as it is one of the most heavily gentrified areas of Nashville. That said good on her as a woman she should do what it takes to be financially independent and stand on her own six inch heeled boots.

Why Do We Need Dolly To Be A Saint?

August 20, 202112:00 PM ET

Amanda Marie Martinez

Singer-songwriter Dolly Parton’s persona has taken on an almost saint-like manifestation in recent years, writes Amanda Marie Martinez. Ron Davis/Getty Images

In recent weeks, multiple news sources (including NPR) ran stories on Dolly Parton, claiming she had, with the royalties she made from Whitney Houston‘s cover of “I Will Always Love You,” invested in a Black community in Nashville decades ago. These reports failed to acknowledge how exactly the singer invested in the neighborhood — beyond purchasing property in an area that has heavily gentrified in recent decades — while also presenting misleading claims about Parton’s own assertions. The reports resurfaced America’s love affair with the country star; media sources have become so quick to feed the public feel-good stories about Parton that routine fact-checking has gone overlooked.

Dolly Parton is having a moment — and has been, for the last half century. The singer, who first got her big break on The Porter Wagoner Show in 1967, has endured as one of the savviest business minds in the entertainment industry, transforming herself over the past several decades from the great singer/songwriter she has always been into a larger-than-life figure that’s expanded her brand to include a theme park, popular films, and a lovable caricature of herself that’s captivated generations. Article continues after sponsor message

Parton’s tireless work ethic and vivacious personality has created a strong appetite among the American public for an endless stream of feel-good Parton content — a demand that’s amplified in the tumultuous age of Trump, Black Lives Matter and the coronavirus pandemic. But while the singer’s widespread appeal has long bonded fans across the lines of race, sexuality, and political beliefs, her persona has taken on an almost saint-like manifestation in recent years.

News stories abound about Parton’s often well-deserved praise. In the early stages of the coronavirus pandemic, the singer donated $1 million to help fund the Moderna vaccine. After Black Lives Matter gained mainstream traction last summer, Parton vocalized her support for Black lives — a risky statement to make for anyone in the notoriously conservative country music industry.

The recent, erroneous reports claiming Parton invested in a Black community decades ago triggers questions about how a collective infatuation with the singer has driven her beyond reproach — and adequate fact checking.

In a recent appearance on Bravo’s Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen, Parton was asked what her best purchase was from the more than $10 million she’s earned from Whitney Houston’s 1992 cover of her song, “I Will Always Love You.”

Parton explained she purchased property in what was then a Black neighborhood in Nashville, Sevier Park, saying it was “the perfect place for me to be considering it was Whitney,” adding, “I just thought this was great and I’m going to be down here with her people, who are my people as well.”

After the interview aired, several articles appeared quickly, pointing to the story as proof of the singer being akin to a longstanding civil rights icon, supporting the Black community long before Black Lives Matter was mainstream. Most notably, the Washington Post ran a story (triggering several additional stories) incorrectly stating Parton purchased the Sevier Park property in 1997, and portraying the singer as a champion of the Black community in Nashville without direct evidence beyond her purchase of the property in question. These claims come after the singer was forced in recent years to change the name of her “Dixie Stampede” dinner show for its celebrations of the confederacy, and also fail to look into the details of Parton’s property ownership claims.

Online property records from the Nashville Planning Department indicate Parton acquired the properties in question, two neighboring parcels at the corner of 12th Ave S and Elmwood Avenue, in 1990 and 1991 (then transferred to Parton’s trust in 1997) — before the massive success of Houston’s cover, released in 1992 as part of The Bodyguard soundtrack. These stories have also been presented without clear indication about how she contributed to the Black community beyond purchasing property — the compound then had a large gate constructed around it — in a neighborhood that has heavily gentrified over the past few decades, an area now called 12 South and one of most-white, tourist-driven and expensive areas of Nashville.

According to Jessica Wilkerson, an associate professor of history at West Virginia University and someone who has written about Parton’s presence in the popular imagination, Parton’s recollections regarding the property in question are part of a pattern in how the singer has described her property investments, and in how she has branded herself.

Just as the singer has now claimed to have purchased the Sevier Park property as a way of giving back to the Black community, Parton has offered similar explanations when discussing property she owns in Sevier County, the area of East Tennessee where she is from and where she now co-owns a popular theme park bearing her name, Dollywood.

“[Parton] has a pattern of claiming that when she purchases property, she invests in a place that she’s helping people,” explains Wilkerson. “I think she can get away with that when she’s doing it in her hometown. It gets trickier to do that with a Black community, where she doesn’t live, she’s not from there, and she’s doing it as a rich white person who can buy up real estate.”

Parton’s purchase of property in what then was Sevier Park, a central area of Nashville, also paralleled broader national trends of “urban revitalization,” where large numbers of white Americans began moving back into city centers and displacing residents of color in the process. Downtown Nashville likewise began undergoing renovation efforts in the 1990s, which included restoration of the historic Ryman Auditorium in 1994.

According to Learotha Williams Jr., associate professor of African American and Public History at Tennessee State University, Parton’s purchase of the Sevier Park property shouldn’t be interpreted as a conscious contribution to the Black community there, but part of a larger story of gentrification in Nashville.

“She invested her money in an area that had a rich Black history, but one that was actively being undermined as a result of gentrification,” he explains. Williams Jr. elaborates that the story of Sevier Park is part of a larger historical pattern within the city, where similar trends of Black displacement have impacted neighborhoods such as East Nashville, North Nashville and Edgehill, a neighborhood where Black residents are actively fighting gentrification.

The recent reports heralding Parton as a champion of the Black community are not the first time the star’s name has inexplicably been brought up in conversations about racial justice. Over the past year, as demands to remove the bust of Nathan Bedford Forrest — a confederate army general and the first Grand Wizard of the Ku Klux Klan, from the Tennessee State Capitol — intensified, they were met with widespread calls to replace the statue with a Dolly Parton monument. Others, including writer Marcus K. Dowing, suggested a Black figure, such as Ida B. Wells, would be better suited to replace the bust of Forrest.

The growing Parton obsession raises questions about why the media and the broader American public has developed such a strong appetite for stories about the country music star.

To Dr. Tressie McMillan Cottom, a MacArthur Fellow, associate professor in the iSchool at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, and someone who has written about what she calls “The Dolly Moment,” such stories aren’t truly about the singer, but an American public deeply invested in her positive portrayals – and what it says about themselves.

“This isn’t about Dolly,” McMillan Cottom explains. “Loving Dolly is a stand-in for how we can remediate our love for the nation, because Dolly is part of that American, apple pie iconography.”

At a time when uncomfortable conversations about race have been at the forefront of national dialogue, McMillan Cottom explains Parton offers a reprieve from that news cycle, explaining: “I think we want to be able to feel proud of our country, our nation state, our citizenship, that national bond. [Parton’s] a way to do that without being nationalist.”

Nothing left to see…

So now move along its all over folks. You know the drill, the train wreck happens and we all stop and crane our necks, pivot and watch the disaster unfold. We do our best to act shocked and horrified but it is more about that Instagram moment where you can whip out your phone, document and tell everyone “It could have been me!” Yes that is the battle cry of Americans every time a disaster strikes. We are such a ME culture it should explain the endless divisiveness and rage that permeates society, from mask wearing to Covid vaccine.

Marco Rubio immediately after being vaccinated decided to emulate his cult leader and tweet about Fauci and Covid and of course this being a time when all the world is addicted to social media (getting Opioids in Covid time is challenging) so this is the way to be heard and it beats getting a megaphone and standing in a public park or square. And from this new mode of communication you can reach thousands/millions who will affirm your insanity or dogpile you to later amend, defend, deny or remove said offense. This is social media – lather, rinse, repeat. Every day when I log on I see the trending subjects and wonder why in the fuck do you care about Geraldo Riveria or Hillaire Baldwin? Do you know them? Did they do something to you personally? Are they dead of Covid? When you give someone so much attention it shows you do care. It is why when someone responds to a post on a message board, Facebook, a newspage comment page or other forum with a nasty usually ad hominem attack (it is never about logic, thought or an analytic rational response just knee jerk emotions) it makes them feel better that they “got them.” No, what it does tell me is that you have no life, you play target games online and you then walk away with nothing gained or ventured. Wow just wow. This is cancel culture.

Yesterday I read of a sad young man’s struggle with race in his high school and with issues that were about bullying (which I wrote about) and how that accompanies often racist tropes among them. So over three years he retained a video of a classmate he did not know well, socialize with but she was the archetype/prototype of a popular girl. Blonde, blue eyed and a cheerleader. Then as graduation day came he released this video to damage her reputation, to call out the culture of the school and to quote him: “I’m going to remind myself, you started something,” he said with satisfaction. “You taught someone a lesson.”

Okay lesson learned that you hold onto anger you don’t communicate with the one directly involved that caused the anger, nor even to the person who forwarded a private conversation to you who should also be questioned as to the intent, and wait three years to do harm, to bring attention to what is important but in a manner that is less about the issue itself and more about the person and what they did. Well, we all do stupid shit and we should be able to correct our behavior and apologize. I also wrote about Social Emotional Learning and part of that curriculum is the concept of Restorative Justice. He may of missed that class. As a saying I like to use here – Two Wrongs Don’t Make it Right. There are two people wrong and wronged here. The young lady using the word “Nigger” to address a friend is idiotic but then again have you heard Rap lyrics. The missed messaging the contradiction there is using a slur to embody a culture that white kids emulate. It is up there with the GOP eschewing Covid protocols while actually following them and lining up for vaccines when offered. It sends a note that says, do as I do and say but don’t do as I say and do if you are smart enough to know this is all bullshit. So to young rappers who cavalierly throw about the word, have you read Huckleberry Finn or other works that use that term and what are your thoughts there? Or no you can’t read that book as it uses the word. See the contradiction.

Then we have another musical medium, Country. Again here is where mixed messaging expounds in ways that again left another Musician, a black one no less, a rarity in Country dead. This is the Herman Cain of Donald Trump, damned if I do, damned if I don’t ethos.

This editorial in the Washington Post discusses that conundrum about how the CMA Awards went ahead with the show, with some protocols in place but sent a man to his death. Traveling exposes you to many people in the process. I suspect that again this virus is a 72 hour window one, where you get somewhere wait three days, test, wait the three days for results and go from there. So in other words the actual current standard of a seven day quarantine. There are immediate ones and they are only great if you have a high viral load so this can miss the again, infectious period. We are already off an running with the new strain that is still no measles but is infectious longer clearly. Again, what that means is understanding how this transmits. and so far we are guessing but it seems to be very flu like and just wider in spread. Again if this was airborne like measles and highly contagious like smallpox, we would all be dead.

So Charlie Pride is another casualty of what I call So Nashville. An unprecedented arrogance and idiocy that defies logic. From the suicide bomber to the endless headlines of how much money the city got in PPP funds, will get in the current stimulus, while talking about the price of real estate and sales of land as they rank number one in Covid positive again only proves my point. They have no priorities other than money and the collateral damage in the wake is just another way to make money. Mark my words all those small businesses damaged in the bomb will be out of business, the property sold for millions and some massive condo or hotel up in their place with flashing dollar signs to let people know they are rich, bitch! It’s So Nashville.

And that is where we are with Covid, the real issue is money and the endless shutdowns, curfews and restrictions have further confused and infuriated people to ignore warnings, that with every day do become more dire. The endless contradictory models used by varying medical facilities that have us coming into contact with a death racing comet or well crashing into black hole are also confusing as who the fuck knows science here in America? And this essay in the Washington Post sums it up nicely calling it the Covid Gotcha Game.

This I can’t stress enough which the author states:

There’s hope in the vaccines and in the change of president. But the next administration should refrain from pinning too much hope on us. President-elect Joe Biden has said that the moment he takes office, he will ask people to wear a mask for 100 days. Sure, ask. But also, please, mandate masks in public indoor spaces and enforce that mandate. Close the places where we gather indoors against our (or our families’) better judgment. Compensate the businesses that have to close. Pay workers to stay home if they have covid symptoms. Make testing easy, fast and free. Restrict gatherings and travel and enforce those restrictions.

In other words, make us behave as though we are still in the midst of a massive public health crisis in which thousands of Americans are dying every day.

And leaving it to us to regulate and control ourselves is not working and the idea that you can be the mask police and confront someone over their not wearing one is a bad idea. This is from the Post’s Miss Manners column.

Dear Miss Manners: How can I make people aware of the need for safety precautions? I see people on the street who are not social distancing and not wearing masks. I just want to yell at them that they’re being stupid and endangering themselves and others. But I suppose you would say that’s impolite.

Yes, and it is also counterproductive and, unfortunately, provocative.

You may be sure that there is not a soul left who is unaware of the recommended safety guidelines. Those who disobey the rules have chosen to do so, for whatever reason — they don’t believe the science, they consider it a nuisance, or they are indifferent to endangering others.

Compliance, as with etiquette rules in general, is voluntary. That is why it is the law’s responsibility to protect us from threats to life, limb and property. Attempts by citizens to do so do not end well.

Going around yelling at scofflaws is itself a danger. Those who are challenged like that do not apologize and reform; they fight back. Being challenged arouses defenses, which tend to be highly emotional and have occasionally been lethal.

Even milder approaches, such as offering a stranger a mask, are likely to be rebuffed, and probably not pleasantly.

No one would like to see everyone behaving properly and responsibly more than Miss Manners. You would then find her on her front porch, with a book and a glass of prosecco, satisfied that she had accomplished her life’s work.

But she could not accomplish this by running around scolding strangers. When people come to her, it is because they have behavior problems — their own or, more likely, someone else’s. She endeavors to convince them that considerate behavior is in everyone’s interest; even those who are proudly rude hate being treated rudely. And she helps people refuse to be victimized by others’ rudeness.

But when it comes to physical threats, whether from weapons or disease, she cannot recommend direct confrontation. The practical thing to do is to get out of range.

And this brings me to my last incident of the day that is about the endless need to confront, scold, reprimand or simply demean another you feel is wrong and you need to be right. I have of late experienced and also felt compelled to do so as a matter of respect. I get it, I really do but there comes a time to do the dance, the Walk-Away. Your dignity and self respect matters more.

This is from New York Magazine about a neighborhood Karen. It was perceived as a racial issue but that is again from the narrator whose prism he sees the worlds as a man of color. He did not see that his neighbor who yes was white, but also a woman and lesbian which puts her in the same classification as he, a marginalized minority in America. But in the initial stages of their encounter it is understandable but what happened does not make it right. Even the Bird Watcher in Central Park refused to continue on with the level of persecution faced by the idiot woman, who again should have been mandated to sit with him an do some restorative justice as a way of seeing how her actions can lead to serious reactions and in turn serious problems. Going back to the teenagers who could have had that teachable moment that might have also reverberated through the school and its culture. But alas no that requires work. We don’t like to do work, we can however rubberneck quite well.

The article ended on this note:

“It shouldn’t have started any conversation,” Norrinda replied. The Hayats spent most of the summer hoping the conversation would die out, if she was being honest. In the end, they didn’t write back to the people vowing to curse Schulz on their behalf; they didn’t take that discount at the restaurant. They chose not to cooperate with the prosecutor. “Personally, I think if [Schulz] had been prosecuted and found guilty in any way, even just paid a $500 fine, I think this would have gone away for her a lot faster,” suggested a Montclair resident who had tracked the situation.

“I find it embarrassing, the entire ordeal,” Norrinda emailed me one night. “Didn’t Toni Morrison say, ‘The function, the very serious function of racism is distraction. It keeps you from doing your work. It keeps you explaining, over and over again, your reason for being.’ I should be grading papers right now, but I am writing you.” That was the rub. “What is Susan doing right now? Not this. Not explaining herself six months later. We didn’t press charges because then we become the wrongdoer. We don’t believe in the criminal legal system. We believe in restorative practice. I would be happy if she moved. It would not make me happy if she was in jail.”

Fareed posed a question in one of our talks: “White supremacy that’s alive and well and a part of all of us,” he said, “and the question is, How much of it are we going to reject? And how much are we willing to sacrifice ourselves in order to continue to move forward?” He asked it from an intellectual distance, as if he were delivering closing arguments or posing a question to his class. But at close range, the question simply is, Would my neighbors step up to defend me again? And will they continue to want to have this conversation about race now that the immediate drama is over?

To that I have no answer. If history repeats itself, which for the record it is right now we are now moving into the 70s, the 80s sucked then and now so yeah, back to Disco! That said, we are not resolving anyting but turning up more shit to stir the pot and for many who will elect to continue and do the work, yeah that, work. The heavy lifting we may see an opporturnity to grow. If Christidakis is correct and we are following this pandemic with the Golden Age of the 1920’s then we have a two fold problem but irony it was from that we had a move out of darkness into light when it came to issues around sex, gender and race. We are smarter now and we have more so what do we do with more? Well we could just pivot and walk away or we could stay and clean up the wreck we made. Restorative justice.

In Solitude

Ah yes the day when all those in love or at least pretending to be comes up later this week.  The candy hearts, the flowers, the pledges of devotion and the rest all happen on the day of the 14th.  I will be alone as I have been for decades now and don’t see that changing any time soon.

Of late I have debated if I am lonely or just alone or a combination of each.  I have come to the conclusion I am just alone and it is by choice; however, I do think that if I do this much longer I will be unable to find the skills needed to be integrated into a world that continues to fascinate me.  And when I use the word fascinating it can be double ended as in both good and bad and that is how I responded to the question to “How do you like Nashville?” for so long and then I stopped and now say, “I don’t.”  I learned early on that either/or response garners no further inquiry as here in Nashville people don’t care.

Yesterday I went to my coffee spot where is the sole place I go to interact and find connection and it was packed so I left and came back two hours later and it was still packed so I asked them to put on hard thrasher music so that it would clear out the house.  It worked and many drank up and left but then so did I as I just felt I needed to go home and hibernate. I can only be around so many people before I feel deeply uncomfortable and then as I left I told a Barista why and she said that she just had customers that came in and asked her what was wrong with them as everyone was staring at them.  She informed them it had nothing to do with them individually it is just what people do here they stare at people.  I had not actually realized that but that was something I had noticed and thought it was about me and I had said repeatedly to the kids there to stop doing that as customers noticed but I realized that it was not just the staff it was everyone.  The kids in the schools are these odd freaks that note every detail, comment on everything and are utterly inappropriate that I simply had decided that race, poverty and the culture contributed to that.  It happened to me at the Symphony one time too many and as a result I quit going so I have internalized this and again apply this to Nashville as a whole and it became another reason in which to loathe the place. 

As the building I live in turns condo another neighbor is moving out.  They are Black and I have spoken to them twice, when the moved in and now when they are moving out.   They have come in and out of the building and I have never seen them with windows or blinds open and never spoken to them at any time.  This is common here but many of the young white people do open windows and speak but this again is rare and if not uncommon.  No one speaks here unless cornered.   A neighbor and I finally spoke and he lied to my face about his moving and the following week I noticed his front porch cleared off and he was gone.  This is Nashville, transient, anti-social and ill educated. 

So this may be America today as there is no community.  Today on CBS Sunday Morning they had the front story about Being Lonely.  It profiled a man who simply quit talking to people for 20 years and then just stopped as he started.   Which was even more ironic that it was preceded by a couple who only bike in tandem.    And later  the broadcast had a profile with Steve Hartman covering the last story he would ever do on his father.   Steve noted he was now an Orphan.  Funny I have been an Orphan now over 25 years,  I never spoke to my father before he died as by then his own anger and isolation had led him into two more marriages after my Mother died and we never were able to establish any relationship after her death that would have enabled us to bond and I wondered who was responsible for that or can you assign blame to people who never had to begin with?  So no Steve Hartman was wrong to think that you can never have love that unconditional in one’s life when you may have never had it.    

And just like the South there were two more stories about Nashville on the Sunday stories, one on the Today show about women in Country Music and in turn another on  CBS Sunday Morning about Dolly Parton.  The Today show discussed how Nashville was a boy’s town and how women in country music are rarely given the airplay or respect in the industry from bars with their names on them to the recognition of their concerts or sales in the industry and this has been going on for quite some time. While meanwhile on CBS their story was  about Dolly Parton’s legendary career and her contributions to music all while not responding to the question: Are you a feminist? The promptly listing all the qualifications and beliefs that feminists possess.  Yes this is Nashville the perpetual conundrum and contradictions that make it impossible to ever decode.

And maybe that is why the man in the profile stopped talking as sometimes you come away from conversations wondering about if you make any sense. And that question was asked and in turn the reality is that a major problem as how do you reach out to find that elusive tribe in which we are told we all belong?

I chose not to belong but it is I hope temporary but even I look at my history and wonder if I was ever a member of any tribe? 

Social isolation is a term often used interchangeably with loneliness, but while the two are closely related, they do not necessarily mean the same thing.
 

You can be lonely in a crowd, but you will not be socially isolated. Isolation has been defined as an objective state whereby the number of contacts a person has can be counted, whereas loneliness is a subjective experience. While the terms may have slightly different meanings, both can be painful experiences and have a harmful impact on the individual

Social isolation describes the absence of social contact and can lead to loneliness. It is a state of being cut off from normal social networks, which can be triggered by factors such as loss of mobility, unemployment, or health issues. Isolation can involve staying at home for lengthy periods of time, having no access to services or community involvement, and little or no communication with friends, family, and acquaintances.

There are many contributing factors to social isolation. Many things can prevent people from leaving the house and having contact with other members of society, such as long-term illness, disabilities, transport issues, unemployment and economic struggles, or domestic violence.

Some may be physically able to go out and meet people but are inhibited from doing so by factors such as depression, social adversity, becoming a carer for a loved one, or bereavement. Any of these factors can be barriers to forming and maintaining social networks and can lead to loneliness and isolation.

So what is loneliness versus being alone?  I think it is about quality over quantity and that number of four of those to whom you belong may explain much of what I see here – little education, early marriage, immediate children following marriage and a tangential but essential membership to a local church.  Keep your family close and strangers away.  The door that closes here in Nashville rarely opens and when it does it comes with a caveat – have a check – as money is all that truly matters to gain entry. That is where we are now in America finding where we belong or not and those with money have the private clubs and those who don’t have social media.  Once again the poor get that of lesser quality.

Moment of Silence

Last night the CMA (Country Music Awards) had the obligatory moment of silence for the victims of the shooting at the Borderline Bar in Thousand Oaks.  For the record it was the 307th mass shooting in 2018.  That is gold record standings!   Meanwhile the remaining victims or the other 306 shootings got moments of talk and prayer I guess.  Or how about those who died from the massive fires in the region or those who were killed in hate crimes thanks to the rising tide of hate in America but hey let’s have a moment of silence for the 11 who died from the endless tide of gun violence in America.

I live very close to where the awards were given last night and in the endless parade of country superstars nary a mention of guns or violence were shared nor the issue of MeToo or Sexism, rising tides of white nationalists who use this music as a call to arms

– Stormfront invested a lot of money into recording some country CDs. They were slightly more explicitly white pride than what you’d see in mainstream country music. And they would go to big country concerts that were attended by majority-white crowds in the South – an Alan Jackson concerts somewhere in the Deep South. And they would go into the parking lot. And they would hand out the CDs, sort of subtly spreading these messages of more white pride songs to an audience that they thought was going to be more receptive to that message.

 Or how Country Music fails year after year to acknowledge the changing voices of country music that have steadfastly remained young and blonde year after year.  Funny that in this article most of them are the prototype but hey that is the Nashville Way, the contradiction over the conundrum.   And lets not forget it is  very very much white.  Funny the Country Stars of my youth were diverse and interesting and very much female, with men who were less than pretty (well their clothes were) and even a black dude!  Not a rainbow by any stretch but they seemed like people I knew or would like to know.  This year Country was amazed that they had more faces of color than in years past!   They are calling this “Woke” Country.  Wow.  Just wow.

Living in the “vile” as I now call it I just try to keep afloat.  Swimming in the deep red sea is cold despite the fact that blood that seemingly flows from its shores on a daily basis.  You could take a compass and draw a circle from where the event was last night and within a 5 to 10 mile radius find someone who has been touched by violence in that circumference.  Only two years ago a tourist was killed right out front by what? A gun.  The trial for his killers just finished and they were a couple who robbed then killed him right in front of the country hall of fame.  Did he get a moment of silence?

Simple math two plus two equals four.  They may not happen on the same day by the same gun but it adds up.  Here in Nashville the home of the silent prayer has increasing violence with each passing day most of from the hands of children holding guns.

This is the way they report on criminal violence here in Nashville they wrap it in a biscuit full of butter as if having less crime in one area means it is getting better not worse.  They love top 10 lists here and the area is number 10 for highest rates of deaths associated to guns.   Stats are: Death by firearm per 100,000 population: 15.4  No permit required for a purchase of a firearm.   Right now the trial of the Waffle House shooter is ongoing and he came here from another state armed to the teeth despite being flagged as a problem.  Well that is another number they love here the supposed 100 people a day moving here.  Makes you wonder what type or kind.  But hey they do like to blame outsiders for the problem despite the history of it here. 

While the number of people shot throughout Nashville is on pace to hit 430 in 2018 — the highest in more than a decade — East Nashville has seen a dramatic drop in violent crime since the mid-2000s.

The number of reported violent crimes in the East Precinct dropped by nearly half, from 1,798 in 2004 to 984 in 2017, and is on track to experience even fewer this year.

Nashville as a whole also has less violent crime than it did in the mid-2000s, but it has seen an uptick in recent years. Between 2013 and 2017, violent crime increased by 12 percent across Davidson County, rising in every precinct except East and West.

Gun violence in Madison also shot up in 2017, with 42 victims injured or killed, the most since at least 2004. The precinct is expected to exceed that number this year

Again where crime happens and more importantly to whom – white, pretty, young, tourist – they may be solved, the rest fall into the wayside of daily crime reports.  Good to know.  Many of the crimes are often due to the individual turning themselves in which saves the Police from doing nothing.  They need a criminal oversight board just to ask them about how cases are investigated and resolved and why ones are put on a priority list versus those who seem to fall into the circular file cabinet.  I would love to know who killed the Gay man who tended bar at a Gay bar near my home and was left to decompose in his home for a week before he was found.  He was not a pretty young blonde nurse I guess.

Oh wait just when I thought you could not get crazier than Nashville crazy comes this out of Kentucky. Well this tops rap music and violent video games. 


Zombie television shows are among the root causes of mass shootings, Republican governor says

The Washington Post
By Kristine Phillips
November 14 at 5:03 PM

Kentucky Gov. Matt Bevin (R) has been forthright about what he believes are the root causes of mass shootings. A few months ago, he blamed gun violence on children’s access to smartphones, video games and psychotropic drugs.

Most recently, he blamed society’s obsession with a specific genre of violent entertainment.

“Seriously, what’s the most important topic that seems to be in every cable television network for example? Television shows are all about what? Zombies,” he said in an interview Tuesday with conservative Kentucky radio host Leland Conway.

Mass shootings point to deep cultural problems, Bevin said, particularly in a society that consumes daily doses of violence through the media. He acknowledged tying zombie shows to gun violence might be perceived as “trite and simplistic.” But, he argued, American culture is “inundated by the worst things that celebrate death,” including the forms of entertainment young people consume.

“These are drips, drips, drips on the stones of the psyches of young generations that are growing up in a society that increasingly said this is normal and okay,” he said. “And eventually, some of those young minds are not going to be able to handle it.”

Bevin talked about what he believes causes mass shootings during a portion of the interview about the future of gun rights with Democrats controlling the House. Democrats, some of whom ran on a promise to push for gun control, are taking over the House on the heels of another mass shooting in which 12 people were killed inside a California bar. Some who escaped the rampage are survivors of an earlier mass shooting that killed 58 people at a country music festival in Las Vegas last year.

Last month, a gunman stormed inside a synagogue in Pittsburgh and killed 11 congregants — the deadliest attack on Jews in the history of the country.

Bevin did not mention these recent shootings during the interview, though he said there have been incidents in Kentucky.

“We’ve had things that are fueled by both people that are insane, people that are hateful and people that are just bent on wreaking havoc and perpetuating evil,” he said.

Last June, Bevin participated in a roundtable discussion about gun violence, the root cause of which, he said, are the ways society poisons the minds of children.

He said violent television shows and video games have desensitized young people, and their access to cellphones have made them prone to self-harm and depression. Young people, he said, are then medicated with psychotropic, mind-altering drugs.

“And then we’re shocked, for reasons that are beyond me, that children act out this way. And yes, it’s only a few. But my gracious, it only takes a few,” he said.

The roundtable was convened by a school safety commission President Trump created in the wake of a school shooting in which 17 people were killed in Parkland, Fla., early this year.

NashVegas

That is one of the many monikers that Nashville attaches to itself like a child looking for a nickname. Again, I have never experienced anything quite as sad.grim.pathetic. I say this as this is a city searching for purpose or reason of decades of being the second best, the neglected ugly sister where Memphis seemed to draw the attention and in turn the history and respect when it comes to booze and music.  Funny I always associate it with the murder of Martin Luther King so you see my priorities. I have yet to go to Memphis and now will due to the King memorial there and to see Graceland.  Balance people balance!

After the 2010 flood, the country was in dire recession and Nashville was trying to be a boon town and in turn the federal monies that came in during this time, along with the investors looking to hide/park/launder/exploit the Government money that the Obama administration made available to communities under water, in this case literally, that were the result of the 2008 recession.  That was which was lost in  Nashville was opportunity gained.   But the reality was for whom?  It appears that the rich got richer and the poor were still poor just employed.

The South has an almost reverence for poverty as that is what Jesus was.  Yes the mythical or real or whatever person who lived thousands of years ago (they did not have dinosaurs in the Middle East) was poor.  Sure but given adjustments with inflation he still would have been poor just not dirt poor. But poverty is seen as an aspirational tool in which to elevate oneself by the same mythical boot straps that don’t exist and are a part of another unicorn tale in American history.  That is what is the constant message from the pulpit to the podium as if you are poor you can rise above those circumstances and become wealthy and happy and President of the United States.  That latter one I assume will be removed from many individuals pep talks in the future. 

But poverty is also another tool in which to bury people.  The view of those poor is that they have failed intrinsically to rise above their status, their skin color, the endless laws, policies and regulations often put in place to ensure that climb on the ladder is akin to tackling climbing Mt. Everest.  From education to housing the lines are not ones drawn in the sand.  Add to that medical care,  public transportation, the notions of access versus availability becomes another rung in the infinity ladder.

Add the next factor to ensure that the myths continue to rise is the role of the Church to inflate, deflate and polemicize the failures of those who don’t believe hard enough.   Yes Dorthy just click those heels three times and you will be home.

This is the hypocrisy that dominates the air here, thick like the humidity and just as oppressive Religion is the curse and the blessing that runs redolent through the Bible belt and this belt is extra large with plenty of holes in which to choke you with.  Drugs rule here and they run from the illegal with regards to the Opioid crisis (but pot that is the gateway to hell and that highway is a one way ticket issued to largely people of color. Green means go, go directly to jail or a ticket with a fine that you can’t pay. Opioids are for white people and in turn that means rehab and self pity.  Got it? Good.
Then we have the legal and the whiskey trail runs long here next to that same belt in the same way the Bourbon and betting in Kentucky.  But horses like distilleries not dispensaries are run by those who have their own history and resources in which to fund the monuments that dot the streets of these confederacy’s.

It seems exhausting to keep track of the players in this game, no it is quite easy.  First follow the money, then follow the Bible, then follow the women and you will find the order of import in the land of Jesus.  Someone has to fill that plate when passed.

And the plate runneth over when it comes to booze.  The street of honky tonks that make millions in revenue for the city of Nashville cannot be denied.  The street is called Broadway and is no less theatrical just less glamorous than the one to the north.  Dorothy click those heels and take me there as I have been in many a seat in many a house there, here in the city I do live,  I have never set foot in any of them.

These business are now full on corporations down to branding akin to Trump with affiliations and associations with greater stars who no longer live here or do so only temporarily as no one with real money is here full time unless you have a business here, the largest employer is the Government followed by Vanderbilt and then Ryman entertainment.  Many of the bars, the stores and other entertainment venues (Opryland Resort for one) own and run these that bring the boys to the yard and that is why they are wetting themselves over the future Nashville Yards another copy of New York Hudson Yards only with less style and more cheap over chic.    I hope to be long gone when this bullshit is finally finished.  Vegas was built by the mob, Nashville was built by white trash. But with money.

Money here comes primarily from three factors, Ed and Med and Hospitality.  The latter is the one that employs the workforce that is supposedly 100 people a day who come here without the qualifications needed to work in the first two and they are the ones that pay the bare minimum The Musicians that have acclaimed their fame to those boozeria’s that align Broadway are paid by tips, so from your 3 dollar bill put that extra 2 that you get from the 5 you break, give one to the player and the other to the Bartender, they need it.  I could use a drink myself it is now hitting over 100 degrees here.

Lawyers Drugs and Money is what built NashVegas and they run this town to the ground.  There are few smart educated professionals that live here, no one in their right mind would unless they wanted to lose it.  Come here for the bullshit and stay for the prayers.  You will need them.

This is from the Washington Post regarding the truth behind the promise and the reality beyond the hypocrisy.  Drinks on me, well just as long as they $3 bucks!



Sobering truths
Inside country music’s complex — and increasingly lucrative — love affair with alcohol

By Emily Yahr  The Washington Post  June 28, 2018

ARLINGTON, Tex. – As the temperature inched toward 92 degrees in the parking lots outside Kenny Chesney’s concert in May, the beer cans were icy, the Jell-O shots were melting, and the T-shirts were direct: “Country Music and Beer, That’s Why I’m Here.” “Pour Me Something Tall and Strong.” “Make America Drunk Again.”

Brightly hued bottles of Blue Chair Bay Rum, the country superstar’s popular beverage brand, lined the tables at tailgates around AT&T Stadium, where fans gathered hours before the first opening act went on at 5 p.m. When the crowd of about 46,000 started streaming into the venue, some friendly patrons near an entrance offered a beer bong funnel to passersby, and cheers erupted whenever anyone took on the challenge.

“Tequila, baby!” one man yelled nearby. Across the street, participants in a mother-daughter tailgate ticked off why summer Chesney concerts are so appealing: “Beer, songs, sunshine.” That night, Chesney, who has found immense success in the past two decades selling the idea of island-style relaxation, would reference alcohol in 18 out of his 23 songs.

Although fans imbibe copiously at concerts of every genre, all of which boast songs about drinking, it’s possible that no slice of American life has embraced alcohol with the enthusiasm of country music. The two have gone hand-in-hand for decades, thanks in part to the so-called “tear in your beer” songs that helped make the format famous.
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‘Tear in my beer’: How country artists use alcohol to sing about love

Country artists love singing about drinking. It’s an essential part of many classic country tunes, especially the ones about love. (Nicki DeMarco, Sarah Hashemi/The Washington Post)

But today, country music and alcohol are inextricably linked as never before. Not only has the genre become known (and sometimes mocked) for its sheer amount of drinking-themed songs, but an increasing number of country acts have created their own brands of booze, including Chesney’s rum, Blake Shelton’s Smithworks vodka, Miranda Lambert’s Red 55 wine and Toby Keith’s Wild Shot mezcal.

In June, Shelton and Jason Aldean opened bars in downtown Nashville. They join recent establishments from Florida Georgia Line, Alan Jackson and Dierks Bentley, each of whom has a musical catalogue that pairs naturally with a few drinks.

“I know what’s going on at my shows. People are coming out to blow off steam and have a great time,” said Bentley, whose current tour is sponsored by Twisted Tea. “I’m kind of like the lead bartender: Jumping up on the bar table, drinking shots with you and singing ballads with you like at an old Irish pub somewhere.”

Every artist — even those who don’t drink — knows the power of relating to audiences through drinking, even if it’s in appearance only. Brad Paisley closed his 2012 concert tour set list with one of his biggest hits, “Alcohol,” during which he would invite his opening acts back onstage. A makeshift bar was brought out, and drinks were poured — except, according to one opener’s band member, the liquid was actually lemonade Vitamin Water.

However, when hearing “country music” and “alcohol” together, some people are reflexively defensive. Traditionally, the conjured image is not flattering, from the early-1900s “drunk hillbilly” stereotype to summer 2014, when country concerts saw a spate of intoxication-related hospital trips and arrests, and one death.

But that connection is changing, as the genre is skewing younger and wealthier than ever. According to the Country Music Association, fans of country music ages 18 to 24 have increased by 54 percent over the past decade, and the format has grown in popularity on the coasts — not just middle America, as many assume. The CMA also reported country music consumers have an average annual household income of $82,000, above the national average, and that amount is climbing.

Decades ago, when the country format was scorned as niche music of the working class, the prominence of alcohol fed into the cliche of drowning your sorrows at a honky-tonk. Now, it’s the reverse. Modern country singers promote alcohol largely as an escape: partying with friends, having wild nights on the town or — for singers like Chesney who lean into the tropical, Jimmy Buffett vibe — sitting on the beach with a drink in hand.

“Alcohol no longer serves as a sign of the distance between country music listeners and the middle class culture,” country music historian Diane Pecknold said, “but as a sign of the similarity.”

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The holy grail in country music can be summed up in one word: authenticity. And if there’s one star who sums up authentic country music, it’s Hank Williams, the legendary singer who inspired generations of artists by writing hits such as “I’m So Lonesome I Could Cry,” “I Saw the Light” and the classic drinking song “There’s a Tear in My Beer.”

In 1953, Williams died of a heart attack at age 29 after years of alcohol and prescription drug abuse, and his influence lived on in more ways than just as an artist. Bobby Bare, who launched his country career in the 1960s with “Detroit City” and released a song this year called “I Drink,” about the effects of alcoholism, remembers that trying to trace Williams’s path was a popular tactic in Nashville.

“Everybody I know wanted to be like Hank Williams. And everyone I know bought into the drinking,” Bare said. “You figure if Hank did it, it must be okay.”

The late Waylon Jennings, who long struggled with drug addiction, called it the “Hank Williams syndrome.”

Country and western singer and guitarist Hank Williams. He died of a heart attack in1953 at age 29 after years of alcohol and prescription drug abuse. (Associated Press) Country music legend Waylon Jennings performing in Nashville in 1984. Jennings died in 2002, after a long battle with diabetes-related health problems. He was 64. (Mark Humphrey/Associated Press)

“I studied him. . . . He was out of control, and that was the part I picked up, the bad part,” Jennings told the Chicago Tribune in 1992. “I think a lot of people did that, because it looked really romantic to be crazy and wild and die young.”

This thinking led to tragedy, such as Nashville crooner Keith Whitley dying at age 33 of alcohol poisoning.

“I thought everybody had to drink to be in this business,” Whitley said in an interview not long before his death in 1989. “Lefty [Frizzell] drank, Hank drank, George Jones was still drinking, and I had to. That’s just the way it was. You couldn’t put that soul in your singing if you weren’t about three sheets in the wind.”

Before Williams’s time, country music had been associated with alcohol as far back as the early 1900s, when many acts hailed from Appalachia, known as moonshine territory. The connection grew and faded over the years, from the 1950s honky-tonk bar craze to the alcohol-heavy outlaw era, followed by the 1980s, when people became increasingly aware of the dangers of alcohol. Mothers Against Drunk Driving reportedly protested Gene Watson’s “Drinkin’ My Way Back Home” in 1983, and it stalled on the charts. Keith said his record label didn’t want to release “You Ain’t Much Fun” in 1995, about a guy who sobers up and suddenly can’t stand his wife.

Here is a sampling of more than 100 country songs released since 2010 that have alcohol-themed titles.

Beer
“Count the Beers,” Darius Rucker
“Beer Can,” Luke Combs
Whiskey
“Hemingway’s Whiskey,” Kenny Chesney
“Wine After Whiskey,” Carrie Underwood
Drunk
“Drunk On a Plane,” Dierks Bentley
“(This Ain’t No) Drunk Dial,” A Thousand Horses
Drinks
“Drink in My Hand” Eric Church
“Haven’t Had a Drink All Day” Toby Keith

As country went mainstream in the 1990s and 2000s, the topic became more popular, and varied: Although hits including Gretchen Wilson’s “All Jacked Up,” Tracy Byrd’s “Ten Rounds With Jose Cuervo” and Keith’s ubiquitous “Red Solo Cup” celebrated getting drunk, some warned about the downside, such as Billy Currington’s “Walk a Little Straighter” and Chesney’s hit “The Good Stuff.”

Then, the past six years or so brought the rise of “bro country,” and suddenly, it seemed every hit on the radio was a dude singing about drinking beer in his truck with a pretty girl by his side. From Luke Bryan’s “Drunk on You” and Aldean’s “My Kinda Party” to Cole Swindell’s “Chillin’ It” and Shelton’s “Boys Round Here,” the songs appealed to the new surge of younger listeners.

“I think that today, the consumer likes to be in the car, turn on the radio and hear something that’s upbeat that they can sing along with and feel good,” said Troy Tomlinson, president of Sony/ATV Music Publishing in Nashville. “That doesn’t mean there won’t be a serious ballad with pain. But for the younger country music consumer, alcohol in a celebratory manner is very relatable.”

No matter the decade, country singers search for that elusive “authenticity,” which experts say remains somewhat linked to Williams — and alcohol.

“Today, country singers will still throw out references to Hank,” said Travis Stimeling, an associate professor of musicology at West Virginia University. “If you want to establish you’re a real country musician . . . you go back to same imagery and same symbolism.”

‘Part of a family’
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At Chesney’s Texas concert, Nichole Anderson of Arlington stood near a pickup truck, where a group of friends had beers in hand and explained why tailgating at a Chesney concert is almost as important as the show itself.

“He just makes you want to be part of a family, and this is what this family is,” Anderson said. “The parking lot pre-party, hanging out.”

The most boisterous tailgate was in Lot 12, and known as Lot 12 Nation; Chesney’s fandom is called No Shoes Nation, a play on one of his biggest hits, “No Shoes, No Shirt, No Problems.” (“The sun and the sand, and a drink in my hand with no bottom / And no shoes, no shirt and no problems.”) Chesney songs and pop hits blasted on speakers as people played flip cup and cornhole, snacked on barbecue and kicked back in lawn chairs. A human-size flip-flop and an enormous inflatable bottle of Blue Chair Bay Rum were popular spots for selfies.

Natalie Bechard of Starkville, Miss., is a founder of Lot 12 Nation. About 2006, a small group met on a Chesney cruise to the Bahamas and decided to start tailgating together at his Dallas shows. Now, hundreds show up. At one point, the tailgate’s DJ announced that Bechard’s car got towed while she was helping set up — so he started a collection for her next to the funds they already raised for Chesney’s charity.

It was a far cry from what some might imagine happens at country tailgates; Chesney concerts have made headlines in other cities, such as Pittsburgh and Foxborough, Mass., for getting rowdy.

In Texas, though people had stories from previous years of some fans getting a bit out of control, the tailgating scene was fairly low key.

“You’re always going to have a few that stick out,” Bechard said. “But so far, everybody’s been really great. It’s just having fun, enjoying the great weather. We’ve become one big family celebrating Kenny and his music and the spirit of his music.”

‘Start our own brand’
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No country star sells escapism quite like Chesney, who has two hit songs on country radio this summer: “Everything’s Gonna Be Alright,” a duet with David Lee Murphy that encourages people to stop stressing out, and “Get Along,” which encourages everyone in this crazy world to just, well, get along.

So it made sense when Chesney (who declined to comment for this article) decided to start selling rum, a drink that goes well with relaxation. The singer owns a home in St. John and told Forbes that he wanted his flavored versions “to try to capture my life in the islands.” Now, his rum company sponsors his concert tours.

In 2016, Forbes reported Chesney’s annual sales had almost tripled over three years, in a time when overall rum sales had dropped; according to Nielsen data, country fans outspend average music listeners by 12 percent when it comes to rum.

Someone at Chesney’s level can earn millions through alcohol brands and sponsorships, which is why other country stars have had the same idea. Lambert, Little Big Town, Sara Evans, Zac Brown Band and Craig Morgan all have sold wine; Kix Brooks of Brooks & Dunn has his own vineyard outside of Nashville. There’s also whiskey from Jake Owen and Darius Rucker, along with tequila from George Strait.

Florida Georgia Line, the duo of Brian Kelley and Tyler Hubbard, burst onto the scene in 2012 with their smash “Cruise” and proved to Nashville there was an appetite for party songs. They were vocal about their love for Fireball whiskey and even mentioned it in their hit “Round Here.”

“We reached out [to Fireball] and asked how it benefited them, and they said it was pretty drastic,” Hubbard said. “That made us feel good. But also, it made us think, why don’t we start our own brand?”

So they collaborated on Old Camp peach pecan whiskey, which combines the flavors of their home states mentioned in their band name. As the brand has taken off, they’ve named-dropped it in songs. In “Smooth,” they sing about “young love buzzing off an Old Camp bottle by the moon.” Morgan Wallen collaborated with the duo on “Up Down,” which has the line, “Somebody pass that fifth of Camp this way.”

Last year, they furthered their image as young guys who love to have a good time with the opening of FGL House in downtown Nashville, a restaurant and bar that has lines down the block on Saturday nights.

Taylor Dahlia, with January Noise, performing on the top floor of FGL House in downtown Nashville on June 16. FGL House was named after the country music duo Florida Georgia Line. (William DeShazer/For The Washington Post) Country music fans enjoy a warm summer evening on the rooftop of FGL House in downtown Nashville. (William DeShazer/For The Washington Post) A large mural covers the stairwell inside FGL House. (William DeShazer/For The Washington Post)

In Nashville, Budweiser has signs that say it’s “the official beer of beer drinking songs.” And while women have had difficulty getting alcohol sponsorships (“I love alcohol! You would think a beer company would sponsor me,” Lambert told W Magazine in 2012), Maren Morris recently partnered with Corona Light.

Companies will even endorse groups who sing tunes that aren’t so happy. Smithfield, the duo of Trey Smith and Jennifer Fiedler, broke out with the ballad “Hey Whiskey,” about a woman who dreads when her ex drinks, because then he calls her. The duo has an endorsement deal with Rebecca Creek Distillery.

“It’s kind of weird, because if you listen to the song, we always wonder, ‘Why do we have a whiskey endorsement?’ ” Fiedler joked. “Because it’s like, the whole song is about how whiskey ruins the girl’s relationship — but hey, we’re handing out whiskey.”

‘It’s a drinking environment’
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Nashville, which some winkingly call “a drinking town with a music problem,” has a well-established culture of alcohol: Writers say that grabbing a few beers is common after — or during — a songwriting session. This can make it difficult for the people in the industry who don’t drink.

Some high-profile singer-songwriters are sober, though they don’t advertise it. Others, such as Tim McGraw and Keith Urban, have spoken out about not drinking. Brantley Gilbert, who went to rehab in 2011, said that he relied on the guidance of Urban, who had gone through rehab five years earlier.

“I told him, I don’t think I can do my job. I don’t know if I can ever play a song at my shows without being [messed] up,” Gilbert told the Tennessean last year. “Or writing, I was worried my songs wouldn’t be the same, that I wouldn’t be on everyone else’s level. It’s a drinking environment.”

Gilbert still knows the appeal of drinking songs and sings about partying on tracks such as “The Weekend” and “Bottoms Up.” He’s not the only one: Chris Janson, not a frequent drinker, had a big hit with “Fix a Drink” and released a single called “Power of Positive Drinkin’.” AJ McLean of the Backstreet Boys, who is sober, recently decided to embark on a country music career and assumed the best way in was a debut single called “Back Porch Bottle Service.”

Ray Scott, known for “Sometimes the Bottle Hits You Back” and “Drinkin’ Beer,” has been sober for more than a year. Initially, he was concerned fans would be disappointed to learn he didn’t drink.

“Some fans can kind of build you up to be this thing that they think you are, and a couple of these songs sort of painted a picture of who I was,” Scott said. “I’ve been pleased that people take it for what it is. It’s just fun music; I don’t have to live the part.”

Behind the scenes, despite the casual drinking, country music isn’t necessarily the crazy party some might think.

Jason Fitz, a former fiddle player for the Band Perry, is now an ESPN radio host. The Band Perry opened for Paisley on tour in 2012, which is how he came to know that the cups from the onstage bar actually contained Vitamin Water. (Although Paisley is also known for not drinking, his publicist said the onstage bar now serves beer and has in the past, yet added that it’s possible previous tours had water because he featured opening acts younger than 21.)

“I get asked so often, ‘Tell me your craziest backstage story!’ People think I’m joking when I say, ‘There really aren’t that many,’ ” Fitz said. “You get into the grind on the road — we were on the road for about 300 days. I don’t care who you are, you can’t party and survive that many days.”

Even artists with a party-heavy playlist echo this attitude. “We like to have a good time but maybe drink a little bit less than we used to,” said Hubbard of Florida Georgia Line. “As our manager says, if you’re gonna party like a man at night, you’ve gotta work like a man in the morning.”

Chesney is also a prime example. As his lyrics celebrate having a drink, from the “little umbrella-shaped margaritas” in “How Forever Feels” to a “cold drink chilling in my right hand” in “When the Sun Goes Down,” he’s also in killer shape. He didn’t lose a second of intense energy in his nearly two-hour set.

“I probably don’t drink as much as perceived. I’m too healthy,” Chesney told Parade magazine in 2010. “But a lot of my songs were written with the idea of having a good time.”

There’s no doubt the audience appreciates this. And as Nashville continues to see dollar signs (a CMA study this spring found “country music consumers are spending more on alcohol” these days), artists will keep singing about it.

The mutual benefit is a marked difference from decades ago, when there was a negative connotation of even listening to drinking songs in country bars. Now, those establishments embrace the image. And even a Sirius XM satellite radio station proudly plays “music of country-themed bars and honky-tonks across America.” It’s called Red, White & Booze.

To the Country we go

When I read the below article it once again made me laugh as the Country music scene here is oddly inbred, stupid and utterly a reflection of the community at large – White,  Straight, Christian, Male. This means that the music must be by those who fit the category and the women are allowed if they are being fucked by the man.  I never listen to it but I do try just to be open minded.

I truly found the song repugnant but then again my knowledge of the current country music scene is zero so I cannot comment upon the reflection of that genre.  I can say that I found the song stupid as shit and cannot believe anyone had the audacity to think this was acceptable. But then again I don’t know these people but I do know the people in Nashville are stupid.  And they actually think and believe everyone else is too.

After some criticize Keith Urban’s ‘Female’ for ‘mansplaining,’ country music pushes back
By Emily Yahr The Washington Post November 21 2017

Two weeks ago, country singer Kalie Shorr had an unexpectedly emotional reaction when she heard Keith Urban’s new song “Female,” a ballad that urges respect for women. Watching Urban perform it at the CMA Awards, Shorr and her friends talked about how the message hit home (“When you hear a song that they play saying you run the world, do you believe it? Will you live to see it?”), especially coming from an influential artist in country music, where there’s a noticeable lack of women played on the radio or signed to record labels.

“All of us in some way have been slighted by the Nashville music industry, just by being women,” said Shorr, 23. “I’ve walked into offices on Music Row and had someone look me in the eye and say, ‘I think you’re a superstar and you’d be amazing at this, but you’re a woman and we just can’t take on another one right now.’ ”

So Shorr and her singer-songwriter friends enlisted several other members of the Song Suffragettes, a weekly all-women concert series, to record a cover of “Female” that now has 55,000 views on YouTube and was just released to iTunes. The Nashville artists’ excitement about Urban’s song (which flew into the top 30 on country radio) parallels a similar sentiment from country fans – and the polar opposite reaction from some outside Nashville.

Since the song’s release, some on social media declared that the ballad is “terrible” or “mansplaining.” Publications such as Elle, the Verge and the Pool were not fans of the chorus, in which Urban lists descriptors of women: “Sister, shoulder, daughter, lover … secret keeper, fortune teller, Virgin Mary, scarlet letter.” CBS’s “Late Show With Stephen Colbert” devoted a segment to mocking the ballad. Colbert called it “the first song ever written by dumping out a bin full of inspirational throw pillows” and sang a parody called “She-Person.”

“Ladies of the world, you got a raw deal. Too many times, your voices have been silenced,” Colbert intoned. “Well, I want to let you know, I hear you. Now be quiet while I explain you to you.”

The ridicule doesn’t make sense to those involved with the song, who have started to push back against the criticism – especially the negativity about Urban delivering the song, which also includes lines such as “When somebody laughs and implies that she asked for it, just cause she was wearing a skirt, is that how that works?”

“I don’t consider myself to be a watered-down feminist at all. I’m pretty hardcore about it. So I kind of feel like, ‘Oh wow, are y’all really looking at this [song] like it’s a bad thing?’” Shorr said, adding that it will “take men to help us overcome” the gender imbalance in country music. “Keith Urban is the vessel, but the message and song is from one of the most powerful women in Nashville.”

Shorr is referring to Nicolle Galyon, who wrote the track with fellow hit songwriters Shane McAnally and Ross Copperman in October. McAnally brought the idea of the title “Female” — he’s still not sure how he came up with it — and explains that, despite initial reports, the song is not really centered around Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein’s sexual misconduct allegations, which were revealed a few days before they sat down to write.

“We were talking about Harvey Weinstein, that was in the news, but that led to a much greater conversation. He had nothing to do with the story,” McAnally said. The trio didn’t write the song with a particular artist in mind, but were thrilled when Urban was interested — and wondered if it might make more of an impact for a male artist singing about women’s equality.

“When Shane said ‘Female,’ I didn’t think instantly about everything that was going on in the world. I was thinking for me about the women that I knew, and the woman that I am, and the one I’m trying to raise,” said Galyon, who has a young daughter. “I was thinking, ‘How would I want someone to describe me as a female?’ ”

Colbert in particular made fun of the list of words in the chorus (his version: “Lady-woman, vagina-owner, lipstick, bangs, organ donor”) although he emphasized that he’s a big fan of Urban. “I think his heart is in the right place,” Colbert said. “His lyrics, not as much.”

To Galyon, Colbert missed the point of why the song is a positive development for country music, which is inundated with male singers crooning, “Hey, girl, what’s up?” songs, as Galyon put it; she has helped write many of them. So that’s why it’s critical to include a different viewpoint, she said, and one that “celebrates women.”

“To be honest, I felt like the Stephen Colbert thing was unnecessary,” Galyon said. “It felt unaware of our genre. Because if you’re going to pick a song to criticize on this topic, this is the last song that you should pick.”

Vanilla Bean

I suspect it is only a matter of time before a Country Rapper emerges and can anoint himself with the above moniker.   If anything exists with “New” Country is the parallel to the “New” South, less racist more classist as its motto.

There is a money obsession here that boggles the mind and I come from Seattle where money is the drug of choice thanks to Amazon, Microsoft, et. al.  And in turn it shows that white is right when it comes to green.  Irony that new country borrows a lot from old hip hop except Cowboy boots and hats versus Baseball hats and high end sneakers.

I wrote in my last post about how insincere the CMA’s are and in turn the push for money has led them to be utterly silent when it comes to guns and gun control, while simulaneously surrounding themselves with more security than an airport and in turn denying respect to all deaths from both gun violence and hurricanes.  We cannot have science or gun control in the land of Jesus it would offend the fans!

So when I read this I was relieved or exonerated, whatever.


Country music is becoming the soundtrack of a nonexistent, apolitical no-place

By Chris Richards The Washington Post November 9 at 11:38 AM

Country singers like to talk about how they provide fans with a form of escape, but that just can’t be right. How are songs about everyday life supposed to help us escape from our everyday lives? Country music isn’t a way out of reality. It’s a way to get deeper inside of it.

But then I heard Brad Paisley — mainstream country’s most progressive utopian — sing an ode to small towns called “Heaven South” during Wednesday’s Country Music Association Awards in Nashville and everything felt upside down. “Turn on the news, you’d think the world ain’t got a prayer,” the song went. “But if you turn it off and look around, it’s just another day in Heaven South.”

So all of our planet’s problems will go away if we stop paying attention to them? I guess that’s one way to escape reality, but it was still disheartening to see Paisley, the CMA telecast’s co-host for the 10th consecutive year, acquiescing to Nashville’s disengagement reflex and encouraging listeners to “turn it off.” Especially at this year’s CMAs, where not one artist found the courage to say a single word about gun control after 58 fans were shot dead at a country music festival in Las Vegas last month.

And sure, nobody expected the CMAs to transform into a three-hour town hall discussion about the Second Amendment. But did anyone expect such monolithic quiet after such a catastrophic event? Apparently, the ghost of the Dixie Chicks’ career still haunts this town in terrifying ways. (In case you forgot, the colossally popular country trio spoke out against President George W. Bush at a concert in 2003 and were instantly boycotted by radio stations across the country, sending the entirety of mainstream country into a state of political paralysis that has lasted 14 years and counting.)

Now, a style of music that used to proudly address the real-life struggles of real-life Americans won’t go near the issue that everyone in our harried republic is struggling with. After last month’s massacre in Las Vegas, 26 more people were killed in a shooting inside a church in Texas — the setting of countless country songs. Yet, instead of singing about life in America, today’s country stars are singing about an apolitical no-place that doesn’t actually exist. I guess it’s called Heaven South, and apparently, you protect it by circling the wagons.

That was the plan at Wednesday’s CMAs. “Tonight, we’re going to do what families do,” co-host Carrie Underwood promised at the top of the telecast. “There’s a family in this room,” Miranda Lambert said after winning female vocalist of the year. “We’re a family,” Garth Brooks said after taking the night’s biggest prize, entertainer of the year. And so the brightest names in country music stood together in the name of standing together — which is basically what happens at this tightknit industry function every November. It was still the same annual group hug, this time just a little tighter.
Eric Church performs at the CMA Awards. (Rick Diamond/Getty Images)
Maren Morris and Niall Horan perform at the CMA Awards. (Rick Diamond/Getty Images)

Despite the circumstances, the telecast’s organizers were hoping for a business-as-usual night anyway. Last week, after CMA officials announced that they reserved the right to eject any journalist who asked an artist about their politics, Paisley immediately spoke out against that preemptive censorship, tweeting, “I’m sure the CMA will do the right thing and rescind these ridiculous and unfair press guidelines.”

And voila, they were promptly rescinded. But that didn’t embolden any of the artists to volunteer their thoughts on the state of the nation on Wednesday night, not even Paisley. “I love the way we’ve all come together,” he said during one interstitial segment, as if he might be warming up some spontaneous bombshells. Then he confessed that he’d “gone off script,” and returned to the business of introducing the next performer.

As for the night’s performances, many of them felt intentionally ordinary, save for Keith Urban singing “Female,” a new solidarity anthem intended as a response to the sexual assault and harassment scandals detonating across Hollywood. He wasn’t taking a risky position here, and the song’s lyrics aren’t the greatest, but the sentiment was welcome. Then again, we were watching a man sing about feminism at an awards show where there were no female nominees for the top prize.

But Urban had the right idea. Awards shows give you an opportunity to say something significant in an acceptance speech, but a great song tends to send a message much further, and some artists have already gotten to work on that front. In the days following last month’s shooting in Las Vegas, Maren Morris released “Dear Hate,” a ballad about the eternal fight between love and evil. Eric Church penned a song about survivor’s guilt called “Why Not Me.” And while both Morris and Church performed at Wednesday’s CMAs, they didn’t sing either of these new tunes. Why not?

It left Underwood to give the evening’s most somber performance, singing the hymn “Softly and Tenderly” during an “in memoriam” segment that honored the concert attendees slain in Las Vegas. In the song’s final phrases, she sounded as if her voice had suddenly vanished from her throat — there were a few short pauses where the words couldn’t get out.

And when it was finally over, you might have wondered about all the words that everyone else in the building had purposefully chosen to swallow throughout the night. Surely, today’s country stars have more to say about this nation, its leaders and its laws, and the fate of the people they’re singing to. But if those words aren’t coming out now, when will they ever?

Bless This

The CMA Awards were last night here in Nashville and most of the downtown streets were closed for safety, ironically the safe word for all Nashville.  Mine for the record is Jeff Sessions.

But of course one artist, Sturgill Simpson, stood outside to denounce the original request to not ask about Guns.  I have no clue who this guy is but that should endear him to those against facism. Those who don’t live in Tennessee.

I suggested a drinking game where you drink every time the word “Blessed” is used in conjunction with “Thanking God or Jesus” no Jews, Atheists, Muslims, Sikhs, Hindu, Buddhists or any other faith need to worry.  Why?  They won’t win and if they do they are immediately converted to Christianity, its the “Nashville Way.”  ***I am still unclear what that way is exactly so does anyone know the way to San Jose as I get the Valley’s way, way more than Nashville’s.

But as I suspected tributes/memorials/honors/histrionics abounded about the victims of the Vegas massacre.  I suspect (clearly I did not watch) that mention of the deaths in the Church in Texas were also mentioned as it was a Church damn it!   The one it Antioch probably not. The deaths in New York probably not.   The deaths at the Walmart probably not.  Nor were any of the other 500 plus victims of gun violence this year. 

Country Music is just one step below Congress being bought and owned by the NRA.  And I am sure there were no mentions of the Gay Predatory Publicist who was Nashville’s Kevin Spacey.  Well he was Gay and we know how well Gay and Country mix, sort of like that with Black or Mexican.   Hey they have their own music!

Again this is an industry town and by industry for now that still is the Medical profession. The amount of hospitals and medical insurers located here.   The largest portion of the other industry is uninsured lowly paid music professionals just outside looking in.   At the last fundraiser in Centennial Park I heard over 50K are working without any job security which includes health care and other long term financial security.  So welcome there is a fake celebrity named bar calling your name to work for tips!  ***I love these joints they have three stories, music on every floor and named after some band or individual as if those idiots are going to be behind the bar some night flinging drinks.  There is your working for tips.

Right now I am waiting to get out of my home to go to work at the school down the road, the road blocked by the CSX trains as they do every day at both rush hours.  The city has authorized a soccer stadium to built just down this same road in a pitch to get an MLS club.  I pray no. To Jesus.

I pray every day I walk into a Nashville Public School.  I love when a Teacher leaves notes that say “Just ensure that they do the work and get on them.” Right not going to happen.  These children are damaged beyond belief.  Regardless of the school I will encounter a black child (yes let’s be frank here but I have had children of all colors be nuts but again I am sorry this is the reality) who will say something so bizarre and so distressing that I have no idea what to say anymore.  The issue of smell is the one that has been most common and the other is about my black clothing.  A young boy walked in and said immediately, “Why does this room smell funky?”  I responded, “That is just me, old white lady close to death, care to smell it closer?” And I thrust out my wrist.  He laughed.  The last week was the inquiry about me farting?  When I inquired if that is how I smelled I guess chili is out for dinner tonight and a trip to the Doctor may be in order to see if there is something wrong with me as I did not knowingly emit gas but again that may be a problem.  His response, “Jus playin wit you.”   I said I was relieved as I was worried so good thing.  I disappointed him. The same with young girls commenting on my nose was it fixed? Did I have cats?  What is my favorite color as I am wearing black or am I a goth.   And they openly discuss this in my hearing and sight range before they ask me as if I am blind and deaf.  And all of these come from Children who are black.  Not African American as that is another entire group, like Mexican American, or Asian etc.  There are children from Africa so they take that moniker and American children are called black as many American black individuals have said they want nothing to do with African people due to their role in Slavery.  I actually think it is because they are largely Muslim but again I get it.  And I pretty much stick to the 70s anyway.

The schools here with the most violence are largely black and most of the youth violence affects that community and with some overlap into the Latino communities but nowhere near the level that affects the black community.  And for reasons that I am clear, it is not to be discussed.  We are not to mention anything to do with race and in turn never resolve the differences that have allowed this to happen and continue to happen until we do.  And we won’t.

The schools have decided that the way to reduce suspensions is to install bizarre codes of ethics, restorative justice programs and in turn allow the students to run amok unchecked.  I watched a girl while I was standing there along with another Teacher in a classroom walk up to the board and write “Shut the fuck up” and I walked up and erased it and said to the other Teacher, “Is that acceptable?”  She then asked if I had a picture of it or did anyone see it?  Yes I, the 58 year old woman would lie about this and why? And the last time I had a phone out it was stolen so that is last thing I would do and again it is illegal to take photos of children here in class settings without permission.  This filed under YOUHAVEGOTTOBEFUCKINGKIDDINGME.  So she did write it up and all that this girl needed to do was apologize but again this is the reality.  It is why 99.9% of the time I take all the dry erase markers up and put them away.  The children here have no filters or boundaries in which to comprehend nor understand about how their behaviors, words and actions reflect on them.   This young lady was not black and I was relieved for once that is why I actually pursued it. Had she been black I would have erased it without comment.  The race card has been tossed so much that I am no longer willing to pick it up so like all people here in the South, ignore it. 

I do laugh at the scent shit because a few years ago a Teacher in Seattle had sever allergies and sent home letters to all Student’s families asking them to restrain their children from wearing perfume, colognes or any scented hair products.   Charles Mudede a writer for the Stranger took that as a Racist comment as one of his children were in her class and used an olive oil based hair product and he felt that he should not be forced or obliged to meet the demands of a white woman.  It escalated, the Teacher took a leave and eventually later he transferred that child to a private school as there were other issues that needed addressing that had nothing to do with racist scent phobia allergic teachers.   That now seems mild in comparison to what I hear still goes on in Seattle schools but there is nothing like what goes on here on a daily basis.

Here in Nashville across the board in schools from elementary to high school there are many problems regarding the students and they inflict their rage on any Teacher regardless of their color.  The Teacher whom I subbed for last week out due to being head butted was an Asian woman and I met her yesterday and said that her students were amazing and they were. And why? That is a reflection of her and her skills as a Teacher.  I walk into many classes and cannot say the same and they are Elementary, Middle and High Schools. I am down to half days only in middle schools they are that bad. Even the woman in the room with me that morning with fuck off writing said, “Cancel all your gigs here, I would.”  Nuff said.

Think Cuntry music would help us with this?  Well the school I am at today he donated a music room.  Okay then.  Magic Johnson was a Maplewood school where you go to learn to sexually harass and abuse people and what a great opportunity to discuss violence or homosexuality and bullying as his son is very very gay.  And the Black community has issues with regards to this and yet nothing. It was the same old same old get an education.  Sure if you live that long.

Hell Donald Trump and Melania could do wonders for learning disabilities as I and another Special Education teacher were discussing Baron. Yes he is clearly on the spectrum but nope just stop vaccinations that will resolve it.  Like mental health providers diagnosing everyone in America to see who is prone to gun violence in their entire life.  Do we get it like a Drivers License every 5 years?

I am done excusing and explaining that poverty and in turn one’s color thanks to the ever increasing rich white men who have done little more than protect their own enhanced America’s racial divide.  I have said repeatedly that many Immigrants who come here are the most conservative as they have experienced first hand a poverty and violence that few here remotely understand and in turn that may explain why they too turn to violence as a response when the reality and the isolation mix in. The ones who successfully integrate are all life long Republicans.  Dinesh  D’Souza anyone?   That said, I have never done one goddamm thing to any child or individual of color in my life deliberately to hurt them. If I have done so inadvertently it was not due to their color or faith or sexuality.  I have gone out of my way trying to justify, assist and excuse these same children to the point of overlooking and ignoring those who might have benefited from my help more and that is my one regret in teaching.  I think of the kids and by the way I know which ones I failed, I failed, due to the endless demands made on me to help those kids who simply are so broken and damaged they should have been placed in environments that would have enabled them to get the kind of help they needed.  The reality of it is I am not privileged and white, I am just white.  I am a woman and I have my own cross to bear and we are all in this together and should lift each other but we do not.  If there is one thing I have learned here since moving to Nashville, Trump is a walking talking example of what I see everyday here.   The New Yorker is very Southern indeed.

It is why I finally am bailing on Teaching.  I can’t pick and choose, I got to work with the cards I am dealt and they too worn out to even assess what you can do with them.  Cards is a mental agility game and I can’t keep playing.  It also explains why we see this push towards racism. Americans now are much like the same immigrants that are arriving from war torn damaged countries and they plant resentment and anger towards whatever target they feel is somehow taking what is theirs.  Gee ya think getting bombed out and your village destroyed would be the topper but in America nope.  Every beggar here is a chooser.  I have never seen anything quite like what we see now when it comes to taking jobs, food or any number of offers that come one’s way when one is in trouble.  I love the homeless lady I clean out my pantry every week and take her my leftovers refused my peanut butter crackers as she does not like them. Okay then!

And will I take her a menu next time? Nope. I am over giving her anything.  Even I am not above refusal.    So in turn we have to destroy everything as a rebuke for the audacity of saying no. And when one takes said gigs or asks for help from the Government they are presumed weaker and therefore in Survival of the Fittest they must be removed.  It is Lord of the Flies only of a larger scale.

And that is what is taking place in the schools. When I read this from last spring before the end of the school year it did not surprise me.  I heard, saw, knew of much of it and there is nothing I can do. Nothing.  And I want no part of being a complicit enabler of this.  This being Institutional Racism, Cultural traditions, Class Warfare. None of it.   God Bless us everyone!


School violence among reasons teachers leaving Metro
By Joseph Pleasant Published: April 27, 2017,

NASHVILLE, Tenn. (WKRN) – Unruly students, fights in school, and a lack of support from campus administrators are among the top motivating factors for teachers leaving the Metro-Nashville school district.

“We will have, from time to time, positions where there are three different people in it within one school year,” said Dr. Erick Huth with Metro Nashville Education Association. “In some cases, a teacher will resign the same day they start.”

Metro Schools employs around 11,000 teachers to handle a student population of around 86,000 kids.

“There appears to be a district-wide effort by principals to diminish the reporting of events of violence,” Dr. Huth said. ”It is one of the things we saw to some extent last year, and I think it is more serious this year.”

Information about the number of assaults by students on Metro campuses was not available at the time of this article.

Dr. Huth said changes implemented to the student code of conduct and the consequences for violating the code of conduct last year impacted student behavior.

“We went from a system where there were prescribed punishments for certain infractions,” he said. “The district eliminated all of those prescribed punishments. The result has been that the reporting of assaults and fights involving students has diminished.”

Another result, Dr. Huth said, is more unruly students who do not fear punishment.

“We have reports from teachers that students will charge them, butt them with their heads, and there is nothing that happens to the student,” he explained to News 2. “Students throw desks, students throw desks and chairs, and nothing happens.”

He continued, “What we need is the system to take some of these acts of violence more seriously and actually have a punishment instead what they are doing right now, which is talking to students and sending them back to class.”

Dr. Huth provided messages sent from teachers at a Metro middle school that he forwarded to the central office.

One of the messages said:

There was a fight Monday, March 13 during the 7th and 8th grade lunch transition. Coach who monitors all the lunches, was calling for help on the walkie. Ms. [Redacted] and I ran down to assist. One of the boys in this fight was in the gang fight two weeks ago.

The guidance counselor was reprimanded after this fight for saying this school isn’t safe, our kids are not safe. A student has not been to any of her classes since 3/1/17. She is so scared of some girls who threatened to fight her that she hides in other grade level classes. She is so scared that she is hiding out and not doing any of her work. Administration is aware of this and nothing has been done.

Teachers would like a climate survey so our concerns can be heard and addressed. Students have also voiced their concerns and how they are no consequences for anything that happens. Safety has been mentioned by students in several classrooms. The students also mentioned that students who are suspended still come to school and are allowed to stay at school even though they are suspended. This is true and it happens daily.

In a separate message, a teacher wrote:

I need to alert you to what is happening at our school. Yesterday, we had another gang fight. It was really bad and brutal. Students arrested, being taken out on stretchers, etc. All because our principal could not get rid of one student that came back to us from ALC after Christmas. He has promoted gangs and has caused many other students to act out. This is our second gang fight in two weeks and the teachers here do not feel safe. This student basically does what he wants around here and when you speak out on him and his actions, you are looked down on.

News 2 sent those messages to Metro Schools, who replied with the following statement:

Every day, principals in Metro Schools make decisions to manage student behavior. The district is making strides to provide more training and resources to support principals in this work.

As part of the district’s school culture and climate reform efforts, the district is developing a multi-tiered support system that includes academic and behavioral management. The district is working with the Tennessee Department of Education, CASEL, local providers, and schools to improve processes and procedures to maintain staff and student safety.

This includes plans for trainings for all administrators and staff on schoolwide behavioral management plans, classroom management best practices, and how to provide appropriate consequences for behavior while helping students overcome the barriers they may face.

Preaching or Singing

Living in Nashville makes me think about the South and its utter inability to be consistent and in turn send constantly mixed messages.

Case in point: Southern Hospitality. What is the impression of that phrase? Overwhelming kindness, generosity, openness and a sense of welcoming and belonging? Well no. It is usually a combination of general manners, greetings by name (yes every coffee shop I go to and there are a LOT recall my name and address me as such) or by “Ma’am” or “Sir”.  Then we have Thank you and excuse me. Again normal courtesy’s that one hopes and expects anywhere. I am born and raised in the North and that common courtesy and golden rule ethic dominates my life that even when home and I sneeze I say “Excuse me” and I am alone!

The other concept with regards to hospitality is the offer of food and drink, invitations to join them and of course generosity in spirit and effusiveness that enables them to embrace strangers as their own. This is not anything more than a myth and legend. I have never experienced any such thing and I have tried. Tried and tried again and now I don’t care. They are incredibly rude, judgmental and utter hypocrites. The lack of education, the provincial -ness – meaning that they see their world through their Southern glasses tinted heavily pink to model their true beliefs –  and their overall political  conservatism and religion which enables them to reflect a faux open mindedness with a touch of bitchery thrown in.

And while my encounters with the “natives” here as they like to refer to themselves, note the irony about the concept of nativism, has been less than idyllic.   I do think that in a crisis they would rally as we have seen repeatedly elsewhere where tragedy has struck; however, Nashville is not the exception to the rule, and while they  think and believe they are I doubt it.  And this concerns me as I sense  that they so desperately want a disaster to the level of Vegas or New York to somehow prove it.  It terrifies me more than an actual disaster.  These are people who stop you waiting for a cab or a bus and go, “Are you alright?”  My first response so wants to be: “What the fuck do I look like I am in trouble or that rough?”  It has happened one time to many to think this is normal and in turn I am beginning to think it is an invitation to be hurt as if you say yes then the next thing they do is fuck you up.  Funny when I tripped in the street recently and fell flat on my face not one person help me up or asked how I was, so I find the odd inquiry when standing or sitting naturally just waiting peculiar.   So to recount, I have been waiting for a bus or Uber and been asked many times if I am okay.  I have been sitting on a bleacher in a park adjacent to a school, getting out of an Uber at the same school and sitting in my home drinking coffee and had the Police called to inquire the same.  Huh?  So I guess helping people means not helping those actually in need but when  a big crisis arrives they will bring the big guns… literally.

I suspect that is the case everywhere and it is only in a moment of crisis do you find out how good ordinary people can be but here in Nashville they wish to somehow prove that in ways I find deeply disturbing. They discuss the most idiotic crimes be they here or anywhere with the most deepest intensity that yes a scooter was stolen from a yard sorry to hear about that but yes that makes the news. And why so someone can be “hero” and find the criminal.  It is like Clue for real life.  So there is a constant state of ALERT that at times is utterly discomforting and bizarre.  From weather to traffic each day we are out there to navigate our way through life’s challenges that put us at constant risk.   It makes one wonder if they truly want something bad to happen so they can show the world what great victims and martyrs they are. Two concepts are mutually inclusive in the Christian rhetoric.  (Listen to the song below to prove my point)

Then we have the CMA awards this weekend or this week, I have no actual clue nor care but when I read that reporters are not to ask about Guns, Shootings, Vegas or Gun Control  I busted out laughing.   Of course this is the South and immediately the rescinded and apologized for their free press suppression.  (Told ya Donald Trump the first modern Southern President)   That constant contradiction is normal here but I found it oddly amusing and distressing  as they never stop discussing the “Nashville” connection to the shootings as a resident of a nearby town died. His funeral/memorial/tribute is now a month old and ongoing. They did the same for a Cop who died so they sort of dig death here. But the rest of America has moved on as we cannot talk about gun control on the national stage either.

 But the Church shooting in Antioch that supposedly generated the White Gangbanger meetup in small town Shelbyville and then cancelled Murfreesboro nary a mention on National news  but an article in the New York Times about it which no one reads here as it is fake and all. (Trust me getting it delivered is an ordeal) But this was a hate crime in Antioch as we have come to learn, and miracle only one killed.  And you would think that an Immigrant, Muslim, Black from the Sudan no less would be big news across the country with the White Chief, even the big White Brotherhood failed to generate interest sufficiently to have any significant mention on National news. Why? No one died big time. They want big time death here in a big way.

Nashville is largely a tourist town and an industry town. So when a local publicist was now accused of sexually harassing and raping boys who worked for him and had a hostile work environment a la Harvey Weinstein, and while  this is local news and should be National news (note the capital N for NATIONAL) as he represented very big names in Country, such as Dolly Parton (whose entire management team was Gay men, she is smart given what we know now) I have not seen one word. Gee and Kevin Spacey does? Well he is A list Gay.

This is a City who longs to be A List but clearly B list unless someone takes out a high powered rifle and promptly shoots hundreds killing nearly 60, leaving many with permanent life long injuries that will take immense patience, diligence and money in which to survive and overcome.  And for many the psychological damage will be much like a Soldier in battle, something to think about.

Country is so insincere so needy, the awards, the nominating, the anointing, it is no wonder it all started in a Church.

**After I wrote this a.m. there was a shooting in an equally small town and small Church in Texas killing 23.  There is some nutfuck here wishing the black dude in Antioch had only killed more.  

 
Country music avoided politics this year. Then Las Vegas happened. Will anything change?
By Emily Yahr The Washington Post November 2

NASHVILLE — Cowboy hat pulled low over his eyes, Jason Aldean walked into the glittering Schermerhorn Symphony Center at the live taping of CMT’s Artists of the Year special.

It was mid-October, two weeks after a gunman started firing bullets during Aldean’s set at the Route 91 Harvest festival in Las Vegas, killing 58 people and injuring hundreds more in the deadliest mass shooting in modern U.S. history.

In the days after the horror, Aldean visited victims in the Las Vegas hospital and appeared on “Saturday Night Live” to perform Tom Petty’s “I Won’t Back Down.” He was now back in Nashville, and all eyes were on him. During commercial breaks, fellow country stars swarmed around his table. A prominent radio executive gave him a hug.

“It could have been any one of us standing on that stage,” singer Luke Bryan said, introducing him as one of five honorees of the night. “Jason Aldean has responded with dignity, care, respect and, in some ways, defiance.”

The mood of the annual event, which the network declared “a night of hope and healing” instead of the usual lighthearted trophy ceremony, was compassionate and somber — and, unlike nearly every other award show in 2017, completely devoid of politics.

In a year when it felt like everything in pop culture became a political flash point — TV sitcoms, the NFL, the Golden Globe Awards — country music managed to not say much of anything at all. This surprised no one familiar with the Nashville industry’s whispered advice about political beliefs: Avoid making them public.

But after the Las Vegas massacre, the format was suddenly linked with the contentious gun control debate. On Wednesday, millions will tune into the 51st annual Country Music Association Awards, the genre’s biggest night in the national spotlight. Can country music singers still get away with not voicing an opinion?

The answer is “probably,” and the reasons are complicated — especially for a genre that has become more mainstream and gotten more popular in liberal-leaning cities, but whose fan base is considered largely conservative. Not to mention the format’s ties to the National Rifle Association.

“I’ve talked to between 15 and 20 artists . . . and they’re torn. Not about how they feel, because that’s not even the issue. They’re split on just speaking out about it,” said Bobby Bones, the syndicated country morning radio host who performed at the festival with his band, the Raging Idiots. “The issue as a country artist is you feel like if you say something wrong, your audience is going to turn on you . . . and their publicists have all said, ‘Don’t talk about it. Just don’t talk about it.”

Margo Price, a country singer and songwriter who broke out with an acclaimed debut album last year, was horrified when she saw the news about Las Vegas. The next day, she took to Twitter.

“We need stricter gun control, plain and simple,” she wrote. “And I say that as someone who owns a firearm. . . . But no one with mental health problems should be able to get his hands on a machine gun.”

Price said she got some criticism (“STFU on politics already lady. #nobodycaresaboutyouropinion”) but not much. Granted, she’s signed to Jack White’s independent Nashville record label, where there’s an “Icky Trump” sign in the office, so her circumstances are different from major-label artists.

“I have some people on Twitter who say, ‘You’re not big enough to talk about politics; you don’t want to alienate your crowd; you need to separate your music and political beliefs,’ ” Price said. However, she reasoned, at the beginning of your career, you might as well show people who you really are. “More people should be unafraid to speak out.”

The common assumption is that country singers don’t talk politics because they’re terrified of ending up like the Dixie Chicks, who criticized President George W. Bush on the eve of the Iraq War in 2003 and wound up essentially blacklisted from the industry. Although that situation was an unusually perfect storm primed for controversy, the fear lingers, particularly with an issue so complex. Often, singers think they don’t have the authority to say anything at all.

“I think sometimes it’s important to speak, sometimes it’s important not to speak. [It’s about] finding that balance and also trying to not let society and social media put that pressure on you too much,” said Tyler Hubbard of the duo Florida Georgia Line, also an honoree at Artists of the Year.

The main reaction from artists after Las Vegas has been calling for prayers and urging Americans to unite after such a hateful act; several have released new songs to benefit the victims. Caleb Keeter, guitarist for the Texas-based Josh Abbott Band, was one of the only musicians other than Price to take an ideological side — after surviving the shooting, he wrote an emotional post about how, as a Second Amendment supporter, he now understood the need for gun control.

Keeter’s publicist declined a request for him to comment for this story, just as multiple other Nashville publicists did on behalf of their artists.

“That’s a no-win issue,” said Beverly Keel, professor and chair of Middle Tennessee State University’s Department of Recording Industry. “Now, if the people there that night [in Las Vegas] wanted to talk about it, that would make a lot of sense, and they would have the credibility to do that. But otherwise, if the experts can’t even come to a compromise, then I think the feeling is ‘What would I have to add?’ ”

Their silence also speaks to how modern country singers see themselves and their job. On the one hand, they’re humans who probably have opinions about gun control on both ends of the spectrum. On the other, they’re entertainers, and as part of a genre that prides itself on relatable songs and accessibility, they see the most valuable thing they can do is provide fans an escape.

“When things go bad, doctors go to work. When things go bad, policemen go to work. When things go bad, music and musicians go to work,” superstar Garth Brooks said in a video the day after the shooting. “Those people in those seats? They come to get away from it all.”

The other root of the issue, of course, is financial — singers don’t want to risk losing their livelihoods by potentially alienating fans. The demographics of the country audience have changed over the years, with popular artists (Florida Georgia Line, Sam Hunt, Carrie Underwood) singing about small-town life with a pop-centric sound that easily fits into the mainstream music scene; cities from New York to Boston to Los Angeles all have solid country fanbases. Still, country music has a massively devoted rural audience.

It’s one of the reasons that NRA Country, the “lifestyle” arm of the NRA, sees value in partnering with Nashville singers, many of whom are avid hunters and conservationists. Artists perform at NRA Country-sponsored concerts and events, while the organization promotes new albums and features artists on its website and online TV show.

“If you poll our members, they love country music,” Vanessa Shahidi, director of NRA Country, told the Tennessean in 2015. “Everything country singers sing about, they live their lives the way our members live their lives.”

NRA Country, which did not return multiple requests for comment, isn’t seen as the end-all, be-all of promotional opportunities — although it does offer a connection to millions of the organization’s members. Bill Werde, the former editorial director of Billboard magazine, recalled hearing about a country star whose music was going to be used to help publicize a “gun safety” issue. Then, he said, when the NRA became aware of it, the big plan suddenly became much smaller.

“The NRA can make your life miserable,” said Don Cusic, a country music historian and professor at Belmont University. “And they would.”

As it gets more difficult for singers to sell music, many don’t want to turn down any chance to appeal to new fans. “I don’t even look at it being part of the NRA,” said one Nashville publicist who works with several acts that have partnered with the brand and requested anonymity because of the issue’s sensitivity. “It’s just a lifestyle thing for the artist, and it’s a lot of eyeballs for our artists and their music.”

After Las Vegas, the NRA Country social media accounts went silent for a couple weeks. Rolling Stone reported that Florida Georgia Line and Thomas Rhett quietly disappeared from the “featured artist” portion of the website, the same thing that happened with Blake Shelton and Luke Bryan after the Newtown massacre in 2012.

Then, in mid-October, the NRA Country Facebook account posted a photo of an American flag underneath the caption, “Land of the free because of the brave.” Since then, it’s business as usual, promoting new music from Granger Smith and Drew Baldridge.

“I think the first and foremost thing on my mind is the fact that people were hurt and are still hurting,” singer and NRA Country featured artist Lee Brice, who performed at the Route 91 Harvest festival, said a few days after the shooting. “When it comes to political stuff and guns and things like that — I’m all for regulation, I’m all for making things better, you know, I really am. And I think the NRA is all about that, too.”

Some, however, see country music singers’ reluctance to speak on anything related to guns, even education and safety, as a missed opportunity. Werde points to a recent NPR-Ipsos poll that showed the majority of Americans, no matter what their political party, are in favor of tighter gun restrictions.

“Who are these [country artists] so terrified of? Why are they so terrified of it?” said Werde, now director of the Bandier Music Industry program at Syracuse University. He added, “I am not picking on Nashville . . . but because of its relationship to the NRA, because of its sort of cultural affiliations to those that lean independent and Republican, country music has a unique position. I hope behind the scenes, they’ll own that a little bit.”

At the CMT Artists of the Year ceremony, the focus was solely on the music, and on the victims of Las Vegas; the hurricanes in Florida, Texas and Puerto Rico; the wildfires in California; and the deadly white supremacist rally in Charlottesville.

“We’ve been tested beyond our worst nightmares the last few months. Heartbroken doesn’t even begin to explain how some of us feel,” Aldean said during the show. “But we have proven time and again in this country that we have the power to overcome anything that threatens our way of life or our freedom.”

Everyone in the tightknit Nashville community knew someone who was in Las Vegas. Some describe a “fog” that continues to hang over the town, as people who witnessed the violence are starting to recover from the shock.

Jordan Mitchell, a new singer-songwriter and Las Vegas native who moved to Nashville 2½ years ago, was backstage at the festival when bullets started flying. She and her band members hid first between Aldean’s tour buses, and then ran to an airport hangar, where they stayed for hours.

She was grateful for the support she received when she got back home. The only place she’s heard the gun control debate brought up is from the news and reporters who contacted her.

“That’s just not what we’re thinking about at all,” she said. “I’ve never heard a conversation like that happening. Everyone’s just kind of been like, ‘Let’s all take care of each other and do our best to make good music and make this world a better place the only way we know how.’ ”